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Why do many people despise fair-weather friends?
I think the reason is more complicated. Let me talk about it.

First of all, fair-weather friends are like evil friends.

A person's friends have different grades, and they can make friends with some social elites and some people at the bottom of society. This kind of fair-weather friend gives people the impression that they are people at the bottom of society, because such people often rely on fair-weather to enhance their feelings and have no emotional connection with each other. If they are relatively thoughtful and pursue people, they will not be satisfied with this level of friendship. So why are they willing to be fair-weather friends? It is very likely that these people have no thoughts at all, that is, the people at the bottom of society have enough to eat and drink.

Therefore, ordinary fair-weather friends are such people. How can we make them respected?

Second, fair-weather friends are unreliable.

Besides the low level of fair-weather friends, the biggest problem of fair-weather friends is that they are unreliable. Such people often like to talk big and not do practical things. When you drink and eat meat, you are friends. You can drink and fight, as if you don't know how close you are. But once you are in trouble and need their help, they will avoid you and stay away. What is worth taking out?

Then why are fair-weather friends looked down upon? Because friends not only have to play together, eat together and drink together, but also need spiritual communication. But the friendship of fair-weather friends is so worthless that people feel that the friendship of these people is too simple. How can they be respected?