1. Good friends don’t need to contact each other every day, because there is a continuous thread connecting each other’s hearts; good friends are always willing to open their arms and fully accept the imperfect me; good friends , give me the courage to brave the severe cold; good friend, accompany me to overcome vulnerability and confusion
2. You, beautiful girl; you, lovely girl; you, passionate girl; you smart girl ;You, my friend. In the vast sea of ??people, we met and became good friends forever. We made progress together, laughed together, studied together, played together, and talked about everything.
3. Friends, a word that makes people long for from the bottom of their hearts. Friend, a word that makes people struggle when they are lost. Friend, a word that makes people’s thoughts rise and fall.
4. Friends are lamps, lighting the way and guiding you in the dark; friends are fires, bringing you light and warmth in the cold; friends are harbors, allowing you to travel and be tired from a long journey. Rest in peace. My friend is an umbrella that has always protected me from the storm, from sadness and sadness.
5. You can’t live without friends, but friends who can truly share the joys and sorrows with you are not available everywhere. This allowed me to further understand the profound philosophy of the saying that it is enough to have a confidant in life.
6. Sometimes in life, knowing is hard to find. Friends are the most important thing in our lives. Friends are the guiding light on the road of our life and we need to cherish them forever!
7. People always feel lost. At this time, we may feel that the world is cold, we are abandoned by the world, or we give up on the world ourselves. When we are immersed in this kind of sadness and can't extricate ourselves, we need someone to help us. That person is a friend.
8. What provides friendship with such great power and makes the palace of friends resplendent. Perhaps it is the pursuit of quality and elegance that is not obsessed with fame and wealth that gives friends the power to unite. This power supports everyone who is bathed in friendship to move forward and be invincible on the road of their lives.
9. With the progress of social civilization and the harmony between man and nature, more and more people are making friends with animals, and you will gradually feel that making friends with dogs is more reliable. It doesn't care about the identity of its owner, whether rich or poor, as long as you treat it well, it will always be loyal to you without any second thoughts.
10. Making friends when I was a child was very simple. There was only laughter. Although it was accompanied by complaints, it was a star in the sky that would never fall, always so bright and brilliant. But now, what are friends, sometimes quarreling, sometimes bursting into tears, sometimes jealous and sometimes heartache. I don't know who are real friends. Maybe having friends is a tiring thing, isn't it? Someone once said that perhaps conflicts and unpleasant things will happen if friends are too close to each other. I don’t know if this is right or wrong, maybe!
11. Thank you, friends, for letting us enter each other's youth; thank you, friends, for witnessing our youth with their own youth; thank you, friends, for splendidizing my only one youth.
12. I have always been confused by a question: what is it that provides friendship with such great power and makes the palace of friends resplendent. Perhaps it is the pursuit of quality and elegance that is not obsessed with fame and wealth that gives friends the power to unite. This power supports everyone who is bathed in friendship to move forward and be invincible on the road of their lives.
13. Friendship is like the blue sky and white clouds, love for the birds, like the earth, mountains and rivers, and acceptance of the rivers. It is sincere care, comfort for the soul, exchange of love, and a landscape that will never disappear.
14. As close friends, they will do their best to prevent harm from getting close to me. They will protect me from intrusion, help me deal with trivial and unnecessary things, and prevent despicable people from taking advantage of me. They do what they can to love and care for me.
The art of communication: Resolving conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
The art of communication: Resolving conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
Most family disputes originate from trivial matters. In real life, these Small things are often magnified infinitely by people, eventually leading to uncontrollable endings. The reason is that many people cannot speak, and conflicts are intensified if they are not careful.
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Liu Fei and his wife usually live at home, and usually go to Liu Fei's parents' house on weekends. Liu Fei is an only child in the family. His mother loves him very much and often misses him. However, she has some old ideas and believes that housework is a woman's job and it is natural for women to take care of men.
One weekend, the young couple returned to Liu Fei’s parents’ house. The mother-in-law said in front of her daughter-in-law that Liu Fei had lost weight again after not seeing her for a week, and asked if it was because he had done too much housework, didn't eat well, etc. The son didn't know how to answer. The mother-in-law's intention was obvious, she was blaming her daughter-in-law for not fulfilling her responsibilities as a woman and taking good care of her man. Faced with her mother-in-law's unreasonable accusation, her daughter-in-law Xiao Huang did not refute, but took over the topic and said: Mom, the unit worked overtime during this period and did not take good care of him. It is all my fault. Starting from tomorrow, I will give him more nutrition, and maybe he will gain weight soon.
As soon as the young couple returned to their parents' house on the second weekend, Xiao Huang took her mother-in-law's hand and said to her: Mom, I made him five meals of meat and one meal of fish this week. We also stewed chicken, eggs and milk every morning. But he still doesn't seem to have gained weight. Mom, do you have any good ideas?
