The common problems among contemporary college students are:
1. Comparison mentality
The reasons why college students have a comparison mentality are mainly reflected in material matters. Materials are inseparable from our daily lives, and it is also one of the reasons for the comparison mentality among college students. Many college students have turned their pursuit of material things into their own motivation for life. This is a sad thing for the future development of society, because college students are the main force of future social development. If college students blindly pursue material satisfaction, thereby neglecting Failure to improve the spiritual realm will eventually lead to a deviation in values ??and misunderstandings in life.
2. Interpersonal Relationship Issues
Good interpersonal relationships are an important part of students' growth and socialization process, and are also a necessary condition for maintaining a good psychological state. However, due to the complexity of interpersonal relationships and society and the simplicity of student psychology, college students often suffer setbacks in interpersonal interactions. A considerable number of college students from school to school lack experience in interpersonal communication, lack the ability and courage to express themselves in public and interact with others. Faced with various activities, they are full of interest and worry about failure. Over time, they even avoid participating. , hindering the formation of a good interpersonal circle. It is not conducive to the healthy growth of students.
3. The problem of emotional ups and downs
College students are in the "stormy period" of adolescent development. Their physiological development is extremely rapid and they have basically reached maturity. However, due to their shallow experience and insufficient social experience, There is often insufficient awareness of life and social issues.
In addition, young people’s unique willfulness and ideal confusion are intertwined, which makes them prone to various psychological conflicts. They are easily disturbed and affected by various external factors, and their self-control and self-adjustment abilities are relatively weak. low, which leads to psychological deviation and eccentric behavior.
4. The problem of mobile phone dependence
In high school, many students’ parents may control how often they use mobile phones. However, after going to college, “the sky is high and the emperor is far away”. When they leave the parent's area, they are also out of the scope of control. What I can insist on doing every day is to charge my mobile phone. The first thing I do when I wake up in the morning is to fumble for my mobile phone. I don’t need to bring paper and pen to class, but I can’t do without my mobile phone... If I lose my mobile phone, I will lose my sense of security.
There are many reasons for these problems. Society, schools, families and college students themselves should attach great importance to this and cooperate closely to solve these problems with practical actions, thereby promoting the healthy growth and success of college students. .