The ghost of my predecessor is the result of my boyfriend's broken contact and ambiguous preservation. Decisively let such a boyfriend become an ex-boyfriend, and you win. Otherwise, you will fight all your life, with no dignity. Remember! Your boyfriend must consider your feelings and cut off the relationship completely. It's already his fault that you need to face these things! Just like you want to take a clear-cut stand and refuse to treat other people who provoke you, instead of being ambiguous and your boyfriend coming out to fight them. A real man won't quarrel with your ex. He will simply say, since you want to be ambiguous, I won't get in the way. Take your time. Bye-bye.