The mother-in-law was moved by her daughter-in-law’s words and quickly said: That’s just what he is like, it’s useless to eat anything. This is probably due to genetics. Everyone is as thin as a monkey. Look, his dad is the same. The whole family laughed.
When Xiao Huang's mother-in-law blamed him, he did not argue with reason, but comforted her with kind words, which effectively prevented her mother-in-law from continuing to unfairly blame herself and avoided the intensification of the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
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After dinner, Wang Hong was reading vigorously when she suddenly heard a noise at the neighbor's house, Aunt Li, and hurried over to see what was going on. When I arrived at Auntie's house, I saw that the house was in a mess, as if there had just been a war. There were broken bowls of porcelain everywhere on the floor, and there was a large pool of noodles.
Aunt Li sat on the stool angrily, and her daughter-in-law stood beside her also angrily.
The wife said: No! Today, if you don’t explain things clearly to me, I won’t be done with you.
The son Xiaoruo stood nearby with his head lowered and said nothing. Aunt Li said weakly: You still have the nerve to say it!
I will cook three meals a day for you, and I will wash your clothes.
Wife: I don’t live at home, I work during the day, and it’s miserable.
Mother-in-law: You make money for yourself and rely on the collective for food. I didn't see a penny from you guys.
Wife: How much do I spend!
Mother-in-law: The family expenses are not big? We have to pay for water, electricity, pesticides, fertilizers, and favors and gifts.
Wife: What does this have to do with me? I never had a good day at your house, and I have to look at your face when I get home. Let me speak clearly today! As he said this, the wife wanted to throw something again.
Seeing that the war seemed to be getting more intense, Wang Hong took Aunt Li’s hand and said quickly: Auntie, Auntie, stop talking, stop talking! If you want to be better, it is better to be old and young. Then he took his wife's hand and said, "Sister, take a rest!"
Can you blame me? I have had a fever these days and have no energy. During dinner, I asked them to wash the dishes and I went to bed. She said my son was lazy. I said, you are good. She threw the bowl and said she wanted to divorce my son. How do you want me to live this life? Can't I just say a word? The aunt held Wang Hong's hand and cried.
My son Xiaoruo finally spoke: Mom, stop talking.
Wife: You heard just now, how does she look like an elder?
Wang Hong was afraid that the war would expand, so she quickly said: Sister, please stop saying a few words. We young ones should first respect the elders.
Does she deserve my respect?
I never thought that before I finished speaking, my aunt fainted.
Her family is not the only one who has conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law! How wonderful it would be if the daughter-in-law could regard her mother-in-law as her own mother, and the mother-in-law could regard her daughter-in-law as her own daughter! But, it’s difficult!
Action Guide
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a very special family relationship, which is different from the blood relationship between relatives and the marriage relationship based on love. Therefore, there is a lack of natural cohesion, differences in sense of belonging, and it is easy to form equal love.
The mother-in-law is dissatisfied with many of her daughter-in-law’s behaviors. If the daughter did such things, there would not be so much dissatisfaction; similarly, the daughter-in-law cannot tolerate many of her mother-in-law’s words. Likewise, the daughter-in-law cannot tolerate many of her mother-in-law’s words. If it were said by my own mother, it would be okay. As a younger generation, a daughter-in-law must understand her mother-in-law's difficulties, respect and understand her mother-in-law's personal habits, communicate proactively, be considerate and considerate, empathize with others, and exchange hearts with others. I believe that evil mothers-in-law are still rare in modern society.
Some daughters-in-law can talk endlessly to their mothers, but they have nothing to say in front of their mother-in-law, and they always feel particularly awkward between them. To ease this atmosphere, you must learn to take the initiative to be affectionate and blow more sweet air in your mother-in-law's ears.
First of all, call me mom more often. A daughter-in-law's call "Mom" can bring infinite warmth to her mother-in-law. But some daughters-in-law's sweet words are so precious that they are reluctant to say them out easily. There are also some daughters-in-law who simply call their mother-in-law "their mother-in-law."
Most of the daughters-in-law who are separated from their mother-in-law call her "Mom" when they enter her mother-in-law's house and say "Mom, I'm leaving" when they go out to say goodbye. These two calls may seem polite but not affectionate enough. The atmosphere will be much better if you can intertwine the daily routine with the greetings. You might as well say something like this: It's been very cold these days, Mom, these are too few for you to wear, so don't catch a cold.
Such a thin needle can be pierced. Mom’s eyesight is so good!
Secondly, communicate more. Those elderly people who have less social interactions and are pampered confine themselves to a small area every day, but they also hope to know some new things outside their homes. Smart daughters-in-law will communicate with their mothers-in-law flexibly. They often talk to their mothers-in-law about trivial matters on the street, social news, movie plots, and their feelings when reading newspapers, etc., so that the mothers-in-law can be immersed in an atmosphere of joy every day.
