What do you mean, soft and quiet?
This sentence comes from Laozi, so we can't intercept one of them. Laozi advocates the rule of inaction, and the weak wins the strong. A gentle and strong husband means humility, casualness and safety, and is good at adapting to the environment and guiding the situation. Tao has a low status, but it is invincible. "The world is a friend of the world. You often win by static, and take static as the next step. "