1. Generally speaking, there are no fairies who don't eat fireworks in this world. Everyone thinks that they are aloof and out of reach, so in fact, she is as ordinary as us, doing what we are all doing tomorrow and worrying about the surroundings around her. It is not villas, luxury cars or ten-carat diamonds that can impress them. For them, the real luxury is.
2. Don't think that cheating can buy love. No matter how perfect a scam is, there are flaws, and no matter how thorough a lie is, it will be exposed. No matter whether you are good or bad, poor or rich, women are eager to see the true side of men, and cheating on women will not end well. Therefore, generally speaking, never offend women, even though they are as docile as sheep on weekdays, in fact, they may become savage girlfriends at any time.
3. Generally speaking, everyone is eager to experience an encounter. How many of those fates and coincidences have been rehearsed in their minds for dozens or hundreds of times? Find the right time, the right place and the right way to meet her unexpectedly. I believe in the story of the snail girl. If you can't give him anything but love, then be his shadow, pay for him silently, do the little things that are ignored by others, persist and have no complaints.
4. Generally speaking, before you pursue a person, you must do your homework and know her preferences and living habits. If she likes to watch art cinema, you must take her to watch a gun fight movie. If she doesn't touch seafood, you must take her to eat Australian lobster. She is afraid of the sun, but you have to take her to the seaside. In the end, it must end badly. Refreshing and pleasing to the eye means not only the appearance, but also the dress. She is small and fresh. You can choose the British style. If she is a rock star, she will add leather clothes or rivet ornaments for herself. If she is a fashionista, she should read more magazines to understand the most cutting-edge pop elements. I don't know if the dress taste like ours is ok.
5. Generally speaking, a man's sense of responsibility is very important. There are many temptations from the outside world, both honey and traps. In the end, you lose far more than you gain. It is easy to bury mines around you, but mine clearance is not so simple. It will always be the most dangerous time bomb. Don't touch the bottom line of marriage or get yourself into trouble. Popular doesn't mean high-end, just like cell phone ringtones, it's the easiest to expose your little preferences. Divine Comedy is funny, but if it's on a formal occasion, the cell phone suddenly sounds the most dazzling national style.
6. If you can't give her anything but love, be her shadow. Persistence, no complaints, one day she will find you and what you have done for her. Love can be vigorous or quiet. Women are seemingly strong, but they are actually fragile. They are eager to be cared for and cared for. The male chauvinism that they have always adhered to is completely unworkable in their eyes. Therefore, it is better to put down the so-called face and show the delicate and considerate side of men.
7. The dating atmosphere is also very important. You should make both people feel relaxed, especially when they meet for the first time. As a man, you should first show gentlemanly manners, so you should choose a more prosperous location and be as close as possible to the girl's residence to dispel her worries. Remember, don't spend too much and don't make the girl feel pressured. Talk naturally during the dating process, and chat like friends. Don't be too enthusiastic, keep asking questions, be too serious and calm, be too cool, and don't show off your knowledge. She doesn't need an encyclopedia, find topics that interest her and guide her to talk more. Of course, if she is more interested in food, I suggest you give her more dishes. I believe that by doing these things well, you will have a very successful date.
8. Generally speaking, the first condition for a successful date is to have enough self-confidence. If you don't think you are attractive and attractive, others will certainly not think so. Get rid of those negative thoughts in the deepest part of your heart, know yourself correctly and strengthen your own advantages. Before you know me, you can forgive me if you don't know how to pretend to be beautiful, but now listen carefully, don't just wear wild models, don't think it's fashionable, it will definitely look good. You should choose clothes that suit you, not the latest ones, and change your clothes. A unified style will cause visual fatigue. Think about it. In addition, appropriate nudity, such as brother V-neck, can also attract people's attention. Of course, girls who are slim but not full enough should avoid this kind of dress and choose tight-fitting hip skirts and sleeveless tops to highlight their advantages. In short, you must remember that what suits you is the best.
