1. Life cannot be lived by mood, but must be lived by mentality. Living is not about winning sympathy with tears, but winning applause through sweat!

2. Don’t publicize your inner feelings everywhere. You are not the only one with a story in this world. Don’t vent your pain everywhere. No one will feel the same.

3. If a person cannot control his own emotions, even if he gives you the whole world, you will destroy everything sooner or later. If you cannot be the master of your mentality, you will inevitably become a slave of your emotions. Remember: your temper should never be greater than your ability.

4. If you have a bad mentality, you will get old easily in life. What kind of heart you have is what kind of person you are. People are not afraid of the vicissitudes of their appearance, but they are afraid of their old heart.

5. People in the world are greedy and always want to find the best of both worlds, but there is no such thing as a best of both worlds. A hundred years of life are nothing but teaching people how to choose.

6. When dealing with others, don’t give a cold face to someone who is warm-hearted, and don’t be embarrassed to put your warm face on others’ cold buttocks. This is the most original integrity and dignity of human beings.

7. When there is nothing to do, the mind is not empty, when there is something to do, the mind is not chaotic, when the big things are big, the mind is not afraid, and when the small things are small, the mind is not slow.

8. The so-called pressure is actually the lack of one’s ability; the so-called difficulty is actually the lack of one’s ability.

9. In this life, you don’t have to be noble, but you can’t be shameless; you don’t have to be great, but you can’t be despicable; you don’t have to be smart, but you can’t be confused; you don’t have to be optimistic about life, but you can’t be world-weary; you can make friends. Not generous, but not harmful to others.

10. Sometimes people are really strange. Those who choose will regret it, and those who give up will regret it. But perfection can only be an ideal, not an existence.

11. Only the weak can show off their strength, and only the strong can show weakness. Being mean is because of a weak foundation, and being bitter is because of a sour heart.

12. You can’t control life, but you can actively deal with it; life won’t be easier, but you can be stronger.

13. Competent people do not care about emotions, but only take things seriously; incompetent people do not take things seriously, but only care about emotions.

14. Most of the time, it is not work that consumes your energy, but the people you meet at work. The work itself is not tiring, balancing emotions is the most tiring.

15. Life is not bitter at all, but what is bitter is that we have too many desires; people’s hearts are not tired, but what is tired is that we cannot let go of too much.

16. The current conflicts between people mainly come from a group of people who are accustomed to measuring others by the standards of saints and demanding themselves by the standards of sluts.

17. Beggars may not necessarily be jealous of millionaires, but they may be jealous of beggars with higher incomes. Without a higher vision, you will be entangled in your current circle; with a higher vision, you will look down on the people and things around you.

18. You must master three principles when doing things: 1. Use courage to change the things that can be changed; 2. Use the mind to accept the things that cannot be changed; 3. Use wisdom to distinguish the difference between the two.

19. Life is not for compromise. The more you retreat, the less breathing space you have; Far.

20. Don’t rely too much on friendship, or spend a lot of time guessing whether the people around you are sincere to you. Feeling lonely is a required course for growth, and everyone has to experience it.