types of etiquette
many people think that etiquette is very simple, just to meet and say hello and say goodbye. This idea is all wet. There are generally three categories of etiquette:
The first category is daily life etiquette, including meeting etiquette, meeting etiquette, conversation etiquette, banquet etiquette, meeting etiquette, ball etiquette, gift etiquette and visiting etiquette.
The second category is festival etiquette, including Spring Festival etiquette, Qingming etiquette, Dragon Boat Festival etiquette, Chongyang etiquette, Mid-Autumn Festival etiquette and wedding etiquette, funeral etiquette and birthday etiquette.
the third category is business etiquette, including meeting etiquette, negotiation etiquette, welcoming etiquette and taboo knowledge in negotiation.
Others include public relations etiquette, official etiquette, home etiquette and job hunting etiquette.
Gift-giving etiquette
Gift-giving mainly includes the following situations: holiday, wedding, birthday, thanks for helping to bid farewell to relatives and friends and returning gifts. The most important thing to give a gift is to show your mind. The so-called "send goose feathers a thousand miles away, and the ceremony is light and affectionate!" You should choose and buy gifts according to your own financial situation, so that if the recipient knows the truth, he will feel at ease. It should be noted that it is best to add exquisite wrapping paper when giving gifts, which not only shows that you have "settled down", but also arouses the curiosity of the other party.
visiting etiquette: the hospital is a special place to heal the wounded and rescue the dying, so before going to the hospital, you should find out what ward the patient is in and the bed number, so as not to disturb the quiet of the hospital by asking around. You'd better prepare a gift before visiting the doctor.
Some people like to give patients tonics or health-care beauty products. In fact, this is very inappropriate, because patients are in the treatment period and need to take medicine or injections on time every day, which is not suitable for taking tonics. Flowers or small bonsai are suitable as gifts for patients. Think about how much spring and vitality a bunch of colorful flowers and a vibrant bonsai can bring to the white ward! However, sending flowers is very particular, and some flowers are not suitable for patients. Generally speaking, the following flowers are good choices: roses, carnations, stars, lilies and birds of paradise.
Wedding Etiquette: The happiest thing in life is to be married with a lover. Getting married is a great event in life. As a friend attending the wedding banquet, you should choose a gift in advance, and it is better to be meaningful, such as sending 99 roses to represent "Forever", or sending a commemorative gold greeting card and wedding cake to express your gratitude and blessing to the bride and groom.
Birthday etiquette: Birthday is actually a birthday celebration. When giving birthdays to elders, "courtesy" is a little more. It's easiest to give gifts to friends of the same age for their birthdays. To celebrate the birthday of the elders, in addition to paying attention to clothes, you must also bring an item with the meaning of health and longevity, such as a beautifully designed cake or a commemorative gold card.
funeral etiquette: the traditional funeral ceremony is complicated and the procedure is trivial. Nowadays, mourning for the dead is usually expressed in the form of memorial service. There are some etiquette to attend the memorial service. To show the memory of the ancestors and care and sympathy for the families of the deceased, you can send a wreath or flower card.
Social etiquette skills
1. Don't break your word. 2. Keep your word.
3. Don't make friends when you first meet? 4. When angry, Don't swear
5. Don't make jokes. 6. Don't get carried away when you talk. 7. Don't give people nicknames. 8. Don't favor one over the other. 9. Don't gossip. 1. Don't be arrogant when making friends. 11. Don't talk too much when making friends.
Common courtesies
Say when you meet for the first time [
ask for forgiveness [tolerance]
ask for help [excuse me]
ask for convenience [excuse me]
trouble others to say [excuse me]
congratulate others [congratulations]
ask for help [excuse me]
ask someone for guidance [instruction]
say [walk slowly] when seeing the guest off
say goodbye to the guest and say [come again]
say [accompany] when accompanying a friend
say [excuse me] when leaving halfway
wait for the guest [wait]
ask someone not to say [stay]
Welcome to buy and call [patronize]