There are many contradictions in real life, which are intricately placed in front of us. How to deal with and solve them, mentality determines everything, people say so. Because a good attitude will make you wise and agile, and you will become clearer. A good attitude will make you stand out from the dilemma of forgiveness. A good attitude will make you rational and calm. Therefore, it makes sense that mentality determines everything.
Some people say that it is important to have a good attitude, but only those who hold the ball with a good attitude are unwilling to give up and take bold actions. They are timid and motionless, and they can only walk together in one place. Contradictions and problems will not be solved automatically, and even contradictions will be stranded and complicated. We must rely on prudent actions to deal with and solve them. Only by going deep into real life can we resolve contradictions with actions. The solution of the problem depends on the efforts of action, as if action decides everything.
Others say that mentality and action are indispensable. With a good attitude and intentional action, the perfect ending is the mutual promotion of the two. At this time, no matter how difficult it is, it will be saved. It seems that mentality and action are like an army in battle. We can't be blind, there are no rules to follow. We must act in unison and obey orders. What is decisive at this time is like a good attitude and action.
Many times, the brilliance of the works is directly related to the quality of the mentality, and those who have lost the battle are all lacking in courage and losing a good mentality. Imagine, without a good psychological support, their emotions are out of control and depressed, how can they charge and fight hard! Without a good attitude, all the battles that can be won are likely to be lost. Mentality determines everything, mentality determines success or failure, and mentality determines the fate of survival.
Action is also indispensable, but action is only human mechanical movement, which is controlled and dominated by the brain. Whether you can act or not depends entirely on the command of the brain, but the mentality will transfer the correct power to the brain. This is courage and confidence in victory, and the mentality should play a decisive role.
In fact, discussing mentality and action is not a category concept, and there is no comparability. Mentality is a way of thinking, which is mediated by the brain. In addition to internal factors, the quality of mentality also has a great relationship with the external environment, which belongs to the research category of spiritual field. Moreover, actions are dominated by the brain except mechanical movements, and absolutely no other factors can play a role. Action is purely a fixed mechanical movement mode, which should be regarded as a walk-on and does not play a key role. But without action, the problem can't be solved, and action is also one of the decisive factors.
In my opinion, neither mentality nor action can be ignored, and it should be mentality that plays a decisive role. As for the right or wrong action, it is closely related to the mentality, which determines everything. Maybe it's just that my consciousness is shallow, my words are one-sided, I don't see the problem deeply enough, and I talk nonsense. But we must not avoid the contradictions in real life, but deal with them with our heart, make suggestions with our mentality, and achieve our goals with our actions. Try to find the right way to solve the contradiction, and finally let the action complete the task assigned by the mentality.
This way must have good psychological support, and then adjust your code of conduct, adapt to the needs of survival as soon as possible, and improve yourself!
Why are some people more successful than others, earn more money, have good jobs, good interpersonal relationships and good health, and live a happy life with high quality all day? It seems that their life is better than others. And many people are busy with work but can only make a living. In fact, there is not much difference between people. But why can many people succeed, overcome all difficulties and make contributions, while some people can't?
Many psychologists have found that this secret is the "mentality" of people. A philosopher said, "Your mentality is your real master." A great man once said, "Either you control life, or life controls you." Your mentality determines who is the mount and who is the jockey. "
About 40 years ago, two brothers lived in a poor village in Fujian. Unable to stand the harsh environment, they decided to leave their hometown and seek development overseas. The eldest brother seems to be lucky, being sold to the rich San Francisco as a slave, and the younger brother being sold to the Philippines, which is poorer than China.
Forty years later, the two brothers were lucky to get together again. They are not who they used to be. The eldest brother became an overseas Chinese leader in San Francisco, with two restaurants, two laundries and a grocery store. His descendants were full, some inherited the mantle, and some became outstanding engineers or computer engineers and other scientific and technological talents.
Where's the younger brother? In fact, he has become a world-famous banker, with a considerable number of forests, rubber plantations and banks in Southeast Asia. After decades of hard work, they all succeeded. But why are there such differences in the career achievements of the two brothers?
When two brothers get together, they can't help talking about what happened after they separated. My brother said that since we China people have no special talents in white society, we can only cook and wash clothes for white people with one pair of hands. In a word, we China people have all taken on jobs that white people refuse to do, and there is no problem in life, but we dare not expect our own careers. For example, my children and grandchildren, although they have read a lot of books, dare not dream. They can only make a living by doing some intermediate technical work with peace of mind. As for entering the upper white society, I believe it is very difficult.
