20 10 a blind date program named "If You Are the One" on Jiangsu Satellite TV brought the audience into the "Year of Blind Date for All".

Female guest Mano said, "I would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle", which has become a hot topic in recent years.

Murphy and Le Jia, the "bald partners", went from obscurity to red with the explosion of the program.

1 1 years later, all kinds of variety shows such as draft, acting and travel life are everywhere, and the ratings of "If You Are the One" are still the first in the same period.

On the 10th anniversary of If You Are the One 165438+, Morphy sent a message to Weibo asking everyone, "What were you doing eleven years ago?"

In addition to personal love for Morphy, there are also fans' true feelings about the program in the comment area.

"I didn't understand feelings and marriage when I watched If You Are the One, but after listening to Grandpa Meng's comments, I gradually understood what kind of happiness I wanted."

If you are the one 1 1 year

At the end of 20 10, "If You Are the One" was launched. It only took less than 10 episodes, and the ratings exceeded 3%, winning the first annual variety ratings. The host Murphy suddenly moved from Jiangsu Province to the whole country.

That year, 22-year-old Mano participated in If You Are the One. She was young, beautiful and outspoken, and soon became the most striking female guest on the stage.

A male guest said that he didn't spend too much time dressing up, which was natural beauty. Mano said directly: "I hope the director can play us a song" Liberation "and then let him go down."

When a middle-aged man came to power, Mano even made rude remarks: "If I had known you were coming, I would have asked my mother to come instead of me!"

A "poor boy" who likes cycling wanted to hold hands with Mano and asked her if she would like to ride a bike together. Mano flatly refused: "I would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle."

As soon as Mano made this statement, he became famous overnight, and he was accused of money worship vanity.

20 1 1 April, female guest Wang Jia starred in "If You Are the One" for four consecutive periods. She is high flyers from Northwest University, wearing a long skirt, gentle and elegant. Finally, she succeeded in holding hands with Zhang Tianyi, the general manager of a big company in Beijing.

Just when Wang Jia thought she was going to be happy, Zhang Tianyi left a message of "going to the United States for business" and never heard from her again.

Depressed Wang Jia was moved by a netizen named Wen Wen. Less than half a year after meeting, the two decided to get married.

After marriage, Wang Jiayue became more and more unwilling. "Wenwen" is just a small clerk, and even the wedding room is mortgaged. What makes her psychologically unbalanced is that some of the younger sisters who used to be on the show together became rich, and some even became stars and released albums.

Every time her husband advised her to "return to the world", they would quarrel fiercely. In August of 20 12, Wang Jia, who was eight months pregnant, killed her husband.

In If You Are the One, not only do many young people want to be famous and make friends, but Liu Ye, Lu Yi, David, Degang Guo and Liu Kai were all dishonest partners in If You Are the One.

Peter Ho also took the stage as a male guest to promote the new drama. He made a bet with Murphy that if he could save 20 lamps, Murphy would invite him to dinner.

As a result, when Peter Ho came on stage dressed as a cleaner, seven lights went out in the first round. A female guest explained, "I have great respect for cleaners, but I don't like men with thick lips."

The guests changed again and again, and the commercial value also rose all the way. 20 15, the variety shows exceeded 200 files, but the status of If You Are the One is still unshakable, ranking first in variety shows with a title fee of 500 million.

In the past 1 1 year, if you are the one served nearly 10,000 guests, and more than 500 couples held hands successfully.

Besides these stars and amateurs, Le Jia, the guest of If You Are the One, benefited the most.

On 20 10, producer Wang Gang noticed Murphy's comments and on-the-spot reaction ability and transferred him to do a new program "If You Are the One".

The program also needs a new TV face as a guest. Wang Gang was introduced and found Le Jia.

This program has been recorded several times, so Le Jia asked the producer to change the program flow. He needs to interrupt and comment on the guests' words and deeds at any time. "I am the child wearing the emperor's new clothes, and my greatest role is to tell the truth."

Unexpectedly, after the revision, the program effect is surprisingly good. Murphy is wise and humorous, and Le Jia is sharp and spicy, but he can hit the nail on the head. Coupled with Han Huang's elegance, If You Are the One quickly developed a unique style.

Murphy and Le Jia, the pair of partners, are also affectionately called "Bald Group" by the audience.

In one issue, Le Jia had an argument with a female guest, Xu Yali, who had a hemiplegic brother, and her parents were unable to work, so the whole family was supported by Xu Yali.

Le Jia said rudely, "Without your brother's drag, you might become more free."

As a result, this angered the girl. She quarreled with Le Jia: "I think you are too unkind!" The scene was once out of control.

Finally, during the break, Murphy explained, "I think you may have misunderstood Mr. Le Jia. He just wants to ask this question, which may make it easier for others to understand you. He has no other meaning. "

Xu Yali is still not satisfied. Murphy smiled again and said, "I am a little surprised and surprised that you have received such a good education and didn't see (Le Jia's kindness)." The recording of the program can continue.

