Hello everyone! In the busy junior high school year, I am honored to have this opportunity to speak here. We are in the third year, similar to the revolution, and the initial stage has made us weather-beaten. In this school year, which is full of confusion for us, many question marks are always issued in our minds. We are walking at the crossroads of life, and we can't help feeling, "What should we do now?" Yes, many of us are thinking about this problem all the time. We feel very confused, helpless and regretful. I am trapped in my future, helpless now, regretting the forgotten time before. We have to ask ourselves again, "Is it too late?" This is really a serious problem. Even if many people in front of you tell you it's too late, you will still be there thinking about this problem.
It is an undeniable fact that everyone has failed. However, how should we face the failure? Fortunately, the teacher told us the method from primary school, and we all listened to it. We have listened to 1000 times since primary school. But why do many of us still stand still? Because we don't face every failure seriously, we have no experience in facing failure. Failure is terrible. Parents will scold you, teachers will condemn you, and classmates will laugh at you. As soon as this pile of things arrived, we were at a loss Our first reaction was to put it aside and let him talk about it later. But every failure is similar, that is, their effects are similar. Every failure disappoints you and makes you afraid to face it.
There must be more than one failure in a long life, right? From the first failure, we embarked on such a road of no return. If no one corrects you, I'll tell you. If you fail the second time, you'll go this way, right? Over time, such cowardly escape has become a habit, and what I did wrong before is always so unbearable. When ambition comes at us, we cheat it and repel it with our conscience. Many times it comes, but we always cheat it and beat it back. It is also a spiritual thing. The blow we gave it made it very timid and afraid of us, so it slowly moved away from us. We seem to recall something at a moment of failure, but we can't remember its name. Its name is self-motivated. When it comes to self-motivation, everyone says yes. What's so good about it? It gives us confidence and makes us face difficulties bravely. It is our loyal friend. It gives us motivation, let us actively open the shackles in our hearts, move forward and move forward, which is the key to our success. It gives us constant care and reminder, and raises every leap of our thoughts. It is a good friend of mankind, and we are really ashamed of it. The most beautiful thing in the sky is the stars, and the most precious thing in the world is friendship. When we leave our most sincere heart to a friend, don't forget that there is such a friend. So how can we get this old friend back? First of all, we must be friends with it again. First of all, we should establish a common hobby, for example, we must face failures and setbacks bravely like it. Then carry forward their own advantages, that is, seriously think about the reasons for failure in the failure and correct it in the right way. An old friend will secretly pay attention to you under your style, and will not be tempted for a while. At this time, we just need to treat you in the same way every time we fail. "The prodigal son never looks back!" It will definitely come back to us. Will we let go again at this time?
The above is a brief introduction to this method of making friends, and we must deeply analyze its conditions. That is, we should establish self-confidence and broaden our horizons. This means that you must look at the world with a philosophical mind. The times need philosophers, the society needs philosophers, and the construction of the motherland needs philosophers even more. As the saying goes, "Smile, it's ten years old. A sorrow, a white! " Time goes by day, happy, time will pass, sad, time will pass. Instead of living in sadness, why not stay happy and live? There are many subjects in grade three, and many people lament that liberal arts are complicated and science is difficult. However, important subjects don't change every year. We have to face them every year. Why can't we watch them with a smile? When magicians use fickle tricks to create all kinds of things, we can't help but wonder how these things came from. After thinking hard for a long time, we still haven't come up with an answer. When we carefully study the people and things around us, or observe them on the spot, it is easy to solve the mystery. Such a ridiculous answer was discovered only when the truth came out, but times have changed. Misleading mentality is a mystery, and it's only our initial misunderstanding that it's discovered after it's uncovered. Therefore, we should cherish time, cherish the present, grasp our own mentality and face a brand-new self with a smile. Gorky said: "It is never too old to learn."
Open your heart and smile at the world. You lost yourself, but you won the world. Since you have chosen a distant place, you are doomed to travel far. I don't think about whether there will be a storm around me. Since the goal is the horizon, I can only leave the world with a smile.
When you are happy, you will smile; When you succeed, you will smile; Then when you are sad, wronged, helpless or even desperate, can you be open-minded and optimistic, accept it frankly and tell others with a smile: "Nothing, I'm fine"!
