There is no doubt that people need friends. But be careful what kind of friends you make. In my opinion, people with the following three tendencies or behaviors had better not make friends.

First of all, people who are unfilial to their loved ones. A person who has no filial piety to his parents and only asks for something he doesn't want to repay must not be friends with him. In real life, there are often some people who are willing to spend money on people in need, treat guests and give gifts, and do their best, but they love to ignore their parents and be unkind to their brothers. Even one day when they think about it, they just want to say that their hearts are not in their parents at all. In their eyes, a useful person is always more important than parents and wives. People say that brothers are brothers in war and fathers and sons are soldiers in battle. This is human nature. Such a person who doesn't even care about his own blood, even the kindness and brotherhood of his parents, who can be sincere? So this kind of person should not approach him, let alone make friends with him.

Secondly, people who haggle over every ounce and are mercenary. This kind of person always puts interests first. When no interests are involved, you are good to me and everyone. Once there is an interest dispute, he is the first to jump out, always aiming at maximizing his own interests. This kind of artificial interest is unscrupulous and heartless. Such people don't deserve real friends.

Third, people who bully the weak and fear the hard. In front of the strong, such people are always grovelling, obedient and mean, while in front of the weak, they are arrogant, either bossing around or exclusive. They don't know how to respect the weak, and they really lack the moral quality they deserve. In fact, the more cultivated a person is, the more he knows how to respect, cherish and help the weak instead of bullying them. People with this virtue had better stay away from him. Being around him for a long time can only be harmful.

It should be said that one cannot live without friends. Everyone knows that friends are indispensable in life. Although it is difficult to find a bosom friend in life, it is hard to find a bosom friend, especially that kind of bosom friend. If we meet, it will be a blessing, luck and a friend who will cherish and never break up.

But in any case, we must remember that we will never regard the above three people as friends and be careful to be used by them.