9. Generally speaking, men's thinking is too rational, while women's thinking is too emotional. If you want to impress a girl, you must love her in the way she wants, with some small romances and surprises, for example, suddenly appearing at the door of her company after work, looking for a memorial day to take her to see a fireworks, preparing a meal for her on a rest day, a big dinner, etc. There is no woman who doesn't like flowers.
1. Romance is not equal to high consumption. Girls pay attention to details, a firm hug and a warm look can make them feel like deer bumps. Compared with those sweet words, girls need you to take responsibility more. When men walk, protect them in their arms and block the cold air for them. How can she not be moved by such delicate protection? There is a saying that details determine success or failure, and there are too many ways to touch a girl. This practice is only one part of it. Pay attention to her and make her feel. For example, when you are walking in the street together, you suddenly pull her to stop and push an eyelash under her eyelids away for her. This action is just a trivial matter between fingers, but it fully shows that you pay 1% attention to her. If she hadn't carefully observed and peeked at you, No woman can resist men stealing color like this.
11. Exchanging phone numbers can not only keep you in touch with him at any time, but also serve an important purpose, which is to observe the sincerity of the other party and the place where the other party calls you. If every call comes from the car, the company, the road or a friend's house, you should be vigilant. Maybe you are dealing with a scam. Under normal circumstances, it is also a good anti-fraud measure to ask the other party for home electricity. If he has something to hide or is not single at all, he won't give you a landline phone at all. Write this down, be careful and bold, and you will certainly find the one who belongs to you in the vast network.
12. Liars are everywhere, and they are most common on the Internet. On the dating network, the first priority is to protect yourself, because you don't know who is talking to you at the other end of the computer. If you are lucky, you may meet an honest Pubian, but if you are unlucky, you may meet a romantic Yu Ding. Anti-fraud is definitely the most important link in making friends online. You are not eager to meet or exchange phone calls. Communicate online several times more. If a man really likes you, he is very willing to contact you in any way. On the other hand, if a man just wants to cheat you, he will certainly show a very inactive and uncooperative state. So when he leaves quickly, when you think the other person, To give yourself an extra guarantee and confirm the identity of the other party, the method is very simple. You can directly ask him for documents that can prove your identity, or your work unit, position, etc., which can be verified. Girls who pay attention everywhere are not easy to be deceived.
13. Dress-up is very important. Taste comes first, followed by brand. Try not to choose sports clothes with huge trademarks. When you go out in a suit, you must turn around and have a look. If the crotch is a big gap, it means that you can wear black-rimmed glasses, but only if you have temperament. Otherwise, you should wear metal frames or contact lenses directly. Ipad is a good thing, but don't bring it when dating. The height of Liulin is 1.73 meters, that of Pubian is 1.77 meters, and that of Yu Ding is 1.8 meters. With these four people as coordinates, please take the temperament route if you are shorter than Liulin. Casual clothes are more secure between Liulin and Pubian, and between Ding Yu and Pubian. I really envy you. The innate conditions are so good that you can wear them casually. If you are taller than Yu Ding, the sports style is the most. If you are fat, dress up for quality. If you are thin, the more capable you are, the better. Remember, small eyes, thin eyebrows, hair style should not be too neat and shiny, and a buddy with a righteous face and a gangster face should never wear a gold chain.
