Are you in college or junior high school? Or high school? Would you please ask a question clearly? Advantages of the university: learn to get along with others, know how to care about others, cherish feelings, be considerate of others, and have the motivation to learn ... Disadvantages: I think it depends on how you handle it! See what your purpose and direction are! You can't absolutely say that there are no benefits or only disadvantages, but there may be benefits! The six "benefits" of junior high school are the first. People don't have me, and things are rare. When you see the envious eyes of others, you will feel intoxicated. Second, there is the warmth of love and being loved, the care of parents at home, the care of lovers at school, and a sweet sense of happiness; Third, with fixed friends of the opposite sex, the troubles in life are listened to, understood, solved, comforted and filled with emptiness; Fourth, the monotonous study life adds interest, life is enriched, and there is a feeling that the world is brand-new, and the heart is often sunny; Fifth, there is a mature happiness, even a little rebellious pleasure; Sixth, if you lose your temper with your parents, they won't care. Parents are still parents, but if you lose your temper with your lover, you will probably ignore you, so you will cherish this feeling and learn to be responsible for it. There are so many "benefits"! To explain the "benefits" thoroughly, students should be invited to participate in the lecture and make supplements. "Benefits" are transparent and have no mystery. Students who are not in love feel less happy, while those who are in love may feel less happy. The downside is. . First of all, young people should make friends widely. Friendship enriches your mind and is one of the elements of happiness in life. Friends are also a mirror and stepping stone to success in life. Now that you are in love and concentrate on one person, your circle of friends will inevitably shrink, which is equivalent to closing the door to making friends. Others are inconvenient and dare not intervene in your circle. Second, you are very much in love every day. When we are not together, we should worry about each other and feel each other's psychology. How much time and energy does it take? How much time do you have to learn and develop yourself? Your imperfect mind is full of love, so how can your lessons and studies not be affected? Third, middle school students' falling in love violates the code for middle school students. You must be careful. You are afraid of teachers' criticism and parents' knowing that you are anxious, impetuous and mentally exhausted. Can you still concentrate? Fourth, love is a noble and sacred emotion among human emotions, which is more important than life (in petofi). Noble feelings can be publicized and should be blessed, but can you publicize them? Can you take him home? Will parents, relatives and friends sincerely bless you? If the answer is no, isn't this sneaking puppy love a desecration and defilement of this sacred and noble emotion? Fifth, people are not animals. You can't live today, so consider the next step. The next step in love is to get married and raise children. Have you ever thought about it? You are only sixteen or seventeen years old, and there are five or six years before the legal age for marriage. Great changes will take place in recent years, and the world is wonderful. Is this the most suitable world for you, and your mental development is not perfect, which can guarantee the success of the next marriage? If you can't guarantee it, will it be a joke? Isn't this another blasphemy and defilement? Sixth, maybe you don't want to be too serious, just play and talk about the emptiness of life. Then you just don't love yourself, frivolous and dancing college, and your taste is too low! Seventh, if you can't grasp yourself in love and make a big mistake, I'm afraid it will hurt two generations and cause lifelong regret! Finally, I want to say something that can't be explained clearly. There is no distinction between good and evil in this world. The difference between good and evil lies in one heart, depending on which position you stand on.