Family style? It is the ethos of the whole family. Once this ethos is corrupted, its ideology and morality will also deteriorate, and it will be difficult for this family to cultivate excellent offspring. The following is a short story about my family instructions that I compiled. Welcome to reading.
Family instruction story of my family 1 I was born in a teacher's family, and my family background dates back to my grandfather Lu Rui. Ten people in four generations have been teachers. Grandpa is in Zhuanghe? Changlongyi? A large family teaches a private school, and family training is naturally inseparable? Four Books and Five Classics? . Grandpa died too early, and my uncle and father inherited Confucianism. After teaching, they use the ideas of Confucius and The Analects to educate their children and grandchildren. Confucius advocated benevolence, righteousness, propriety, knowledge, faithfulness, softness, propriety, frugality and concession, and expressed his pursuit of an ideal social order, including feudal dross, which should be criticized and eliminated; However, in his comments, aphorisms and aphorisms about life, study and politics, there are still many connotations that are beneficial to society. My brothers and sisters grew up in such a family environment.
? The three armed forces can win the handsome, but the ordinary man can't win the ambition?
When I was a child, because my family was poor, I often wore patched clothes to school, even in winter? Ulla? Shoes (shoes sewn with pigskin and covered with grass). Especially bad among classmates. When I got home, I cried and asked my mother for clothes and shoes. My dad pulled me over and said that Confucius said that scholars always thought it was shameful to wear rags and eat poorly, which was not enough to talk to him about reason? ("The Analects of Confucius" fourth:? It is not enough to discuss those who are ashamed of their poor food and clothing because of their ambitions in the Tao. ? ) I also told the story of Yan Hui, a Confucius student, who worked hard to educate me: Yan Hui lived in a slum, and he used a bamboo tube to hold rice and a ladle to drink water (there was no water bowl). Others, Yan Hui did not change the fun. ("eternal night" sixth:? Hyun-jae, come back! A spoonful of food, a spoonful of drink, in the alley; If you can't bear it, you will be worried. If you go back, you won't change your fun. ? ), think about it later, it is such a day, wearing small clothes? Ulla? Going to school is not shameful, but learning is angry. In our class, my grades are always among the best.
/kloc-At the age of 0/4, my brother joined the People's Liberation Army and my father practiced medicine. There was no competition at home, so I had to drop out of school and farm at home, shoveling and plowing. In my spare time, I always like to play with the children on the farm. Five Blessingg chess? Beat, dad sees my poor academic performance and quotes Confucius? The three armed forces can win the handsome, but the ordinary man can't win the ambition? (Zi Han IX) Come and enlighten me. Dad said: To be a man, you should learn from saints. Your agriculture is temporary. You should make up your mind to learn and stop playing. Everyone in the village says that military families can enjoy contract farming, and then you can go to school and stop playing. There are many books in our home. You should master ancient poetry and mathematics. If you don't understand, ask me From The Book of Rites? Cultivate one's morality and cultivate one's character, and rule the country by one's own family is the ambition of scholars, and you should embrace such an ideal. ?
? Be persuasive and tireless in teaching others?
When my father was young, he was a teacher. He is a tireless teacher and enjoys a good reputation. The Japanese invaded the three northeastern provinces, and my father opposed teaching Japanese and gave up teaching Chinese medicine, but the education of children was still so meticulous and tireless.
Dad often lets several children do farm work with him, usually pulling weeds and growing vegetables. He was in the best mood at this time, so he made a small bill for us to calculate. What? Chicken and rabbit in the same cage? ,? Snail in the tree? 、? Travel problems? Wait a minute. He is beaming at home teaching, instead of waiting for you to ask him, he always asks you heuristic first. Like what? The tree is ten feet high, and the snail leaves two feet early and three feet late. It is natural to ask how many days it can climb to the top of the tree, but it requires a brain teaser. My sister scrambled to answer:? Nine days. ? Dad said: You haven't turned your head yet. On the last day, the snail climbed to the top of the tree. Three feet equals one day. Why is it required to return two feet? So there's an extra day. Let me make a formula. I think: a snail retreats two feet at night and three feet in the morning, which is equal to only one foot a day; The last three feet are equal to one day. I listed the formula: 10-3+ 1=8, and my father smiled knowingly.
