As the song goes, you should rely on your parents at home and your friends when you go out, but you should be careful when making friends. If you make an unhappy friend, it will be extremely uncomfortable. Then, in life, we should use some small routines to let the "fake friend" show his true colors. As the saying goes, real gold is not afraid of fire. If he is really a close friend, even if we try it many times, he will be as always, without any difference.

For example, after I graduated from high school, I was admitted to a good university. Because of the high score, the other students failed to meet the standard, so they all chose a university near our province. And I came to a different place alone. On the first day of school, in the dormitory, I met several classmates and soon became one. Because it was the first time we met, I didn't know what the other person's temper was.

but at this time, we want to test each other, what kind of person he is, and we should use some small routines. However, it is necessary to harm others and prevent others. Our little routine is only to see a person more quickly. When we know his character, we can make an accurate judgment whether this person is worth making friends with.

For example, we can borrow 1 yuan money from him, and then set a deadline to return it to him after one week, and then we can give him 15 yuan. At this time, we should observe his expression. If he is a greedy person, he will accept our money. If he is a gentleman, he will say that he borrowed 1 yuan.

We can see a person's true colors only with 5 yuan. Personally, I think this is extremely cost-effective. Of course, making friends depends on heart-to-heart, and we should be honest with each other, but sometimes, it is not clear whether the person in front of us is worth making friends with. Then at this time, we should use some small routines, but these routines can't hurt others. Like me, you can choose to suffer some losses yourself. As the saying goes, losing is a blessing. In fact, if you want to see a person clearly, you will see it clearly as long as you generate benefits.