Seeing his brother's success, a brother can't help but envy his happiness. The younger brother said there was no luck. When I first came to the Philippines, I did some rough work, but I found that some locals were stupid and lazy, so I gave up my career, gradually acquired and expanded, and my business gradually expanded.
The above is a true story, reflecting the struggle history of overseas Chinese. It tells us that it is not only the environment that affects our lives, but also the mentality that controls our actions and thoughts. At the same time, mentality also determines a person's vision, career and achievements.
There are two 70-year-old ladies. One thought that this age could be regarded as the end of life, so she began to take care of the aftermath. There is also an idea that what a person can do is not his age, but his idea. So, at the age of 70, she began to learn to climb mountains, several of which are world-famous. Just recently, he climbed Mount Fuji in Japan at the age of 95, breaking the record of the oldest person to climb this mountain. She is the famous old lady Huda Cruz.
It's a miracle that I didn't learn to climb mountains until I was 70 years old. But miracles are created by people. The first sign of a successful person is his way of thinking. If a person is a positive thinker, practices positive thinking and likes to accept challenges and deal with troubles, then he is half successful. The feat of the old lady Huda Cruz just proves this point.
Whether a person can succeed depends on his attitude! The difference between winners and losers is that winners always dominate and control their lives with the most positive thinking, the most optimistic spirit and the most brilliant experience. The loser is guided and dominated by all kinds of failures and doubts in the past.
Some people always like to say that their present situation is caused by others. These people often say that their ideas cannot be changed. However, our situation is not caused by the surrounding environment. In the final analysis, how to look at life and how to grasp it depends on ourselves.
The hardest thing to be a man is to grasp a degree, no matter what you do.
As long as you can freely control the degree of doing things, then you have reached the highest level of being a man, or at least you can be regarded as a successful person.
Everyone wants to succeed in life. What is the key to success? This is a positive attitude.
A positive attitude can change one's world. Each of us has a magic weapon, with a positive attitude and a negative attitude. This magic weapon is powerful. When you use it correctly, you will succeed and get wealth, success, happiness and health. When you use it wrongly, it can ruin your life at once and deprive you of everything that makes your life meaningful. A positive attitude can make people climb to the top and stay there, while a negative attitude can keep people at the bottom. Those who reach the top are like a negative attitude, which makes them fall. It can be seen that although there is only one word difference between a positive attitude and a negative attitude, it can make people's lives change dramatically, but these two attitudes are absolutely opposite.
So how can we make a positive attitude work? In order to get something worth getting in life, it is necessary for us to set some lofty goals for ourselves and try our best to achieve them. In fact, there are many obstacles to success, but from another perspective, every adversity does not contain the seeds of equal or greater interests. Good luck exists in everyone's life. However, a person who takes a negative attitude towards life will prevent good luck from benefiting him. Only people with a positive attitude will seize opportunities and even benefit from bad luck.
Please don't let your attitude make you a loser. Success is achieved by people with a positive attitude, and all diseases are maintained by people with a positive attitude and hard work.
Warm sunshine shines on the earth, bathed in this gift, everything seems extremely harmonious, without shadow and decadence. People should be like the sun, with a positive attitude, in order to have a sunny life.
There was once a scholar who wanted to go to Beijing to take an exam. Two days before the exam, he dreamed that he planted cabbage on the wall and wore a hat and an umbrella in rainy days. The dream interpreter said it was useless to grow vegetables, and it was unnecessary to wear a hat and an umbrella. The scholar was disheartened and ready to go home. At this time, the shopkeeper heard the reason and said, "Isn't it high school to grow cabbage in high walls?" Wearing a hat and umbrella means that you are prepared. "Hearing this, the scholar was not depressed, but went to take the exam happily. As a result, he actually won a flower exploration. It can be seen how important it is to have a sunny attitude. If the scholar listens to the nonsense of the dream interpreter and is disheartened and decadent, his future career will be slim. Seeing the bright side of life made him successful.
The happiness and misfortune of life are all in your own state of mind. A good attitude will lead to a good life, and only seeing the dark side will only leave you in the dark. When a traveler in the desert sees half a bottle of water, an optimist will happily say, "Wow, great, there is still half a bottle of water to use, which is enough for me to get out of the desert." Then continue your journey with a happy and satisfied mind. Naturally, his journey is no longer terrible, but full of sunshine. On the contrary, pessimists will be frustrated by complaining that there is only half a bottle of water left and nothing can be done. For him, the status quo of only half a bottle of water is dark. It is conceivable that his journey will be full of hardships and sufferings. Without the support of sunshine mentality, he may never be found in the end. In the face of the same situation, different mentality determines different endings. Why not choose sunshine instead of shadows?