Dad, like this? Teaching people tirelessly? The way of teaching is deeply engraved in my heart and exerts a subtle influence on me. Later, I taught in Zhuanghe High School, and I was able to give advice to students. I remember a few years ago 1977, on the eve of the resumption of the college entrance examination, (Zhuanghe) high school graduates came to me in droves to help me with my Chinese, take classes during the day and give them special classes at night to correct my compositions. One day, I was really sick and couldn't get up, so I lay on the heatable adobe sleeping platform and gave full security. Cai Dong University? ) tutoring ancient prose, Quan Baowu squatted and knelt on the ground, taking notes and listening attentively. After 36 years, that scene is still vivid. I never charge tuition.
? Advise you not to hit the branch bird?
/kloc-Before the age of 0/4, I was also very naughty. In summer, I am good at touching frogs on the dams of Japanese ponds. Once, I strung a dozen frogs together with wicker to show my father, thinking that touching them as ducks would praise me. Who knows, I was severely reprimanded by my father. You stink, don't you? Hang you, too, okay? After a while, my father calmed down and said that frogs are good for human beings. They eat pests and protect crops. A frog can eat more than 10 thousand pests every year. Generally, frogs can live for five years and kill 50,000 to 60,000 pests! Bai Juyi said: Mo Daoqun's life is very small, generally as thin as flesh and blood. I advise you not to beat the branch bird. My son wants to go back to his mother in the nest. ? Birds are also beneficial birds, and frogs, like them, are good helpers for people to eliminate pests.
After a while, my father told me a story: Confucius traveled around the world and climbed a mountain ridge with his disciples. He saw the female pheasant flying and said, time, time! ? Confucius praised pheasants at the right time, which reflected that he was born at the wrong time. Lutz (a disciple of Confucius) misunderstood that the teacher wanted to taste the fresh season, so he called a pheasant and cooked it for Confucius. Confucius was unhappy. He got up and left after only smelling it a few times [Chapter 10 of "Hometown of Culture": Confucius said: The pheasant on the mountain ridge, when, when! ? Lutz * * *, three sniffles. (* * *, general supply; More than two thousand years ago, Confucius was able to take care of birds. Why can't we care for small animals like frogs today? This winter, the hunter in Tunli caught a pair of little foxes with a net. The trembling father couldn't bear to see them killed, so he bought them with money and put them in the fox hole. My brother and I stayed up late to feed him in the fox hole. It's really strange that when you get to the mouth of the cave, just knock on the ladle and bowl, and the fox will go to the mouth of the cave to eat and send it back after eating.
Come to think of it, these things happened more than 60 years ago. I grew up in my father's long-term Confucian process and gradually accepted Confucius. His ways of being a man, learning and politics are quite incisive, concrete and practical, and many of them are useful teachings. His theory is rare not only in China, but also in the world. This also became? Confucius Institute? The reason for the global decline is that in the idiom dictionary, hundreds of idioms, such as learning from Si Qi, learning from the times, doing one's duty faithfully, forgetting to eat in anger, being gentle, respectful and frugal, all come from The Analects of Confucius, and become the spiritual food of the Chinese nation, which plays an increasingly important role in the cultural development of China and even the world.
Today, my mother taught me a word called honesty and trustworthiness. She said: there are national laws and family rules. And our family rule is: honesty and trustworthiness.
My parents taught me to be an honest and trustworthy boy since I was a child. When I was very young, my father told me the story of the wolf, the wolf. In the story, the shepherd boy lied again and again, and his sheep was killed by a wolf. This is a painful lesson for a dishonest person.
