Is this also a problem? If the other person is really a smart person, it should be easier to get along with.

Really smart people are not so domineering and condescending in everything. The so-called smart people must have high intelligence and a good mentality. He is cautious, low-key and calm in dealing with others.

It is true that in the current social phenomenon, many people pay attention to strategies and other routines in dealing with the world. In this way, the quality of people is ruined.

A cultivated person, a wise person, will not follow the chaos of the world and has his own rules or standards for being a human being. If the so-called shrewdness is not introverted but extrovert, those who are accustomed to this will become smart or harsh over time and lose their original shrewd luster.

In one sentence, be yourself and be worthy of others.

How to get along with a shrewd person?

Usually, a shrewd person is a person who knows how to measure things. His EQ is usually very high, and his IQ is not low either. If you want to get along well with this kind of people, I think you need to do the following:

1. A shrewd person often doesn’t talk too much. That is to say, if you want to get along well with him, your The way you speak must be similar to him. For example, if you are a person who usually talks big words without any scruples, then you have to change this way of letting go of disappointment, try to be less pretentious, say what you have done, consider other people's feelings when you speak, and learn to put yourself in others' shoes. , don’t engage in verbal disputes, imitate other people’s words and don’t talk too much.

2. A shrewd person will generally take into account the interests of others. If you want to get along well with this kind of person, first of all, you should not be too selfish and do not want to keep all the benefits for yourself. You must learn to share them with others. , learn to eat cake together. For example, if your organization's team receives a bonus, you can win over people by sharing a piece of the pie with everyone, and this will make it easy to get along with them.

3. A shrewd person will often retreat when faced with difficulties and make himself invincible. If you want to get along well with such a person, you must not be too persistent or too stubborn to achieve your goals. You have to give up when it's time to give up. Don't think that it's a pity to give up and that it's a bit more gain than loss. On the contrary, you should maintain an optimistic attitude. A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise.

A shrewd person is often easy to get along with. As long as you don’t be too stubborn, don’t be too dull-minded, and keep a humble heart, you can easily get along with such people!

Personally, I think being yourself is the key. The world is too irritable now and everyone has different preferences. If you think you are an honest person, you probably feel that you are suppressed by the other party in every aspect, and that no matter what you do, you will be taken advantage of by the other party. In fact, there is a saying that goes well now: "There are no permanent friends, only eternal interests." Only those who are valuable will be taken advantage of by others. If you change your mentality, your life will be easier. As long as you don't have the intention to harm others, you can save everything. With some room for maneuver, you can move forward and retreat freely.

If the other person is smart, then you can pay more attention to their way of dealing with others, and you will also make progress as a person. Being shrewd is not a bad thing as long as you use it from the right standpoint to behave and do things right. Honest people have their own advantages. If they correct their mentality, do what they should do, and don't expect too much in return, they can have a happy life. Everyone's starting point is different. In today's world, if you pay, you may not be rewarded, but if you don't pay, there will definitely be no reward.

The relationship between two people does not need to be treated with too much so-called thinking. Being yourself is the key. There is aura between people. If he likes you, he will like you without having to do too many things. If he doesn't like you, even if you become the same person as him, he still won't like you, let alone shrewd. Who would want to get along with a shrewd person? In fact, he is the one who is feeling tired. Everything is more complicated than you think. He takes one step and thinks three steps. Happy people are honest people because they don’t think too much about the consequences. Think of the rewards as small, or even ask for nothing in return, and you'll feel comfortable.

"If you have no desire, you will be strong." Just playing with your hands means you have nothing to do.

It seems that you are an honest person, then live happily in your world, do things with a relatively simple heart, do what you should do, earn the money you should earn, be principled, know how to refuse, and be able to If you accept it, get along with it. If you can't accept it, just make friends. Don't let one person or thing disturb your own life. Whether you are an honest person or a smart person, remember one sentence. Live, be born, live...

Most of the time, we like to get along with smart people, on the one hand to make friends; on the other hand, we can learn from some good advantages to make up for our own shortcomings. But how to get along with smart people? This is a science. First of all, we must first identify whether this person is really smart or fake; secondly, there is an essential difference between the two. It is difficult for a person to find a good teacher in his life. Some people can achieve success; some people will (in one sentence) ruin their lives. A truly shrewd person will hide his clumsiness, will not get entangled in small things, knows how to measure, and will be different in the face of big things; a fake shrewd person will show off, care about everything, confuse right and wrong, and be different from others before others. How to get along? 1. Improve your discernment; 2. Strengthen learning and expand your knowledge; 3. Give priority to respect, supplement with praise, and say hello frequently; 4. Use the friends you make as a starting point to observe a person. Character and conduct. For reference

Haha, are there smart people around you? That's great, congratulations. You don't have to worry about anything anymore. You don't have to worry about anything. Just follow it. You don't have to worry about getting along at all. It's simple.

In fact, when dealing with someone who is too shrewd, Meeting people is really tiring! ! ! Because I will always be blamed for not doing enough or not being good enough!

If you say that you are a very smart person, then there is no need to say more. Sometimes shrewdness also has a derogatory meaning. If you have an opponent or someone like this around you, you should be more cautious and don't say everything without reservation. People who are too smart often think that you are valuable when they get along with you. .

It is best not to get along with each other. If you feel that you can do it, then please accept it. Of course, if you can't do it, he will not have too much contact with you.

Get along with smart people , learn from him. I can learn from his strengths. If you can't stand his shrewdness, stay away

To achieve balance, balance yin and yang, combine virtual and actual conditions, and reduce impulse. For example: If he is older, act younger. If he is not younger, act younger. If he is smart, act dumb. If he is not older, act dumb. Everything can be good, and the contradiction in a problem must be the source of the contradiction. Only when the contradiction of the same quality arises, can new substances be produced.