Such scenes often appeared in the programs of that year: Le Jia's "Poisonous Mouth" exploded the scene of the program, while Murphy brought the scene to the edge, enlivened the atmosphere in time, and put the program back on track.

After that, Le Jia participated in the recording of Super Speaker, Mr. Super, and other programs, but without Morphy, he almost blew up, and openly fought with many stars at the recording site.

Later, Le Jia gradually disappeared. Some people say that he was "banned", and others have photographed Le Jia giving a business speech on the street to make money.

The "No" in If You Are the One is Murphy's "No".

On the 10th anniversary special program of "If You Are the One", the program group invited the children who had married the male and female guests to join hands on "If You Are the One". Murphy asked them, "You all know who I am, right?"

A little girl immediately replied, "Grandpa Meng!"

Some people say that "If You Are the One" is "an iron Morphy, a flowing guest", and Morphy is the spirit and emotional intelligence of "If You Are the One".

Hu Ziwei, the host, said that waiting to see how Murphy cleaned up the situation was once her greatest pleasure in watching Unfair.

On one occasion, a female guest repeatedly stressed that her family's IQ was superior and her genes were outstanding. He would gently remind her, "If I were a male guest," prompting her to consider the feelings of the listener.

Morphy hopes that the program has a clear direction, and goodwill, equality and respect are his most important things. Faced with the remarks of some guests, he often can't help but "fly".

Once a male guest came to the show and said that he did not accept single mothers, thinking that they were "morally corrupt" and not "original".

Out of anger, Morphy asked the male guest to leave directly before he finished. "When to leave this stage, I have the final say." .

Another time, a female guest asked a boy to wash her feet every day. This affectation made Morphy angry for a second. "This is not coquetry, this is seeking death."

So she was allowed to break the whole show, and Murphy didn't give her a chance to speak again. After that, she also asked the producer to warn her that if she was impolite next time, she wouldn't have to appear here.

Before If You Are the One, Murphy was the host of Zero Distance in Nanjing for nine years.

In those nine years, Murphy read eight or nine newspapers every morning and wrote a thousand-word commentary before 6: 50, in order to interpret the current affairs news that people are most concerned about and become a qualified spokesman for urban civilians.

More than 3000 days and nights, without a day off.

Once, he received an urgent call from a young man on the show. The young man on the phone was very anxious and said that his girlfriend who came to Nanjing from other places with him had broken up with him. At this time, there was no news at all. He had no choice but to ask Nanjing for help.

Murphy still remembers the answer he gave on the show:

After work that day, Morphy received many pictures taken by reporters with DV: On the streets of Nanjing, the young man met the girl again, surrounded by old ladies applauding and cheering.

Maybe from then on, God discovered another hidden talent of Morphy: matchmaking for marriage.

Li Zhou, director of Jiangsu TV Station, once said that the background color of If You Are the One was decided by the birth of livelihood journalist Murphy. "If You Are the One" has no manuscript, only one main line. Morphy is not a journalist, but he talks about new things and reacts quickly to the scene. Many things broke out at the scene, and he became news.

In If You Are the One, Murphy, a journalist from the people's livelihood, is a flesh-and-blood host who can always point out the essence of the problem.

20 19 took over the intergenerational dating program "New Dating Conference", which is a program in which children take their parents on a blind date. Compared with the "insincerity" in which both men and women are present, the "new blind date meeting" to increase intergenerational communication is more contradictory and contradictory.

Morphy put himself in the role of an observer, watching the guests' desires, experiences, emotions and needs, and watching China's parents' view of marriage and love that keeps pace with the times. Sometimes he will choose to "let nature take its course", and many words are taken back to his mouth.

Once a mother stressed that her child must find someone who can serve him. "Then why don't you go to the nanny market?" Your children are treasures, and others are treasures. Why do you have to go to your house to be a nanny? "After the recording ended backstage, he said this sentence.

"If You Are the One" 1 1 has enjoyed evergreen ratings for years, which is inseparable from the audience in Morphy. His role on the stage is unique, sometimes awe-inspiring, and sometimes it can adjust the atmosphere.

Just like a chef, with him around, the taste is guaranteed. Many viewers feel the same way: without Morphy's dating program, they always feel that something is missing.

Everyone says "If You Are the One" is Morphy's "no".

There is a bookish air in the rough air.

When Huang Lei was a guest host in If You Are the One, he was often moved by Murphy's state, saying that when he saw Murphy's comments on men and women, he remembered a sentence in Mu Xin's book, "There is a bookishness in the rough air".

This is indeed a pertinent evaluation of Morphy. Even after he became popular all over the country, he always emphasized that he came from the bottom of society, both in programs and in life.

Morphy 197 1 was born in Chongqing and settled in Nanjing with his parents on 12.

Murphy likes reading since childhood and is good at writing articles. The Chinese teacher said that he was a rare talent. However, when it came to the 1990 college entrance examination, Murphy failed because of extreme partiality. His Chinese achievement is second only to that of the top liberal arts scholar in Jiangsu Province, but his total score in mathematics, physics and chemistry is less than 100.

