Although this is a normal phenomenon, we should not indulge in such complaints. This romance has its own advantages. Only by adjusting your mentality in time can you enjoy the beauty of the university.
The sunset I saw when I came back from my freshman year was so brilliant.
What high school often hears may be "study hard now, and it will be easy to go to college" I didn't know that teachers were "liars" until I went to college. Although studying in college is not as hard as studying in high school, you need to take it seriously. After all, this is your first stepping stone into society in the future. Many people's dream or goal has always been to go to college. Once you enter the university, it is easy to have "intermittent goals" or "temporary lack of goals". Then you can set a closer goal, such as understanding the conditions for obtaining scholarships and striving for scholarships ... Life is not in vain. If you really don't know what to do, grasp the existing knowledge. After entering the university, you may meet some national competitions such as College Students' Innovation and Entrepreneurship Competition and internet plus. These strange and sacred competitions, together with the talent pool and brilliant stars in the new environment, will turn many people from "stand out from the crowd" to "mediocre" people. The stronger the change of this status, the greater the psychological gap, resulting in self-evaluation imbalance and inferiority complex. Baby, don't be afraid. When everyone enters the university, they will be confused when they encounter strange tasks. This is not our problem. At this time, you can join some clubs, get to know your predecessors, learn more relevant information, and communicate with tour guides. The guidance committee likes active students very much, but you should pay attention to finding the right time. After entering the university, you may feel that your relationship with your roommate is more distant than before. It's hard to have a bosom friend, who can talk about everything and think about the future together. People seem to be afraid of loneliness, but loneliness is always with them. Learning to get along with yourself and your heart may be the first lesson in adulthood. Perhaps what's more, you from all corners of the country have different cultural differences and life pursuits, which leads to irreconcilable dormitory contradictions. Then, remember one sentence: "Sometimes, the only thing a person can change is etiquette." On issues that do not involve principles, reasonable communication and appropriate concessions will ease your relationship a lot. I hope you can be lively, vulgar, lonely and quiet. I want to be financially independent, but I feel more and more incompetent. Many students will think that they are adults in college and can support themselves, which gives them a lot of pressure invisibly. But on the whole, we don't have enough time and ability, so it is difficult to find a job that suits us. Ordinary part-time jobs just waste our energy and time. If you really need it urgently, then you must choose formal channels, beware of fraud, and don't be possessed. Through the introduction of seniors and sisters, some tutoring work (especially in first-tier cities, with considerable income) can find resources in their own hands after graduation or internship; You can find some small part-time jobs published by WeChat official accounts, but you must learn to identify and stop losses in time; You can also strive for school work-study programs, which is the most reliable. Although the salary may not be particularly high, it meets the national requirements. Don't worry too much about that, my friend. Study hard and don't worry about making money, and you will all become little rich women.