Duan Fei in The Queen of the Palace belongs to Zhen Xuan School. At first glance, she is a likable person.

Light eyebrow eye, corners of the mouth always with a smile, dignified temperament, indifference as if can be seen in her, the most important thing is, when Zhen Xuan was framed by Huafei with cassava flour, Duan Fei decisively came to the rescue, which is a rare goodwill of the harem.

Although "The Queen of the Palace" is an old play, there are still countless people who dig out various roles and shake out their true personalities.

Take Duan Fei as an example. Some people say that Duan Fei is actually very deep. She is the only person in the play who can dress up as a pig and eat elephants. Eyeliner was placed in each palace, and the semi-grid electricity lasted until the finale, winning Princess Wen Yi and seeking sustenance and dependence for the rest of my life. It is also appropriate to use strong means.

Strangely, no matter what netizens say, I just can't hate Duan Fei.

But Hua Fei and I are different together.

Many people say that the role of Hua Fei is really wonderful.

When I first met her, she looked radiant and overwhelmed the sixth house. She is the one who winks at her like silk, relies on pets and is arrogant.

Later, it was her who was narrow-minded and heartless. Contributed to the classic paragraph "One Zhang Hong" and disabled "Four Seasons Sister" Xia Dongchun; In order to win favor and frame Zhen Xuan, he even poisoned the baby with cassava flour.

She is the one who loves you the most. Finally, I learned that the person I loved most, who hurt me the most, died of despair. Success turned her dislike into sympathy: "What a poor person!" "

How many people deeply like Hua Fei, and how many people hate Hua Fei.

I belong to the latter. I can't tell you how much I hate it, but when I think of Hua Fei, I can't tell you how much I like it. Both Duan Fei and Hua Fei have something people like or criticize.

In the adult world, there is no absolute good and evil, and real people are always intertwined with good and evil.

Duan Fei is open-minded, but it does not affect her hatred when she thinks that Hua Fei makes her infertile; Hua Fei is ruthless and jealous, which does not affect her affection.

The same mixture of good and evil. Why are the subjective impressions of two people so different in other people's minds?

2

When people see another person making an evaluation, their first impression is very profound.

This is the "first cause effect" in psychology. Also known as "superiority effect", or commonly known as "first impression effect".

Although this first impression is not always correct, it is the most vivid and firm.

Duan Fei is the first concubine in the harem, with the deepest qualifications, and the first pillow man around Grandpa Four. However, she took the blame for Grandpa Four's mother and son, and was filled with red flowers by Hua Fei, which led to lingering in her sick bed for the rest of her life.

Not to mention, I lost my most important fertility as a woman at that time, which was simply unbearable pain for life!

But Duan Fei survived with a weak body, not only alive, but also kind and indifferent, helping Zhen Xuan to lift the crisis many times.

Although there is calculation and hatred in my heart, I can't hurt the innocent. After the revenge, I didn't kill my eyes and vent my anger. I think innocent people are buried by their injustice.

Extravagance is nature, restraint is skill.

On the other hand, Hua Fei was the most favored person when Zhen Xuan eyebrow zhuang was not online. She had family support and face, but what did she do?

Throw the maid-in-waiting blessed son given by the queen into the well;

Instruct Yu to poison;

Order people to push Mei Zhuang into a thousand carp pond and drown him;

Framing Shen Meizhuang for false pregnancy and seeking favor;

Send things used by people with epidemic diseases to Shenmeizhuang for use, so that they can suffer from epidemic diseases;

Drowned a pure and noble man, accidentally broke his salesman and took bribes.

Piles, which is not a murder, first strike is strong, only paving the way for your love?

As for affection, isn't Zhen Xuan affectionate? Eyebrow zhuang didn't give all his trust to grandpa four? Duan Fei reminded the emperor that if he didn't love him, he would care about these details.

To put it bluntly, Hua Fei is just a delicate egoist.

Back to Duan Fei and Hua Fei, the answers to the questions raised before will be vividly portrayed.

My first preconceived impression of Duan Fei was particularly good, which made me have a good impression of Duan Fei later. Even if Duan Fei did something that hurt others, she might think that she might have her own difficulties, not out of her own heart.

The first impression of Hua Fei is much worse, which leads to the fact that Hua Fei's actions will verify the previous bad impression: look! Sure enough, he is not a good man!

Remember the scene in the play where Hua Fei didn't mean to make Zhen Xuan kneel down and cause miscarriage? Hua Fei is one of the few people who just want to bully, not hiding the heart of abortion, but extremely wronged. Everyone, including Grandpa Four, thinks that Huafei did this on purpose because she was jealous of Zhen Xuan's pregnancy. It was just anger, and she couldn't wait to kill the evil woman on the spot.

If I were you, I wouldn't believe it if I said she didn't mean it! Hua Fei's first impression is that she likes to punish and hurt others!

Therefore, a bad first impression does subtly affect others' judgment on you. Obviously, there are some things you haven't done, some things you haven't said, and you are not arrogant, but the other party will always think in a bad direction.

Many times, what others think is good or bad is not whether you do it or not, but whether others want it or not.

three

People in the harem may not really know what the "first cause effect" is, but they are all good at using it.

Eyebrow zhuang won the favor of the queen mother with her dignified and steady manner; Duan Fei won the trust of Zhen Xuan with goodwill; If there is anything that may be bad for you in the harem, you should tell your fourth uncle first to make a good impression.

Zhen Xuan, in particular, deserves to be the champion of Gong Dou this year, and knows this very well.

After Mei Zhuang was grounded because of Hua Fei's false pregnancy, Zhen Xuan began to face Hua Fei for the first time. Instead of passively waiting for Huafei to find fault and seize the wrong place, it is better to start first, so Zhen Xuan designed a series of tricks to make the fourth uncle leave Huafei to find trouble first.

Sure enough, as long as you leave this point of view, the fourth grandfather who loved Hua Fei so much in those days actually discharged Hua Fei's right to associate with the Sixth Palace for the first time. As a clever and meticulous emperor, it is still used by Zhen Xuan.

It was not used by Zhen Xuan, but was blinded by the "first cause effect". People rely on instinct and "jump to judgment" too quickly through first impressions.

Later, when Ling Yunfeng was ready to be pampered, Su Peisheng asked Zhen Xuan to dress up before the arrival of the emperor, but Zhen Xuan only used plain face.

Dressed up too deliberately, it is better to use delicate and touching to deepen the first impression of fourth uncle: look what I have been tortured into! Let the fourth uncle feel guilty, pity, protect, and go straight to the forehead!

So if used well, it will really be a good means. A clever man like Zhen Xuan can always achieve his goal, and he should know how to use some psychological skills. A beautiful woman who lives clearly will generally not have a bad life anywhere.

In our real life, the "first cause effect" has reference significance. In the first contact with others, such as job interviews, making friends and other occasions, leaving a good first impression not only increases the chances of success, but also makes it easier to integrate into the team, make friends and gain a sense of belonging.

This also tells us that whenever you use the "first cause effect" to make a good first impression, it will be much easier for you to do things in the future.