In order to find a way out, Murphy and a group of classmates went to Shenzhen. After running for more than a month, I only found a job as a temporary porter, and later worked as a water delivery man and security guard.

At that time, Murphy's father was a middle-level cadre of Jiangsu TV Station, so it should be no problem to find a job for his son.

It happened that dad didn't want to ask for help and didn't help Murphy. At the dinner table of his seventieth birthday, Murphy's father recalled the past and expressed his guilt for his son.

However, Morphy has let this go for a long time, and since then, he has an important principle in life: never expect too much from others' help, and always rely on yourself.

Later, Murphy applied for a job in a printing factory under Jiangsu Radio and Television. As a printer, he naturally engages in manual labor. Also these days, Murphy obviously felt that he belonged to which class of society.

Printers' hands are soaked in ink all the year round, and soap and washing powder are useless. You must rub them with a wire brush dipped in oil to wash off the skin color.

Once, a girl invited Murphy to dinner. He washed his hands longer than usual that day, thinking it was clean. As a result, he went to the table. Facing the white tablecloth, he was surprised to find that his hands were still black. I felt that I didn't deserve the tablecloth, so I slipped my hand under the table.

Until now, when Murphy hears someone say "people with black nails", he can't help but lower his head to check his nails. Later, I met optimistic and simple male guests on the show. Even if the material conditions are not very good, Murphy will get more help in words.

This year is the tenth year of Morphy's production of marriage and love programs. Many people asked him if he felt tired and wanted to do something else.

Morphy responded that when it comes to fatigue, "insincerity" has been done for more than three years, but the same job has been done for ten years without fatigue. "Just like running a marathon, it has passed the physiological pole."

In fact, Morphy is not without other opportunities.

In 20 14, Xiaogang Feng was the general director of the Spring Festival Gala. He called Murphy and asked him if he could come to Beijing to listen to his opinion. Murphy politely declined, saying that he was an employee of Taiwan Province and had to obey the assignment of Taiwan Province. If he asks a person "I personally don't want to do anything", he doesn't go in the end.

Since then, Morphy has refused the invitation of the Spring Festival Gala for three consecutive years, and also rejected the olive branch thrown by CCTV. Recalling this incident, Murphy still clearly insisted on his choice:

"First, I'm not interested. Second, that stage is not suitable for me. I can't talk like that. I can't talk like that. I am only suitable for this kind of communication. "

For years, Morphy seemed to be associated with dating shows. From "If You Are the One" to "New Blind Date Conference" and then to "Let's Love", he has gone through different types of blind date programs.

He said that even if discussing love and marriage may "hit the point", people on the stage come and go and everyone's feedback is different.

Ordinary middle-aged man

Outside of work, Murphy separates work from life. He doesn't answer the phone after work. Once he gets home, there is nothing to blame him after work.

He still goes to the market to buy food, lives in an ordinary community, usually likes photography and travel, and his favorite idol drama is Meteor Garden.

He has maintained a friendship with the workers he met in the printing factory for more than 30 years. He meets every month and takes turns to treat guests.

He regards opening a noodle restaurant as an important goal for the rest of his life. Shen Haobo, a friend of Morphy's, said, "At one time, his passion for noodle restaurants was almost above everything else. You feel that every time you sell a bowl of noodles, you are more excited than hosting an issue of If You Are the One. "

Murphy always thought he was an ordinary person. "Many media interviewed me and were disappointed after the interview."

In the eyes of Wei Lan, director of If You Are the One, Murphy is a "warm-blooded young man who will never get old". He will still be angry with the guests for their untimely speeches.

On the recording scene of New Dating Times, the male guest turned down a female guest who came specially for him, and then added, "We can start with friends."

On the stage, Murphy didn't buffer, and his expression: "You turned me down on the spot, no problem. But how did you refuse? This is almost similar to a humiliating refusal. Even if we say' let's be ordinary friends', we can find a step without talking. "

Apart from the position of the host, does this speech have Morphy's own care and pain points? Murphy did not deny: "This is a middle-aged man of this age, and he still maintains his passion for life."

Last year, Han Huang, Huang Lei and other guests gathered in the special program for the 10th anniversary of If You Are the One. Murphy that day, a rare show emotional side:

"I left a quarter of my career on this stage. My biggest feeling is that my appearance has not changed much, but my daughter graduated from primary school when she started broadcasting. "

Many netizens said that they grew up watching "If You Are the One", which made Morphy feel deeply:

"These words let me know that our program also has a particularly important meaning, called companionship."

Watch, thank you for your company. Grandpa Meng has worked hard.

Some reference materials:

1. People's Cover Report | Morphy: Stones in the Waves

2. Capturing entertainment: Ten years of "blind date", an interview with Murphy's Yue Lao Jing

3. Sina Entertainment "New Youth": Deciphering the exclusive dialogue of "If You Are the One"

4. Past barbecued pork buns: If you are the one, you can't go back: the breakup history of Le Jia Murphy.