No matter how difficult you are, just smile at yourself in the mirror and sing a little song to encourage yourself: everything will be fine. At this time, your smile is full of confidence and strength. There seems to be an extraordinary magic, from which I can read self-improvement and hope. Like sunshine, it can dispel dark clouds and sweep away many depressed and frustrated bad emotions. There is a solid and great power behind the smile, which is a great enthusiasm and confidence in life.
Smiling can bring happiness to people as well as to themselves. A contented person is happy. If everyone has a smile on his face all the time, this magnetic force from the smile can connect many people's hearts and get close together. People who can smile sincerely are always willing to help others, share their sadness, relieve their pain and share their happiness. This feeling of sharing is happiness. People who always smile are happy, and they can also make others feel happy and secure, which is a sign of maturity and rationality.
A healthy and pleasant smile can enhance interpersonal relationships, make people live in harmony, and is also a good medicine for conscience. Smiling can eliminate repressed tension and pressure, and make people feel inspired, happy and full of interest.
Smile is a kind of realm, a kind of mind and a kind of chic. Smile is a positive and optimistic attitude, a philosophy of life that is not surprised, a high-style sincerity and openness, and a maturity and wisdom that faces life directly. Remember, life is a mirror. If you smile at her, she will smile back at you!
Smile, sing the song of life, don't complain that life has given too much hardship, and don't complain that there are too many twists and turns in life. The sea has lost its brilliance without the rolling of huge waves, and the desert has lost its strong dance and its bright light. If you only pursue two points and one line in life, you will lose your charm. Sing the song of life with a smile, sum up every failure as an attempt, don't feel inferior, imagine every success as a kind of luck, don't be proud. In this way, smile, play leisurely mysterious music, face setbacks, taste loneliness and bathe in sadness. Smile and sing the song of life. Write the word' people' straight and big, live a kind of dignity and strength, and don't bow to money or power. Poverty is a simple song; Ordinary is a beautiful poem. Smiling, we sang and sang, flying calmly in the world of mortals and ups and downs alone in the world. Smile and sing the song of life. Open the dusty heart and let the narrowness and selfishness fade away; Let the free mind fly, and let the open-minded and tolerant return. Such a suddenly enlightened world will unfold before your eyes: blue sky, white clouds, small bridges and flowing water. When you are having fun, the flowers will be surrounded by intoxicating people on your nose, and gorgeous butterflies will dance gracefully around you. Smile and sing the song of life. Tears should flow for the sadness of others; Kindness should be born for a kind heart; Compassion, giving poverty to the poor; Care; Warmth gives loneliness and desolation. Smile, we should use the power of smile to care for Zhou, to influence and influence the surrounding area, until everyone's face is hung with a bright face. Yes, that's it. We face everything that life brings us with a smile.
In life, we sometimes have to be happy and sad. When we are happy, we don't have to suppress our feelings. Laugh when you should, and make yourself confident and optimistic.
As the saying goes: "Laughter, ten years old, sorrow, hoary head." Therefore, we should have a positive and optimistic attitude towards life. In fact, when we spend a day, we are happy, one day will pass, one day will pass, so why not spend every day happily?
When we encounter setbacks, smiling is the starting point of success; When encountering troubles, smiling is a kind of ideological liberation; When you are in a good mood, a smile is a sign of happiness.
When meeting a long-lost friend, the excitement is beyond words, and smiling is the best way to express feelings; When a friend is in trouble, give him a smile, which is the greatest encouragement to him; When there is a misunderstanding between them, giving each other a smile is the best way to make the misunderstanding disappear; When you encounter setbacks, smiling at difficulties can help you rebuild your confidence in life.
Difficulties are no big deal, I am afraid that I dare not face them; Frustration doesn't matter. I'm afraid I don't have confidence. So what if it's so bumpy? I'm afraid I haven't tried yet. In life, hardship, sadness and melancholy are inevitable. No one can succeed casually, grasp every touch in life and greet the rainbow after the rain with a sincere smile.
Smiling is the most attractive body language for everyone.
It represents all positive and optimistic spirits such as pleasure, goodwill, friendliness and acceptance. This is a very attractive philosophy of life.
Life has given us too many ups and downs, and sometimes we don't even know our position and role in life. We are confused, confused, confused, lonely, helpless and at a loss; This low mood can easily make us go from one extreme to the other!
Then, tragedy was born!
We live in this gray network of reinforced concrete every day and have already lost ourselves. However, we don't have the courage to find and admit it. In fact, we are fragile because we lack the courage to face life.
I lack the courage to face myself.
