I met a female online friend before going to the garden. At that time, I just held an easy-to-chat attitude and didn't tell her my real name. Now that you two have confirmed your love relationship, I personally think it's time for you to show your cards to her and tell her that your real name is actually each other. A kind of trust in each other. Personally, since you have concealed him for a long time before and suddenly told him not to make any preparations, it will definitely make the other party feel that you always have a little distrust of him. So you can choose a time when both sides are happy. To tell him about it. This will make the other person feel that although you have hidden it from him, he is in a good mood at this time, so he will not care about you.