As the saying goes, happiness is also a day, and unhappiness is also a day. Why not make yourself happy? Similarly, the state of mind can't change the existing situation, but it can change the outcome of things. The example of this scholar shows us the great role of sunshine mentality. He took the exam with high school mentality. As a result, I didn't waste more than ten years studying hard in the cold window, but I made my own life trajectory on the next level, and I may be enjoying the beauty of life when I return home dressed in gold.
In life, it seems that few people are very satisfied with their present situation or what they have. To put it bluntly, there are still many people who love to complain in life.
I feel like one of them. Although I think complaining is a very bad shortcoming, this mentality always breaks out naturally when I am under the necessary pressure or stimulation.
One day, I watched a program on TV called "Thank you for coming".
In fact, I watch this program occasionally, but because there are so many good variety shows, I just pass by and don't care much.
However, that day, the program seemed to be called: smiling bench mom. At first glance, I don't quite understand why this mother wants to add a "bench". When I pressed the forward button of the remote control, the camera switched to a woman.
It was a beautiful woman with a smile on her face, about 30 years old. Her face is three-dimensional, with proper makeup. What stopped me from pressing the button was the figure under the woman's face. She sat there with a pair of boots on her calves. The length of the boots seems to be all her legs. Above the legs, there is a small or short upper body wrapped in a beautiful white shirt and a little black skirt.
She's a pocket man? The idea popped up in my mind at that time, but what does it have to do with the title of "bench"? Her figure seems to be a little different from the pocket man she used to see in variety shows.
I put down the remote control in my hand and watched the conversation between the host and her and her husband (also a man with inconvenient legs and feet on crutches).
In fact, when the host introduced the lady and her husband, I think most people would be as puzzled as me, because if her husband just sat there without crutches, at first glance he would be a normal person, but she would be different. She sat in that chair. Actually, the word "curled up" seems to be more appropriate. A discerning person can see at a glance that she is disabled.
"Thank you for coming" is the theme of this program. Listening to the introduction of the host, I thought it was this woman who thanked her husband for bringing expectation and happiness to her life.
I never thought that the woman who "curled up" in a chair with a confident smile was the one who let her husband get rid of his inferiority complex and gain positive energy for happiness.
Throughout the program, the lady always smiled. She told me that when she was born, the doctor decided that she would not live 15 years old. Her loving parents didn't give her the chance to study in order to let her spend a "short" life carefree. Moreover, she always thought that she was the same kind as the dog at home, because she and it both walked on four legs. When she found that she could climb the bench and stand up, she said happily to the dog, Goodbye, we are not the same!
When she lived past fifteen and got her ID card at sixteen, when she felt that she was finally a citizen of China, her pride blossomed in her heart. She began to learn to read with a flashlight at night without telling her parents, just to prevent them from feeling guilty for not sending her to school.
It took her more than a year to learn to read and write. She doesn't think her disability depends on her parents. She took her small "bench" and started the road of job hunting. In seven years, she suffered strange eyes, puzzled and teased, and finally worked in an electronics factory. With a salary of 520 yuan in January, she kept 20 yuan for herself and gave it to her mother for 500 yuan, telling her, "I can also make money.
In the process of telling stories, she always laughs. She said she was really happy. Even when talking about the pain of her little body in her thirties when she gave birth to a son, she just laughed it off. She is even more grateful for the arrival of the doctor who delivered her baby and her children.
Many people in the program shed tears, and the one who shed the most tears was actually the psychologist. While wiping her tears with a paper towel, she introduced the case she took over with emotion: a college student was criticized by his tutor because he couldn't understand the paper and chose to jump off a building to commit suicide; A female friend who has a good family and career feels too tired to have children.
"Compared with you, I really can't figure them out." The doctor choked. "Yes, compared with her experience, what we have experienced is really nothing!" The host said. I had mixed feelings when I saw it, and I was ashamed of my usual complaints.
At the end of the program, the woman left her chair and thanked the audience with her husband on crutches. I saw that she jumped down from the chair flexibly, grabbed a crimson Xiao Mu stool next to the chair, jumped and jumped directly to the middle of the table three or two times, but her husband on crutches was not as flexible as her.