Friends, in fact, if you wake up every morning and smile in the mirror, you will find that everything is new after we wake up every morning. The sun is new, the air is new, the flowers and plants are new, the trees are new, and even everyone's face is new. If you learn to smile at all new things on this day, you will find that life is not as bad as we thought.
Because, when you face everything with a smile, good and bad, bad and not bad, right and wrong, all these things respond to you with a smile!
Face life with a smile
There is a saying: "Anyway! We should all smile! " I appreciate this sentence very much, because it clarifies a profound truth about being a man.
Some people say that life is sweet and full of laughter along the way; Some people say that life is bitter and has experienced countless hardships and impatience in life; Some people say that life is sour, and there will always be unavoidable sighs in life; Others say that life is fresh and exciting, and new things are constantly emerging waiting for you to feel and explore. I want to say that life is colorful, a combination of red, yellow, orange, green, cyan, blue and purple.
Life is like this, sweet and sour, bitter and salty, with everything, depending on how you describe it and how you try. The so-called life can be simply explained as the living method of life. Some people think it is beautiful and happy. Such people can feel the warmth of life even in the cold winter, see the light in the dark midnight, face life with optimism and smile at everything.
Different people have different lifestyles, so different people have different feelings about life. Students who love learning swim in the sea of books, suck the honey juice and enjoy happiness; Gardeners who painstakingly teach their students are proud of finding peaches and plums all over the world. Mothers who love their children will be deeply moved when they receive carnations from their children on Mother's Day. When a sincere friendship becomes stronger through ups and downs, what you touch is a warm and sincere heart.
Life is equal to everyone. Don't complain about the unfairness of heaven. Sometimes the journey is bumpy, hard and uneventful, and sometimes the weeping willows are light and dull. The key is to see how you grasp life and enjoy it.
Let's face life with a smile, everyone and everything with a smile, and you will see sunshine and laughter along the way.
In this world, painful failures and setbacks are inevitable. We should treat life with a positive attitude, no matter what it is, we should smile. Smile at failure, sum up experience and lessons in failure, and you will become strong; Smile in the face of pain, everything will disappear, and troubles will no longer be entangled.
Let's face life with a smile. Smile at yourself every day, and you will feel cheerful and open-minded. Smile at others every day, and you will see that the sun is shining and the sky is high and the clouds are light. Let's face the past with a smile, leave all the setbacks in yesterday and greet us with a sunny day!
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We have lived in this colorful world, experienced happiness and sorrow, experienced the ups and downs of the world in failure, and found confidence in moving on in success. In the real society, smile is the most authentic language in the world. Give yourself a smile when you fail, let yourself know more about yourself, see your own shortcomings in this failure, and avoid taking the same detour next time. It seems that every failure plays an important role in life. The more you fail now, the less you will encounter in the future. Finally, we embarked on a stormy and smooth road.
Thai businessman Shi Lihua is a man of the hour in the business world, with hundreds of millions of assets. 1997 A financial crisis bankrupted him. In the face of failure, he only said, "Great! You can start all over again! " Life should be like this. Smile at every failure, give yourself confidence to move on, regard failure as a stepping stone to success, and learn to embrace success and move towards success. In ordinary life, we have encountered setbacks. When we look at the people around us, we may feel a little relieved. There are always some twists and turns around us. They are representatives of success, but who knows how many setbacks and failures they have experienced behind their lives? Failure is terrible, but the inability to accept failure is even more terrible. A person does not have the ability to accept failure and only sees the success. In this way, in every failure, he will lower his self-confidence, fail to understand the significance of failure to himself, regard failure as his own enemy, stick to his own opinions, and finally lose the opportunity to exercise himself and become a lost person. Set a goal for yourself, go forward bravely towards it, and have no time to take care of the ups and downs around you in hard work and seriousness, and finally achieve the goal. We will eventually smile and face the happiness we have paid for ourselves. "Ah, this thing is too difficult. I can't do it on my own. Ah, so is that thing. I'd better choose some small ones to do. " This idea can be seen everywhere around us, but we haven't heard a difficult word in the mouth of every successful person. Nowadays, when a successful person faces great difficulties, the media always hype it up, which has become a well-known topic. However, every successful person just smiles and answers these reporters who don't know how to subvert their affairs. They all put their own affairs last and greet the world with a smile. Tolstoy, the author of War and Peace, was expelled from the university because of his poor grades. The teacher thinks that he has neither the mind nor the will to learn. When Darwin, who published Evolution, decided to give up practicing medicine, he was scolded by his father: "You do nothing but hunt and catch dogs and mice all day." In addition, Darwin revealed in his autobiography: "When I was a child, all my teachers and elders thought that my qualifications were average and had nothing to do with intelligence." Einstein didn't speak until he was 4, and he didn't read until he was 7. The teacher gave him an evaluation: "slow response, unsociable, full of unrealistic fantasies." He was expelled from school and was rejected when he applied to Zurich Institute of Technology. These great scientists who have made contributions to mankind are inferior to others since childhood, and their mediocre qualifications are doomed to more failures in their lives, so that they grow up in countless failures, correct their mistakes in countless failures, and finally succeed. Therefore, every failure has become a great wealth. We should cherish every failure, cherish it with a smile, face it seriously and experience it seriously. In this way, we will succeed in the end.