Dad said: A good boy who keeps his word will be liked by more people. You must be a good boy. ? My mother always told me that honesty is the foundation of being a man and the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation. We must be honest. Mom and dad have been educating me? Kindness, kindness! ? Although I was young before, I didn't quite understand what it meant. But now I am a third-grade pupil, and I have gradually understood the meaning of this word. And be strict with yourself.
I was influenced by my parents' honesty and trustworthiness since I was a child. In life, I respect my elders and often help my grandparents with things. They will be happy to praise me as a good boy. Grandparents are sick, I will help them get water and medicine, and give them soft backs. Grandparents all praise me as a sensible boy, and I will often help my parents do some housework within my power. At school, I will try my best to do what I promised my classmates. Everyone likes to make friends with me.
It is precisely because of the edification of these simple and simple family styles and family precepts that I have gained so much. So I must keep in mind the words of my elders and carry forward my family style. In this way, my life will be better.
My family's family training story 3 My parents are both at work, and my parents often play it? Study hard and be polite to others? As the mantra they taught me, this sentence calluses my ears? Imperial edict? Well, it can be said that it is my family style!
As long as I can remember, every visitor in my family will see my parents smiling and receiving guests gracefully. So, either a sweet and delicious meal or a pleasant conversation. Often don't ask, don't speak, answer questions, adults don't interrupt, eat quietly like an A? Dumb? So I often get compliments from guests:? Your child is really sensible. ? But at ordinary times, naughty me from time to time? Is that weird? . For example, grabbing the soles of my sleeping father's feet makes him angry: don't make so much noise, let me have a good sleep. ?
Although it is a modern society, my father always uses some outdated educational methods to discipline us. But it is these educational methods that make my hooligans understand? Study hard and be polite to others? The truth. Every evening after school, my father always waits for me downstairs, supervises me to run in Ziyang Park, and goes home after running. I really want to say to my father: I want to play basketball with my classmates again. ? But afraid of his father's majesty, words always swallow back into his mouth.
This is my family style, which has advantages and disadvantages. But I firmly believe that with the progress of the times, the family style of the new era will be more perfect and better.
My family motto and family style story 4 As the saying goes: No rules, no Fiona Fang. ? That is to say, there are national laws, school rules and family style. What is my family style? Be a good person and study hard. ?
My family taught me to be a good person since I was a child.
Dad taught me to keep my word. I remember a weekend in the second grade, because of my good behavior, my father allowed me to play computer games for an hour. However, I spent more time playing games, and my father put away the computer seriously. After that, he said to me earnestly:? Tang Lin, keep your word, or you will be in trouble when you grow up! ?
My sister told me to be honest. Because? People without faith don't know what they can do. ? One day in third grade, I accidentally broke my sister's favorite glass. I was afraid of being scolded, but in the end, I got up the courage to apologize to my sister. But my sister forgave me and said something meaningful to me: it doesn't matter if the glass is broken. If you lose honesty, no one will believe you. ?
My mother taught me to be modest. In an exam in the fourth grade, I got the first place in my class. When I got home, I proudly told my mother. Mother said kindly to me:? Tang Lin is great! Make persistent efforts, but remember: modest benefits, all bets are off.
My family not only taught me to be a good person, but also taught me to study hard.
I was addicted to the internet in the fifth grade, so I only got more than 80 points in the mid-term exam. On the way home, I was afraid of what my mother would do to me. But when I got home, my mother said to me: failure is not terrible, but falling down is terrible! You should take this as a starting point and strive for better results next time. ? Then my mother and I analyze the reasons and solve the problem for me. With the help of my mother and my unremitting efforts, my grades have soared. I got excellent results in the final exam.
Shakespeare once said: Books are the nourishment of the whole world. ? In my study, I have a good habit: I love reading. From the moment I entered primary school, I began to read some story books. In recent years, I began to contact some literary books, such as Camel Xiangzi, Old Things in the South of the City, and Little Peas by the Window. I'll take out one as soon as I have time.
China has been a country famous for its etiquette since ancient times. As China people, our children must also carry forward this spirit. Only in this way can we be worthy of our ancestors and heirs!
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