1. To make friends with children, you need to put yourself in their shoes.
Many parents seem to want to make friends with their children, but they can't find the methods and skills in the implementation process, and even just ask their children what happened that day in order to understand their dynamics.
This method is not correct. Imagine that if parents are constantly asked by outsiders what to do every day, I believe parents will be bored.
The child is also an independent individual, and he will have this kind of emotion. Therefore, when making friends with children, parents should master methods and care for each other.
Learn to think from the child's point of view, and know when to ask questions, when not to ask questions, and what to ask. These questions are all asked by the university. Only by understanding them can we make qualitative progress.
When parents and children make friends, the most important thing to pay attention to is distance.
Many parents, especially fathers, especially like to call their children brothers, and always like to put some words such as? I'll protect you if I'm your boss in the future? As each other's mantra.
Maybe some children will find it novel and like this mode of getting along, but this method varies from person to person.
Don't get too close to your children. This is definitely not a joke. Some children turn intimacy into recklessness just because they misunderstand this relationship and the distance between them. They are always rude and reckless to their parents, not to mention afraid.
Well, that's what I want to share. If you have other ideas, you can leave a message below the comments.