At that time, I was shocked by this picture. Looking at her little body, which is not much higher than Xiao Mu's stool, and looking at her delicate face with a smile, my heart is full of respect.
Mentality topic composition 6 fate, life, reincarnation; Unknown fate, bumpy life, infinite reincarnation. Mentality determines everything. -inscription
Everyone's fate and life cannot be smooth sailing. The key is how you look at your own destiny.
Some people have congenital genetic diseases, such as disability ... but they are divided into two categories: those who dare not face their own shortcomings, are full of inferiority, and thus lose their love for life, do nothing and regret for life. Another kind of people dare to face the cruel fate, never give up, never admit defeat, and look at their own destiny with an optimistic and positive attitude. Love life, love life. Aren't their fates the same? But how can they have two completely different results? Because of the mentality, if you always look at everything with a complaining attitude, then your life must be tasteless. If you look at everything with optimism, then your life must be full of fun.
Helen Keller is a blind and deaf writer, proficient in five languages, and has published a series of books, such as If I still have three days of light, My Life and My Teacher. What kind of person is she? Blind and deaf, the fate is so rough, but isn't she still alive? Moreover, she is also committed to the welfare of the disabled and the establishment of charitable organizations. She was named one of the top ten hero idols in the United States by Time magazine and won the Presidential Medal of Freedom and other awards.
Some people will say, "Helen Keller is blind and deaf because God closed a window for her, so God will open a door for her." But I think: God closes a window for you, but it doesn't necessarily open a door for you. Still have to knock on the door yourself. The most important thing is mentality, Helen Keller. Isn't she so successful in this world with an optimistic and positive attitude and the belief of never giving up?
On a football field, a person is constantly practicing football. His skill is very good, but when it comes to the game, he will be stiff and unable to play his own strength. The coach found this phenomenon, and he knew in his heart that he was afraid to play football because of his teeth. So, the coach said to him, "You don't have to care about your own shortcomings, don't think it's ugly, and look at it with appreciation." I believe you will play better. "Sure enough, after he stopped worrying about his teeth, he was very brave on the court. Many fans also regard his teeth as his symbol. He is Ronaldinho, that is, Ronaldinho.
Ronaldinho was very self-abased and gnashed his teeth, but when he changed his mind, wouldn't it be more successful?
Many people in the world are lost in the fetters of fate, and their mentality towards fate has a common feature: despair. But how can people with the same fate live so well? Because mentality, a good mentality, can regard all ups and downs as opportunities to hone themselves, which is the role of mentality.
Fate is unknown, no one can foresee the future, but the nature of fate can be determined by mentality.
Mentality topic composition 7 Fate ups and downs encounter ups and downs, and the mentality is calm and steady, in order to sharpen the giant.
Lincoln's life was full of frustration and failure. He failed in business and election, as if fate had doomed him. However, after repeated defeats, he finally ascended the presidency. Beethoven lost his mother at the age of 17 and later became deaf, but he didn't give up. He once wrote in a letter: "I will seize the fate by the throat, and it will never make me yield!" " Finally, the music saint created many great works.
Fate seems to play jokes on people often, which makes him suffer setbacks again and again. However, some people can correctly understand these hardships. They persisted, kept a good attitude in the predicament, endured these unbearable sufferings of ordinary people, and finally turned into butterflies, headed for success, and bloomed their own wonderful.
Xiang Yu's "winning lixi over the world" made the enemy fearsome and trapped by Qin Jun. If he was in a good state of mind and returned to Jiangdong to rally, I think with his strength, the world would be his and history would be rewritten. But it was because he could not look at the problem with a peaceful attitude that he thought it was "unfavorable at that time" and "the world would be destroyed by me". Finally, Wujiang committed suicide.
Imagine, if Xiang Yu regards this fate joke as a kind of exercise and has a peaceful heart, then Liu Bang's army may have been scared away by his imposing manner, and it would be easy for him to see the world alone.
Some people have a smooth life, have not experienced any great hardships, and move forward comfortably. Some people have bad luck and keep stumbling, but they are also strong. Which do you like: if you have a good fate, you will be envied, but if you have the mentality to overcome difficulties, you will be envied.
My friend, don't give up easily when you encounter hardships. Fate will make people choose to fail or succeed. If you persist, you will succeed. If your attitude is uneven, you will be eliminated. When you encounter difficulties, keeping a peaceful mind is the secret of grasping your destiny.
I have been in junior high school for more than a semester, and I find that one thing is particularly important, that is, mentality.
