In some places, people who are divorced or widowed cannot be married, and even some places attach great importance to the choice of unmarried or married elders. In the process of picking up relatives, there are still some places that stipulate that aunts cannot participate in picking up relatives. This is because "aunt" and "loneliness" are homophonic, and neither men nor women should take part in picking up relatives or seeing them off. In addition, in the process of marriage, we should also choose relevant personnel to take care of relatives according to some local customs. Of course, if you want to choose a more suitable person, you should also consult some local customs and taboos. In addition to these taboos, it is actually very particular about the number of people. For example, in the process of going, the number of people sent by the man is odd, but at the end of the return trip, it needs to be even. In other words, the number of people in the south should be odd, and so should the number of women's weddings, so as to become even.