When you are poor in the busy city, no one cares about you; when you are rich, you have distant relatives in the mountains. Human relationships are as thin as paper, and world affairs are like new chess games.

Put a begging stick in front of the door, so that relatives and friends will not come to the door. A tall horse is tied in front of the door, and it means kissing even if you come in person.

If you don’t believe it, just look at the wine at the banquet and advise the rich first cup by cup. There is wine, meat, and many brothers, but it is difficult to see one person. People in the world need gold to make friends. If you don't have enough gold, your friendship won't be deep.

These words are true. If you are poor, none of your relatives will look at you seriously. If you are rich and prosperous, relatives from all over will come to inquire about your welfare and want to have a relationship with you. This is That's reality.

Don’t go to relatives when you are poor, don’t go to war when your horse is thin. The word "relatives" is very interesting. They look down on you and bully you when you are poor. They are jealous of you when you are rich, flatter you, hate you and alienate you. In the end, they are not as good as friends! Don't eat green onions when you are hungry, as they can cause heartburn. Don't go to relatives when you are poor, it's heartbreaking.

Don’t make friends when you are poor; don’t look for relatives when you are in trouble. When you are happy, share it with your relatives and friends; when it is difficult, bear it alone. Because if you go to them at this time, not only will you not solve the problem, but it will only increase your troubles, and your misfortune will become their laughing matter.

Ten years ago, the neighbors around you would treat you based on your parents’ income. Ten years later, the neighbors around you will treat your children and your parents based on your income. This is human nature and life. We have no choice but to work hard. Society is such a reality. Whether it is relatives or people who have nothing to do with us, it is almost always like this. Of course, we don’t care what others think, and there is no need to care, but in order to live a better life for ourselves in the future, we should still Work hard to make money, come on!