Everyone looks good on the outside, but only you can feel the pain and helplessness. If there are no children in the second marriage, then the two will have the same child, and it will be like a normal family. But both parties have children. If they don't have the same child, it won't be as beautiful as imagined! Although there is no conflict between the couple, as long as the children are involved, there will be many, many unexplained, unclear, and confusing chores that will entangle you all the time and make you physically and mentally exhausted!

If second-married couples want to stay together for a long time, Shudong believes that they need to have emotional intelligence and IQ. How to choose? It depends on the two people's philosophy and fate of getting along. After all, thousands of people have thousands of faces, each eye has its own flowers, and each family recites its own sutras.

There are many second-married couples around, and Shudong roughly divides them into two categories in my humble opinion: those who can get along for a long time - generally old couples with young wives, who have a reasonable income, and can have one more child; Jifei - they are of the same age, experience and background, and they come together with the original intention of spending the rest of their lives together. Both parties have their own pasts and children.

Shudong has contact and deep friendship with these two types of second-married couples. After all, these are the people who make friends at this age (accidentally revealing one’s age hhh). It is undeniable that there are so many second-married couples nowadays!

Let’s talk about the first type of couples who can still get along financially for a long time: because these kind of friends are financially sound, and most of them are male and female, in terms of the way of getting along with each other emotionally, the husband puts The wife can be treated like a daughter - just like the heroine's princess dream.

The young wife does not have much life experience yet, but has fresh passion and worldly wisdom. Moreover, she can give birth to a boy and a half girl while she is young and in good health, but the mother can live a safe life based on the price of the child.

Having a successful career and an older husband can also make up for the regrets left by the last child when he was young and worked hard for his career, and enjoy family happiness to the fullest.

As for the ex-wife, ex-children, the ex-parents, etc., if they can be solved with money, use money to solve them. If they cannot be solved with money, the older husband has long been able to deal with everything, and he really doesn’t need his wife to worry about it. of. Of course, having fun with your young wife is a good way to enhance and maintain your relationship.

So the years are quiet and peaceful!

When writing this paragraph, Shudong had to emphasize: All marriages that can be started are based on love, and the economic foundation is always the superstructure.

Poor and lowly couples are in trouble!

The second type of second-married couples with average economics and similar backgrounds: If both parties can get together regardless of their finances, past, age, and ability, they must be True love, if it is not a well-thought-out decision - adults today really don't have much to make do with.

The original intentions are true and sincere, but in the lives of gays and lesbians, the lice in the robe are unsightly and unbearable.

All the "exes" that we really have to face cannot be decorated with money like a family with a financial foundation! Only both sides perform their duties, try their best or there is nothing they can do.

Everyone has feelings and emotions, parents’ petty feuds, grudges, hot and cold wars... each episode is really more interesting than the last! I really don’t know if being a married couple is a gift from God or a lesson?

It is inevitable that there will be confusion!

There is another type of people who are in second marriages between the above two - they both have the knowledge and fate to get along.

But phoenix feathers and scales!

The tree hole still wishes: All lovers in the world will eventually get married! One marriage and two marriages are both marriages. Life is not easy, getting along is not easy, and fate is not easy, but do it and cherish it!