The first reason comes from the mother-in-law's high requirements, because the first standard of many mothers-in-law is to have a car and a house. If not, then interview, the one who eliminated many men.
Because for a man in his twenties, it is really hard to get a car and a house. If you want to rely on your family, 80% of men are born in ordinary families, so most people don't have to struggle on their own, so they still don't have this condition. It is also under this contempt that most men have left.
The second reason is that because the number of men is much higher than that of women, the conditions of many women have improved. They simply look down on men who are similar to themselves, and they will only look for men who are better than themselves.
It is precisely because women with similar conditions look down on themselves and women with higher conditions look down on themselves that many men are left behind. If you want to ask me, why don't men choose women who are worse than themselves, because those women with poor conditions have already married themselves, because they have self-knowledge.
The third reason is that some men pursue careers, so they have no intention of falling in love at all, because in their view, men will have love only if they have money, because a man without money will be rejected everywhere, so they will put their careers first.
It is precisely because of these men that most of them have become older single men when their careers are small after they devote themselves wholeheartedly to their work.
The fourth reason, in fact, lies in men themselves, because some men are not very good in their own conditions, but they are still unwilling to pursue love actively. They can't talk, they are not good at expression, they don't understand women and they have no money. How can you find such a woman?
I often advise single men around me to take the initiative. This is an era with many wolves. If you are still humble, then you must be the last one to stay.