Generally speaking, when it comes to Tai Chi in this kind of relationship between men and women, you don’t need to ask what the other person told you specifically. You only need to care about the actual result of whether she accepts you or rejects you. , because usually the reasons they say are all disguised and rhetorical, and there is no need to take them seriously. So if you still want to pursue her, you don't need to listen to what she said when she rejected you as a reference for your strategy. . . First of all, you should have a good understanding of what kind of character this girl is. If you have a typical little girl personality, then if you make good money, keep working out, and pay attention to your dressing, she will change her opinion of you after seeing it. If she has a strong personality, then see if she particularly wants a man to be gentle and considerate.

In short, it is to prescribe the right medicine. You need to observe more yourself, rather than just believe what the girl says. Whether there are competitors or not, I think it doesn't matter as long as you don't get married. Everyone has a chance.

1. Improve your charm.

2. Care about her and let her know that you are always there by any means. But not the kind that keeps pestering you and makes you very annoying.

3. Love lasts forever. Don't be in a hurry, be sincere to her for a long time.