14. The time and place of the first date is very important. Considering the type of your date, such as a lady, a little fresh, a girl with a literary style, a business style and an unknown routine, you can't go wrong about making an appointment for afternoon tea. Remember to arrive a quarter of an hour in advance. There are two advantages to meeting in the afternoon. One girl can see her appearance clearly with light makeup. Second, if you have a good chat, you can have dinner naturally. If you have a boring chat, you can find a reason to leave, and you can prepare for the next game. As for sports and crazy girls, you can invite friends to play, play ball games or whatever. The key friends you find are used as a foil. They must not be more handsome than you, have temperament than you, talk better than you, and have a good personality. You know that a friend's wife can't play the most basic truth of being a man. Therefore, it is actually very important to make a few friends with mediocre looks. Zoos, parks, botanical gardens, and Expo sites are very unsuitable for first dates. These parks really can't make appointments. It's really stupid to make appointments there. Look at there, there are so many flowers, dogs, cats, yes, you see, and then look at there, animals, if you want to stop looking at the plants there, why are there no zombies? Send the girl home after the date. If you like her, don't forget to send a short message. If you want to be more powerful, you can call her directly. It's okay. Everything is fine. From experience, Lori is generally planted in uncle's hand, uncle is generally planted in royal sister's hand, royal sister is generally planted in handsome boy's hand, and handsome boy is generally planted in queen's hand. The queen depends on her mood, not necessarily who's hand. (www.duanjuzi.com/oumei/3262.htm)
15. Generally speaking, two people who live close to each other are more likely to have a good impression on each other. When the space is near, they meet again and again, which provides a very convenient condition for getting to know each other and lays a very good foundation for you. If the person you like just meets this condition, It's really time to congratulate you. You're half done, and the rest is to show your love. To show your love to the person you like, you need to find the right time first. You can seize natural opportunities and create artificial opportunities, but you should remember that both of them can only be completed after you have a deep understanding of each other.
16. You must first find out her hobbies and living habits. Only in this way can you create a good place, time and environment for this love show without showing any trace, and even choose a warm and romantic light for the scene. If you can do this, your love show will be in an excellent state, which will not only help you guide the other person into a moving and warm mood, but also create a very atmospheric environment for the dialogue you want to say, so in this environment, your romantic sentences will not appear abrupt, thus making your love show get twice the result with half the effort.
17. Generally speaking, there are many reasons for breaking up. His betrayal is not only his problem, but also his own reasons. A fox can only seduce a shaken heart. How to keep a love? First of all, believe in love, and don't always doubt whether your other half has changed his heart. Misunderstanding is a mistake, but it won't. When some words are kept in his heart and some things are unclear, the contradictions will be infinite.
18. Which is more important, face or feelings? Most people talk about the latter, but choose the former. Although their hearts are still tightly tied together, they can never see each other again. Can't you admit your mistake? People are still waiting for you to apologize. A man will never understand a woman's speech. She says that she likes to hide two meanings, like it or not, so she may say yes or not, but what she says may not be what she thinks. You will never know what she wants to express. Instead of guessing, you might as well ask directly.
19. People generally have rebellious psychology, which leads to the strange phenomenon that they turn a blind eye to love in prosperity, but they are more brave in adversity. Therefore, when pursuing the person you like for a long time without results, it is better to try another way. When people are threatened by someone who can't get or lose, they will be more eager to get or afraid of losing, and at the same time, the meaning and value of this person's existence will be amplified in an instant. Psychologists have found that there are Romeo and Juliet effects in love. That is to say, the more the outside world opposes a relationship, the more attractive the lovers are in each other's eyes, so the more they can feel strong love for each other. This is an instinct to survive in adversity, so never blindly pursue it. After giving some attention and showing love, you can love the person you like.
2. Generally speaking, many people like to choose to be at arm's length, hot and cold, and keep it in a way that seems completely out of control, so that the other party can keep the enthusiasm of chasing, just like two people in dancing, they can't always hug each other. In fact, whether you are reserved or active, if you don't want to miss a relationship, you must seize the opportunity to get along with her every time. She won't be moved by your silent waiting, and she won't stop chasing the footsteps of happiness because of your persistence. Confess early and don't miss the enthusiasm she once ignited for you.
21. Keep a proper distance and let the other person realize that you are not going to hang yourself from this tree, which may inspire unexpected effects. The success of a relationship is not whether you really hold hands with each other. Generally speaking, real success depends on feelings and quality. In many cases, holding hands does not mean success. If it is not sincere, it may be an unfortunate beginning. Similarly, breaking up does not mean failure. If it is really inappropriate, breaking up is the best choice. Therefore, the key to the success of a relationship is whether you have it or not.
22. Maybe she will say that our constellation is not suitable, so the constellation, as a kind of statistics, gives everyone different personality characteristics, and most people admire the magic of the constellation, but in fact it is only a relative probability, not an absolute, tacit constellation, and may not come together.