"But as long as you understand that there will be no pie in the sky and stay calm in the process of love, you can avoid losses." Rejecting online dating boys, Gong Haiyan gave his friends six tips: First, be aware of self-protection of personal privacy information. Don't disclose real information such as bank card account number, password, real name and company. In the process of communication, unless you already know each other better, you want to further develop your relationship with each other. Second, choose the right date time and place, always be alert to strangers, and don't be credulous. Choose a public place to date. Don't arrange the first meeting at the man's house or hotel. At the same time, control the time of the first date and go home as soon as possible. If you meet a' bar boy' with ulterior motives and invite you to some places for high consumption, you must refuse in time and get out as soon as possible. Third, keep a normal mind and reflect on yourself step by step. Due to the large number of members in jiayuan, you are likely to find the right person on the website soon. But before you want to further deepen your relationship, review your friendship process. There may be a trap behind the sweet words. In addition, after meeting, we should carefully check each other's information to see if their education, height, appearance and income are consistent with the information on the Internet. Fourth, don't trust yourself to others easily. Cherish your emotions, restrain yourself and communicate rationally. Only in this way can you get a happy love. Fifth, please don't have a loan relationship with netizens. We often remind members not to borrow money or goods from netizens in a prominent position on the website. Even if you lend money to familiar netizens, you should leave your credentials to avoid unpleasant things. Sixth, please don't believe the winning information, which is often fraud. Jiayuan's official messages are all sent by the administrator account and appear in the' Letter from the Administrator' column of personal inbox. (Editor: Fan Xuejiao)