Cher is a lovely girl. Whenever you see her, she always smiles brightly, as if she has never been unhappy. That kind of heartfelt happiness has infected many people. Relatives, friends and colleagues all like to be with her, saying that she is a happy angel. As long as she appears, she can sweep away the haze in her heart and exchange it for a clear heart.

Someone asked Cher if she was born happy. Cher's answer was particularly profound. She said? Only those who have experienced pain know more about the importance of happiness. Life has taught me that only by studying, working and living happily can I live up to my life and be worthy of the people who love you the most and care about you. ?

Cher's words are well-founded. She experienced severe pains in her growth.

One month before the college entrance examination, Cher's world suddenly collapsed because her beloved father died in an accident. She can't accept this fact. She has been in Lacrimosa all day, unable to eat and sleep, and her mood is on the verge of collapse. She won't listen to anyone's comfort, and even went to the mountains to dig up her father.

Mother was also very sad. Seeing her daughter like this, she had to put away her pain and stay with Cher every day, lest she do anything hard. During the college entrance examination, Cher was still in a bad mood and could not take the exam. During the summer vacation, Cher was still immersed in sadness.

The students got the college admission notice one by one, and Cher was even more sad when she learned it. She burst into tears every day. Crying that I am a waste, I failed to keep my father, and I missed the opportunity to go to college. What should I do in the future? Mother looked at her more and more depressed, and the persuasion and comfort of her classmates and friends were ineffective, so she was very anxious.

One day, when Cher was crying again, her mother called a car, forced her into it and took her to her father's grave. Mother told Cher to kneel in front of her father's tombstone, thinking about how her father had educated her before and what kind of person she hoped she would become, and then telling her father about her performance in the past few months.

kneeling in front of her father's tombstone, Cher wakes up. Yes, I have been so sad, what problem has I solved? It also makes the grieving mother more miserable. Didn't my father always say that he wanted to be a happy person himself? My father must be very disappointed when he looks like this. She silently told her father that from today on, she should cheer up and live happily in the future, so that her father can see her happy appearance in the spirit of heaven and stop worrying about her mother.

After that, Cher put away her sadness, tried to squeeze out a smile and went back to school to repeat her studies. At first, she had a hard time. After all, she was so sad that she couldn't take it if she wanted to. Sometimes, she will feel sad and want to cry. But when she thought of her father's wish before her death and saw her mother's smiling face, she forcibly resisted the urge to cry, turned sadness into strength, studied hard, squeezed out sadness with a huge learning task, and greeted every day with a smile.

Nietzsche said: Anything that can't kill you will eventually make you stronger. ?

After one year's re-reading, Xueer was successfully admitted to the university, and smiling became her habit. And more and more, she found that people who like to smile and live happily are always very popular, and whether they apply for a job, work or make friends, they will be smoother. Later, she put? Live happily? As a rule of life.

Cher said that it is inevitable to encounter various problems in life, but happiness is also a day, and unhappiness is also a day. Why not be happy? Besides, happiness can also bring good mood to yourself and the people around you. Why not? She said that happiness has become her habit. Once negative emotions such as anger and depression arise, she will immediately sentence them to death, dissolve them at any time, and must not let them spend the night in her heart.

So, Cher lived a happy life, and her life became more and more smooth, which just confirmed that sentence. Happy people are not bad luck? .

Being happy is an ability, and smiling is the most beautiful expression in the world. In a person's life, there are always some troubles, intentional or unintentional, that rush into his heart. Don't let them influence his mood. If you are obsessed with troubles, you are giving yourself a hard time. Learn to adjust yourself, and let go is happiness. Learn to let go of your troubles, and happiness will come to you. When you turn happiness into a habit, it's hard for you to be happy.

Author of this article: Zhong Jinhui (WeChat WeChat official account: Simple Snail)

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