I feel that there is no topic at all with my friends. What if you are getting more and more alienated?
Everyone has a few friends around him. It may not be much, but there must be. Besides, making friends is the most important thing, and there will be no more. But there are always some people who do the opposite. They can't stand loneliness and like being surrounded by different friends. Such people don't necessarily have the same topic, and they don't necessarily have a heart-to-heart relationship. They are all fair-weather friends, but some people have close friends. Different levels will also lead to different topics. I believe there will always be friends around you who didn't go to high school, but you went to college with different academic qualifications. Of course, your thinking and thinking angles are different, so when you look at the same thing again, you will have different views. You can't even understand your friends. Why are you doing this? If you think so, he can't understand what you are doing. If you think so, you will have a sense of distance. If it is not handled in time, it may go their separate ways. Different experiences lead to different perspectives. No one's life can be repeated and copied. Therefore, everyone will have their own experiences in real life, and we will all learn some lessons from these experiences. If your friend has never experienced this, he may repeat the mistakes you made before in the face of the same thing, but because of his personality, he may not listen to you, so he can't understand you and even think that you have nothing in common. Timely communication is very important to promote the relationship between people, especially the relationship between friends. There must be communication, if there is no communication, then you don't know some of each other's situations and ideas. After a long time, there will be cracks and it will be difficult to repair them.