There are two motives for you to attend the wedding reception. One is not because of greed, but for other purposes.
Because this is a wedding reception, you may just want to win a good prize. Because rural people are newly married, young people like to let the bride and groom bake cakes for themselves and take away the used flowers.
The second motive is greed for petty gain. I feel that I don't take it for free on this occasion, and others will take it if they don't. The master doesn't know anyway. Especially the wine at the wedding banquet is generally valuable. When you see such expensive wine, you will be tempted, so you will buy it.
If it is the first case, what does it mean? Explain that this person has a general relationship with you, because close friends must know your personality and will not misunderstand you. I won't accuse you of being too greedy. Accusing you of being too greedy if you don't know you shows that this person is too subjective, and even friends are not worth making in the future, so as not to bring greater misunderstanding and harm.
If you have a very good relationship and have known each other for a long time, he still misunderstood you, indicating that he is biased against you, or that this friend is careless and will not know people. For such a friend, it is not worth making friends, unreasonable, and not keen on observation. It's hard to achieve great things, and it won't help your career much.
If you are really a greedy person, your friends point out your shortcomings. You can only say that this friend is a person who hates evil and doesn't rub sand in his eyes, but his emotional intelligence is a little low. Point out your friend's mistakes to his face, and look at his tone and expression. If he looks down on you, makes unremitting efforts and accuses you, it shows that he looks down on you and doesn't respect you. Such a friend can't make deep friends.
If he points out your mistakes in front of everyone, it is likely that he looks down on you and doesn't want to continue to associate with you. You don't have to continue to invest in such a friend, but there is no need to haggle with him and turn your face completely.
It is usually good for you if your friends remind you quietly and persuade you in good faith. Then you can't help but listen to your friends' feelings. Such a friend is a rare bosom friend, and deserves deep concern and continuous communication. Such a friend won't take you on a detour, let alone plan you behind your back. If there is anything, I will do anything for you without hesitation and help you sincerely.
Never mind what he said, it's all for your own good.
In any case, friends need tolerance. No one is perfect without money, and there are no perfect people in the world. Besides, it's a little inappropriate for you to get the wedding reception yourself, no matter what the motive is. If a friend misunderstands himself, it is his own fault first, so how can he break off diplomatic relations with his friends?
The most appropriate way is to accept the criticism of friends, pay attention to your behavior in the future, and win the respect of friends with actions. If you are willing to associate with us, there is no reason to refuse.
Whatever the motivation, it is worthwhile to talk about your friends in person. Tolerance will make you more friends. If you are harsh, people will have no friends. How can you live without friends?