Friendship is an emotion that comes from a two-way (or interactive) relationship, that is, the emotions that both parties condense together must be maintained together. Any unilateral overture or departure cannot be called friendship. I have compiled stories about the friendship between famous people at home and abroad in ancient and modern times, take a look!
Celebrity stories about friendship at home and abroad
The friendship between the three literary giants Bing Xin, Ba Jin and Xiao Qian began 70 years ago. Ba Jin and Xiao Qian in the eyes of Bing Xin
p>Bing Xin said that the most admirable thing about Ba Jin is his "sincerity" and his serious and dedicated attitude towards love and marriage. "Ba Jin's love for Xiao Shan is serious, sincere and dedicated, which is one of his most admirable qualities." When Bing Xin read Ba Jin's "Remembering Xiao Shan" in her later years, she was deeply moved by the story of this troubled couple. I was so moved by my true feelings that I couldn't help but shed tears.
Bing Xin is not only Xiao Qian's "eldest sister", but she also had the dual identity of "Master's Wife" at one time.
Bing Xin once said to Xiao Qian and his wife: "My three younger brothers are gone. Meeting Biscuit is like meeting my younger brother." Bing Xin and Xiao Qian in Ba Jin's eyes
Bing Xin is not only his eldest sister, but also his spiritual support. How many times had Ba Jin, who was tortured by illness, wanted to stop writing, but when he saw Bing Xin still writing, he "didn't dare to lie down, didn't dare to be silent, and picked up the pen again." Ba Jin wrote to Bing Xin: "It has been 70 years, and I am still following you." Ba Jin wrote again: "Sister Bing Xin's existence is a huge force. She is a bright light, illuminating the road ahead of me. . She is more optimistic than me. The light is on, and I stride forward with confidence. "The story of celebrity friendship in ancient and modern times
Guan Ning and Hua Xin were very good friends when they were young. The two were inseparable all day long. They ate at the same table, read on the same couch, and slept in the same bed. They got along very harmoniously.
Once, they went to work together, weeding in the vegetable field. The two men worked hard without stopping to rest, and soon they had finished hoeing a large area.
Guan Ning raised his hoe, hoeed down, and hit something hard. Guan Ning was so surprised that he turned over a large piece of soil he had hoeed. In the dark soil, there was a yellow thing shining. Guan Ning took a closer look and saw that it was a piece of gold. He said to himself: "I thought it was something hard, but it turned out to be an ingot of gold." Then he paid no attention to it and continued to hoe his grass.
"What? Gold!" Hua Xin, who was not far away, couldn't help but feel moved when he heard this. He quickly dropped his hoe and ran over, picked up the gold nugget and held it in his hand to look at it carefully.
Seeing this, Guan Ning waved the hoe in his hand while working, and scolded Hua Xin: "Money should be obtained through one's own hard work. A moral person cannot get something for nothing." Property."
After hearing this, Hua Xin said, "I understand this too." But he still held the gold in his hand, looking left and right, and couldn't bear to put it down. Later, he couldn't stand being stared at by Guan Ning, so he reluctantly left the gold and went back to work. But he was still thinking about the gold, and he didn't work as hard as before, and he kept sighing. Seeing him like this, Guan Ning said nothing and just shook his head secretly.
Another time, the two of them were sitting on a mat reading. Just as I was looking at it, suddenly there was a boiling sound outside, with the sound of drums and music, mixed with the shouts of gongs to clear the way and the noise of people watching the excitement. So Guan Ning and Hua Xin got up and walked to the window to see what happened.
It turned out that a dignitary was passing by in a car. A large group of followers, armed with weapons and uniform uniforms, stood in front of and behind to defend the car, majestic. Looking at the car decoration, it is even more luxurious: the car body is engraved with exquisite and beautiful patterns, the curtains on the car are made of colorful silk and satin, and are decorated with gold threads. The roof is also inlaid with a large piece of jade, which makes it look rich and noble. people.
Guan Ning was very dissatisfied with this. He returned to the original place, picked up the book and read it with concentration, completely turning a deaf ear to the noise outside, as if nothing happened.
Hua Xin was not like this. He was completely attracted by the arrogance and luxurious pomp. He felt that he could not see clearly in the room, so he simply stopped reading and hurriedly ran to the street to follow the crowd and follow the motorcade to take a closer look.
Guan Ning witnessed what Hua Xin did and could no longer suppress the sadness and disappointment in his heart. After Hua Xin came back, Guan Ning took out a knife and cut the mat in half in front of Hua Xin, and declared sadly and decisively: "Our ambitions and tastes are so different. From now on, We are like this cut straw mat, no longer friends.”
True friends should be based on the same ideological foundation and goals, and pursue and make progress together. . If there is no inner spiritual understanding and only superficial intimacy, such friends cannot truly communicate and understand each other, and the meaning of being friends is lost.