Choosing the target is to distinguish which are emotional liars and which girls can't catch up with. According to my summary, there are two kinds of girls who don't pursue the second step to set goals.
The first one is the girl who borrowed money from you.
This kind of woman just treats you like an idiot. If you lend her money, you can't get it back. Besides, she will shut you out and you will get nothing except spending your money.
The second is in the name of finding friends.
They will have an affair with you and occasionally have close contact with you in language. This often happens when they ask you to give out red envelopes on holidays, especially Tanabata and Valentine's Day. That's why she asked you for money. No one has heard from her.
The third step is to read the girl's hints.
The key to chasing a girl is to check the color. If she wants to sleep, you should send a pillow quickly, so that she can understand, and she will think that you know her well and are her confidant, and then you will succeed.
The fourth step, this fourth step is to upgrade the relationship.
After several consecutive dates, the relationship quickly warmed up. At this time, it is necessary to strike while the iron is hot and change the relationship of love to talk about marriage. At this time, you can offer to meet each other's parents, and then take the girl home to meet her parents.
The fifth step is to enter the marriage hall.
So how can this life be maintained after marriage? I can only give you a word, be tolerant and understand, and live a plain life.