I personally think that your shyness is due to your own lack of confidence. It is more or less embarrassing for everyone to ask for WeChat from someone of the opposite sex whom they are not familiar with, but For a person with self-confidence, he will not worry about how to speak better or what will happen if he fails. He just thinks about it and then does it. So I think you should increase your self-confidence. You can choose to go to more crowded places and participate in more social activities. The more you see, your self-confidence will naturally increase. Regarding the current situation, you can take some technical measures to get the WeChat of the opposite sex. I will list a few methods for you. You can refer to them:

1. Pretend that there is something wrong with your own mobile phone. If the call cannot be connected, then you borrow the other party's mobile phone to call your own mobile phone to get the other party's mobile phone number. After the incident, you add the other party's WeChat account on the pretext of thanking the other party, and then don't let the other party have a meal or something. The rest is up to you!

2. Pretend that you don’t know where you put your phone and you need to call to find it. Borrow the other person’s phone to dial. Same as above

If you don’t want to take any technical steps measures, then you can encourage yourself in your heart. Don't feel embarrassed to speak, and don't think about how embarrassed you will be if the other party rejects you. Grit your teeth and ask directly: "Can you give me your WeChat ID? ” or “Let’s add a WeChat friend!” As long as you know each other or have just met, the other party will usually agree, because everyone will feel that it will be more convenient to contact and make friends in the future, so this is the way to go. Nothing could be further from the norm. The decision is made in that moment. Don’t leave yourself too much time to think. No matter how much you think, you will not achieve your goal. Only by doing it will you have the possibility of success. I believe that as long as you have such an experience After that, I will no longer be afraid of social activities. In many situations, people force themselves out. If you don't force yourself, you will never know how big your potential is and how big your abilities are.