Finally, in the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the son plays an important role. He cannot intervene or favor either party. Instead, he should actively adjust and communicate with the mother and wife, and at the same time pay attention to Create a relaxed and free family atmosphere, increase the interest of family life, promptly offset and vent the unhappiness between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and actively cultivate the ability to love and take on the responsibility of love. Only in this way can conflicts and disputes in family life be effectively resolved and the whole family can be happy. A collection of sentences about conflicts between lovers and cold wars
A collection of sentences about conflicts between lovers and cold wars
1. The one who wants to leave is asking for nothing more than staying.
2. Thank you for making my heart beat once, but now I only feel heartache.
3. He hates his proud look on fate and laughs at his lack of power to make decisions.
4. If waiting can lead to a miracle, I would rather wait, even for a year. Or a lifetime!
5. I would rather laugh heartlessly than cry heartbreakingly.
6. I don’t need much explanation, or I don’t need to explain it to you.
7. Some people don’t cherish it, but they think it’s not worth it, so they give up; some people don’t care, but they are full of concern and receive a stingy response. Sitting in the most expensive position in your heart, you are humble and have no way out; earning the most valuable tears in your eyes, you persist in physical and mental exhaustion.
8. Forgetting is forgetting, you are there, I am there, you forget me, and I forget you: Forgetting is distance, fish are at the bottom of the sea, birds are in the sky, there is no intersection: Forgetting is moment , is the time limit for the flowers on the other side to bloom, a thousand years, ten thousand years, but never see each other again.
9. You are attentive, but she is not. Loving someone who does not love you is unrequited.
10. Tears blur my world, and I can’t even see your leaving figure.
11. Woman, you are always so afraid of being alone, but you are always alone: ??Woman, you are always so easy to give, knowing that it is pain, but you are still so persistent: Woman, you are always so easily hurt , knowing that it is deception, but still deceiving oneself: Woman, why are you always so stupid, it makes people feel distressed.
12. We had a cold war last night and I turned off my phone. Today he called me to kiss me. There is no need to take the quarrel too seriously!
13. I had a cold war with her, and her sister and my sister became enemies. Well, you all know.
14. Don’t let too much yesterday occupy your today.
15. People have searched for her thousands of times, and after stepping on the ground, suddenly looking back and looking carefully, there are countless aunts and ladies.
16. It’s heartache, sadness, and can’t help it.
17. Those people who said they would never be separated are already scattered at the end of the world.
18. I have to pretend to be indifferent and reject all enthusiasm.
19. I hate the Cold War. Although I don’t know what you are thinking, I know that I am wrong. Although I don’t know where I am wrong, I am wrong!
20. This is undoubtedly very painful for anyone, it sounds intentional. Part 2 of sentences about conflicts and cold wars between lovers
21. Each of us lives in our own past. It takes us one minute to get to know someone and an hour to like someone. , It takes another day to fall in love with someone, but in the end, it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
22. I have learned a lot and let go of a lot.
23. In fact, you don’t need too many things. As long as you live healthily and love sincerely, you are also rich.
24. Your unintentional hurt hurts you, but it hurts me.
25. If it weren’t for the flowers withering and being cut by the wind, how would we know that the years have passed by?
26. If the director lets Big Big Wolf eat a sheep, the ratings will definitely skyrocket.
27. No matter what kind of love you encounter, you must be worthy of yourself and love yourself risklessly. It doesn’t matter if your body is covered with blood and your bones are broken. Death comes to life.
28. The cold war lasted until Christmas Eve. You haven’t spoken to me for five days. Shouldn’t you give up?
29. The sweethearts, the tacit understanding, and love at first sight are just excuses for icing on the cake.
30. How can I be willing to waste time having a cold war with you when I am no longer young? How come you don’t understand my reluctance when you are no longer young.
31. Life is so short and the world is so chaotic. I don’t want to quarrel, have a cold war, or regret for a second with you.
32. The road of life is not easy to walk. You should bow your head when you should bow your head, and you should give in when you should give in. Only by being able to withstand grievances can one become a great person; only by being able to withstand trials can one win dignity. If you don't give in even an inch, you will lose ground; a battle of will will only lower your worth. Self-esteem is not given by others, but by yourself.
33. I just hope that this world can be so small that I can see you as soon as I turn around.
34. Draw a life-and-death game and write an ending to our story.
35. You don’t know that you are the protagonist in my diary, before dating, during love, during the cold war, after reconciliation, and breakup, until now.
