2. There is no debt in life. Others pay for you because others like it, and you pay for others because you are willing. Love is voluntary, and you have no regrets.
Anyone can abandon you because of your willfulness, bad temper and unreasonable troubles, but only your parents will still spoil you after yelling at you and losing your temper.
4. People who don't know how to refuse, even if they are exhausted, will not get real respect from others. Because in the eyes of those who are used to bothering you, you have helped others, not just him.
5. It is best to make friends with people of your own style, who are crazy or serious and have the same personality. The tacit understanding and comfort of saying a word and doing one thing can't be given by others. People with different attributes seem to be always talking about chickens and ducks, which is extremely boring.
6. Time is really the best span in the world, which makes the pain pale, makes persistent people choose to leave, and then people come and go. After vicissitudes, you will understand that everything is life and nothing can be helped by people.
7. Take a dim view and try harder. In this world, no one lives more easily than anyone else. It's just that some people are calling for help, and some people are silently insisting.
8. No matter how good a person is, it's no use if he doesn't care about you! True happiness: heartfelt care and consideration, dribs and drabs in life, real care.
9. Leaves don't turn yellow in a day; People are not cold in a day. No one is stupid, always perfunctory, and will gradually drift away; No one is stupid, no one is taken seriously, and everyone is getting weaker and weaker.
10, there are two things in the world that you can't look directly at, one is the sun and the other is the human heart. People's eyes have 576 million pixels, but they can't understand people's hearts after all.
1 1. Sometimes, when you ask a question, the other person keeps dodging. In fact, that is a euphemism to tell you that the real answer is cruel.
12, in fact, nothing can't be let go. As time goes by, when you look back on the past, you will find that what you thought you couldn't let go was just a springboard in your life, allowing you to grow.
13, the same stone, half made into Buddha, half made into steps. Not convinced, the steps asked the Buddha, we are stones. Why do people stand on me and worship you? Buddha said: because you only got a knife, but I experienced a thousand pieces. At this point it is silent! Life is the same, it will be valuable if it can withstand polishing, loneliness and responsibility! Don't be jealous when you see the brilliance of others, because others pay more than you!
14, some people say that ordinary people only add 1 to do a good job, and beautiful girls add 10 to do a good job; Similarly, beautiful girls lose 1 point when they do something wrong, and unattractive girls lose1point when they do something wrong. Whether you agree or not, the world is often so shallow. It is realistic and cruel, but you have to accept it.
15, everyone is having a hard time. After you get through it, you will feel that those things that were going to kill you at that time, so many situations that you think will not last long, will gradually get better. No matter how slow it is, as long as you are willing to persist, it will all become a thing of the past. And those you can't overcome temporarily, those you can't overcome, those you can't stand, those you can't stand, tell yourself that whatever can't kill you will eventually make you stronger.
16. When you feel stressed and unhappy, go to the vegetable market. When you see old people, cold and heat, a small pile of vegetables, a small pile of fruits, just to earn tens of dollars, all your affectation and laziness will fall to the ground and break into slag!
17, if you see a person clearly, you will understand the meaning of forgiveness if you don't expose it; Hate a person, don't turn your face, just know the greatest respect. In life, there are always people you don't like and people who don't like you. Your maturity is not because of how many years you have lived, how many roads you have traveled, and how many failures you have experienced, but because you have learned to give up, learn to tolerate, and learn to fight.
18, life is hard to be satisfied, life is hard to be satisfied, and friends are high and low, so be honest with each other; Dressing is not more expensive than dressing, it should fit; The house is no bigger than the size, it should be comfortable and warm; The car is better than the name, have a safe trip; Looks are no better than beauty and ugliness, and you must have a balanced attitude; The body is not fat or thin, healthy and disease-free; Being rich is not better than having nothing, so be frugal. Life is not more luxurious than contentment.
19, everyone's personality has some unacceptable parts, even the best people. So don't criticize others, and don't blame yourself. Roses have thorns because they are roses.
20. Everyone will have extremely difficult times, such as the embarrassment of life, the frustration of work, the pressure of study and the fear of falling in love. If you survive, your life will be suddenly enlightened; You won't succeed. Time will teach you how to shake hands with them, so you don't have to be afraid.
2 1, sometimes we always take the consequences too seriously, and finally we are hard on ourselves. It's like failing the primary school exam, standing at your door without knocking. In fact, there is steaming food at the door and my mother's words: it doesn't matter, just work hard. In retrospect, most of the things that once made me insomnia were lost to imagination.