First of all, you have to determine why you have nothing to say to your friends. Has this happened before? If this has happened recently, then think about it carefully, what kind of problems have arisen between you? I also had situations where I had nothing to say to my friends before, mainly because we were both too busy.

In the last semester, we would go to each other's dormitory every day, say hello, or buy food or something, and we would meet each other, but now we rarely meet, and the contact is also special. few. I was busy with my part-time job, and she was busy with her counselor job. Thinking about it now, if she came over, I wouldn't have anything to say to him, but I don't think this would affect the relationship between us because there is no obvious conflict between us.

It is normal to not have anything to say for a while. As long as something different happens sometimes, we will still have something to talk about. So in the same way, you should first determine whether there is a conflict between yourself and your friends. If not, then don't worry too much. If there is, then you should resolve it in time.

There is another situation, that is, you have seen through your friend, and many times you are unwilling to tell him the truth. This can only mean that there is something wrong with your friend, maybe He hasn't really become your inner friend yet. It may be that he has some characteristics that don't match yours. To give a very simple example, say you are a very generous person, but you suddenly find that your friend is a very stingy person, then you will lose favor with her, and naturally you will no longer be willing to do many things. Talk to him because you have denied him in your heart.

So when you have a conflict with a friend, think carefully about which party has the problem. If it is your own problem, then don’t wrong others and correct it yourself. If it is your other party’s problem, , then you need to clearly distinguish the seriousness of the problem. If the problem is really serious, then it is not suitable to continue to be friends. If it is a small problem, then don't miss this friend. Sometimes it is not because you have problems, but because something different has not happened yet. Therefore, if there is no specific reason to say, you have to make a specific analysis. ?

If you are not sure about yourself and why you still have nothing to say to your friends, then you can try to make some new friends, such as joining some clubs in the university. If you are not in the university, then you can Joining some interest clubs in society and having the same interests will help you find your own friends. Then see if you still have something to say about your new friends. You can compare your new friends with your original friends and see. What's the difference between the two? Naturally, you will know why you don't want to say something to your friends? So be sure to make friends and expand your network, so that there will always be friends who share the same goals with you.