It is often said that a good attitude is half the battle. I didn't believe it before. I don't know what the substantive difference is between a good attitude and a bad one. Now that the study pressure is increasing, I really realize what a mentality is and how important it is.
There were few troubles before, and every day was very heartless. However, since I entered junior high school, all kinds of troubles have followed. What bothers me is homework, which seems to be endless. The partners around me often complain about homework problems, and sometimes even curse the teacher cruelly.
I'm annoyed, too. I once cursed the teacher secretly, but I found that no matter how I complained, the problem was still there. Nothing has changed, the only thing that has changed is my mood. I will become more unhappy and anxious because of the growing complaints. I quarreled directly with my best friend several times, but I regret it after each quarrel, because it is really not worth thinking about it in peace.
Later, the teacher talked to me, and he told me to put my mind right. He said that a person will feel a lot of troubles, which is not true, but that he does not have a good attitude to meet. After listening to the teacher's words, I tried to straighten my mind according to the methods taught by the teacher. In the face of the troubles that hit me, I didn't complain at the first time, but tried my best to solve them in the shortest and most effective way.
Now, I gradually find that my troubles seem to have disappeared and rarely bother me, because I have learned how to treat them, and even if there is, it has become an opportunity to exercise me.
If you have a successful attitude, you will think that you have the potential to succeed, and you will sincerely think that you can succeed in any field as long as you work hard. Therefore, don't give up the pursuit of success because of your poor conditions. As long as we can make good use of our minds, we will give you the energy to struggle and let you reach the other side of success.
Roosevelt was a timid and psychologically fragile little boy when he was a child. If he is called to recite the text on campus, he will immediately show symptoms such as trembling legs and lips, and his answer is still vague. Therefore, he always has a look of fear on his face, and even his breathing seems to be panting.
If this happens to other children, then the child must be very sensitive inside, avoid any group activities, become very withdrawn, do not like to make friends, and become a person nobody cares about.
When Roosevelt discovered the seriousness of this problem, he made up his mind to change this situation. At ordinary times, he deliberately seized every opportunity to exercise himself. It is precisely because he has always maintained such a thoughtful attitude that he finally inspired his spirit of struggle.
A person's shortcomings prompted him to work harder, and Roosevelt was such a person. He didn't lose heart because of the ridicule of his peers. On the contrary, he turned the habit of breathing into a firm hiss, and clenched his lips with his teeth to prevent them from trembling, thus overcoming his timidity and fear, which is the spirit of struggle. He finally became a great American president.
Roosevelt did not give up his pursuit because he had so many defects, but made good use of his defects to become an intangible capital, and finally reached the peak of success and became the first most popular president of the United States. It was this good attitude that kept Roosevelt from falling into the quagmire of self-pity. As the French writer Hugo said, "Nothing is more powerful than a timely idea." People with a thoughtful attitude are always looking for the best new ideas, which can increase the success potential of those with a thoughtful attitude.
Carnegie, an American billionaire and industrialist, once said: "A person who has complete control potential over his own heart will also have control potential over anything he has the right to get."
Therefore, it is very important to get a good psychological state, seek psychological balance, maintain a successful mentality and set yourself as a successful person, so that you can exert great enthusiasm and self-confidence to deal with all kinds of difficulties and obstacles encountered on the road ahead. Although you haven't succeeded yet, this sense of self-creation will push you to the goal of success.
What kind of mentality should a teenager have? Let's take a look together.
Before class, I saw that our Chinese teacher had forgotten the elegance of the past, so I turned to the desk behind me and said, "Be careful, lest there be a catastrophe." After a burst of music, the class began. "Nobody handed in yesterday's Chinese dictation. Stand up." Teacher Zhang said loudly with a frown. "Ah, ah, I'm dead. I forgot to hand it in. " I whispered to the table in the back. She made a face at me. I stood up slowly. "You guys, stay after school, be silent twice and sit down." I also said that everyone made faces at the back table.
Teenagers may have an open mind.
In the afternoon self-study, the classmate at the next table turned around and asked me a question that he had not solved. I was doing it when I looked up and smiled. "How to pull, how to pull?" "You farm!" "No." I took the rice down. We smiled at each other.
Teenagers' mentality may be humor.
It rained very late. When we reached the end of the corridor, another soldier and I raised our coats above our heads and strode forward until we reached the station. Although there are mud flowers on the trouser legs, we still feel lucky.
The mentality of a teenager may be brave.
Every moment is a good place to show our mentality, and everything can show our mentality.