36. Do what you say. Don’t say too much but fail to accomplish anything.
37. When you see through everything, you realize that losing is more practical than having.
38. I thought I was cruel, but I am not as cruel as one-tenth of you.
39. It’s like hugging each other at dusk and breaking my broken bones to make wine.
40. I really want to love him, but my eyes are lying. It’s easier to hide it, so as not to make the relationship complicated. Three sentences about conflicts and cold war between lovers
41. We met at the wrong time, but separated again at the right time.
42. To be honest, I am angry, jealous, and cold war, but I have never thought of leaving you!
43. Don’t think too complicatedly. If you hold your hand too tightly, things will break and your hands will hurt.
44. Everyone’s heart is like a sea, shining with bottomless blue.
45. Even if you are punched, stung, or knocked down, as long as you continue to live, you will definitely have the opportunity to change. As long as I grit my teeth, be prepared, and take that step, there will always be a better future waiting for me, I believe!
46. Without your letting go, I wouldn’t be as happy as I am now.
47. Only by enduring the pain that others cannot endure and suffering the hardships that others cannot endure can you gain what others cannot.
48. After getting used to loneliness, one person is the whole world.
49. People are haggard, for whom? Red leaves and flowing water do not follow.
50. Someone who truly loves you will never leave you. Even if he has thousands of reasons to give up, he will always find one reason to persist.
51. There is something to be done and something not to be done, being content with what is enough and not knowing enough is not enough, the sharp energy is hidden in the chest, and the harmonious energy floats on the face.
52. Should know what to do because he knows.
53. It’s not that life is so tragic, it’s that you look at sadness with sadness.
54. In my life, there are too many passers-by that make me breathless.
55. People are like this. Even though they know that turning off the lights and playing with mobile phones will hurt their eyes, they still get used to playing under the covers. They know that drinking too many drinks will make them fat but they still can’t bear it. Even though they know that you don’t love me, I still love you.
56. I like egg tarts but I bought muffins back, I like heavy snow but moved to the south, I like loneliness but I met you. The most wonderful thing in life should be the coincidence of circumstances.
57. Falling in love with someone you can’t be with is like having an oral ulcer in your mouth. You know it will hurt, but you still can’t help but lick it. I rejected everyone's ambiguity, just to wait for you for an uncertain future: I bet with my life's happiness, how could you be willing to let me lose.
58. I’m tired of it, maybe.
59. It hurts from the bottom of my heart to be afraid that the people I care about will gradually become distant, distant, and unfamiliar.
60. What I once thought would last forever is actually just a chance encounter. How to resolve minor conflicts between husband and wife
Behavior 1: Women always like to ask do you love me? This can be divided into two situations, one is because the man she loves no longer says these three words; the other is Because women begin to doubt themselves. At this time, you'd better hold her in your arms and say softly: My dear, I love you. Well, with just this sentence, many problems have been avoided.
Behavior 2: Women love to cry. Women don't cry for no reason, they cry because they feel bad and want help. As a man, it is best for you to detect her crying in a low voice as soon as possible and provide comfort, otherwise she may develop from choking to crying, and your conscience will be tortured at that time.
Behavior 3: Women always lose their temper for no apparent reason. There is always a reason why a woman is angry, maybe you saw something you shouldn't have seen, said something you shouldn't have said, or it was too late to call.
In fact, women's hearts are soft. As long as you sincerely ask for forgiveness and treat her gently, her anger will disappear.
Behavior 4: Women are always waiting for a call. This is one of the characteristics of a woman in love. Even if there is an automatic message phone around her, she will still hold the phone firmly in her hand. All this is because her beloved has said that she will call her and she has been waiting. .
Behavior 5: Women always feel that they don’t have enough clothes. A woman always hopes that she will always be young and beautiful. Putting on new clothes will make her feel more confident. If a man doesn't want her to spend all her money on clothes, maybe simply saying "honey, you look the most beautiful in whatever clothes you wear" will work.
Behavior 6: Women always like to chatter. Don't forget that women are more emotional and emotional than men. It is a kind of relaxation for them to get together with their girlfriends and discuss the people or things around them.
Behavior 7: Women don’t like to read electrical appliance instruction manuals. Compared with men, it is more difficult for women to understand technology. As a man, you can take the opportunity to show off your profound knowledge and good hands-on ability to make her respect you even more.
Behavior 8: Women always want to receive flowers. It is the nature of every woman to love flowers. Men need to remember that a large bouquet of expensive roses and a simple carnation have the same effect on most women. What matters is your sincerity.
Behavior 9: A woman won’t let go after picking up the phone. Most modern women are working, and they don’t have many opportunities to meet their close friends. Long conversations on the phone can allow them to express what is on their mind. Usually, men don’t have the patience to listen to their lovers pour out everything.
Behavior 10: When a woman is in love, she likes to introduce her as my husband. If a woman is in love, she will often talk about him to her girlfriend and think about him all the time. And it takes a long time for a man to feel that he has a woman he can't worry about. Men always like to imagine that they are free, while women always like to imagine that they are cared for.