Now, we can proudly bring this calm smile to life.
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There is a kind of flower in the world that will not fade, and that is a smile; It is open regardless of the four seasons, north and south, as long as there are crowds. The purer the mind, the more beautiful it is.
Recently, CCTV's "Art Life" and "News Investigation" columns introduced a person to the national TV audience, and that person is Cong Fei. Who's Cong Fei? He is an ordinary singer in Shenzhen, a man in his early thirties, with no fixed job and no unit, but he is the singer who always smiles. 1/kloc-0 participated in more than 400 benefit performances every year, and donated 3 million yuan earned by himself to support 178 poor students. Now he is a patient-a patient who has been diagnosed with "advanced gastric cancer" but can't even afford medical expenses, but he always faces life with a smile. Of course, Cong Fei has other glorious titles: Ambassador of Love, Five-Star Volunteer and 100 Excellent Volunteers in China. In an interview, Cong Fei said with a smile: "Some people say that I have three titles: fool, madman and neuropathy."
A patient who was diagnosed with "advanced gastric cancer" but couldn't even afford the medical expenses could face life with a smile. Why can't we? Some people say, "Living is happiness, victory and everything." But I don't think so. If a person does not even have a smile in his life, will he be happy? If we smile at life, life will smile at you.
Smile is like sunshine, bringing warmth to the earth; Smiles like rain and dew moisten the earth. Smile has the same magic as love, which can make people who are hungry and cold feel the warmth of the world; Can make desperate people see the hope of life again; Can make lonely people get spiritual comfort; It can also make people with withered hearts feel emotionally moist. As the saying goes, smile, ten years old. Happy are those who always smile, and young are those who always smile! Smile is like the sun shining on the earth; The breeze caressed the warmth of the forest; The setting sun burns the heat of the sky; The passion of waves washing away rocks. ...
The interpretation of happiness is a smile; The meaning of happiness is to smile; The true meaning of warmth is a smile; The encouragement of frustration is a smile; The symbol of strength is still a smile. Sunshine and rain, birds and flowers, fair to everyone; Joy and joy, trouble and sadness belong to everyone. Life is always beautiful, without too much distress, but we don't understand life; It's not that happiness is too little, but that we don't know how to grasp it. Facing life, whether frustrated or frustrated; Whether it is cloudy or difficult, I will choose to smile.
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In life, we sometimes have to be happy and sad. When we are happy, we don't have to suppress our feelings. Laugh when you should, and make yourself confident and optimistic.
As the saying goes: "Laughter, ten years old, sorrow, hoary head." Therefore, we should have a positive and optimistic attitude towards life. In fact, when we spend a day, we are happy, one day will pass, one day will pass, so why not spend every day happily?
When we encounter setbacks, smiling is the starting point of success; When encountering troubles, smiling is a kind of ideological liberation; When you are in a good mood, a smile is a sign of happiness.
When meeting a long-lost friend, the excitement is beyond words, and smiling is the best way to express feelings; When a friend is in trouble, give him a smile, which is the greatest encouragement to him; When there is a misunderstanding between them, giving each other a smile is the best way to make the misunderstanding disappear; When you encounter setbacks, smiling at difficulties can help you rebuild your confidence in life.
Difficulties are no big deal, I am afraid that I dare not face them; Frustration doesn't matter. I'm afraid I don't have confidence. So what if it's so bumpy? I'm afraid I haven't tried yet. In life, hardship, sadness and melancholy are inevitable. No one can succeed casually, grasp every touch in life and greet the rainbow after the rain with a sincere smile.