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Everyone has infinite yearning and expectation for love.

With the continuous development and progress of society, people's ideas in more aspects have become much more open.

Some previously unacceptable ideas can be understood and accepted gladly now, but even so, people's views and bottom lines will not change, that is, love.

What we are paying attention to now is free love, not two of a kind. Instead of making do with love as before, we are making do with marriage and have been living a fine life.

Nowadays, women will talk about a love because of love, and get married because of love. They will still choose to give everything before love.

because they want this relationship to last for a long time, but the more they do, the more they can get men's love. The more women do this, the more men think about it? Leave? You, a woman with high emotional intelligence, do the opposite.

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Li Zhou, a friend, is a woman with strong communication skills. She is both good-looking and good-looking. She exudes this infinite charm and easily becomes the focus.

But no one is perfect, even the best person will have certain shortcomings. Li Zhou's biggest shortcoming is that she is too indecisive in doing things, especially in emotional issues. She can't make a quick decision and always procrastinates.

Li Zhou is not superior to everyone because of her good looks and ability. She is warm and helpful, and has a good relationship with her colleagues, and everyone praises her constantly.

But when faced with emotional problems, she is at a loss and can't handle it well.

When facing the suitors she doesn't like, she always doesn't know how to refuse others. Everyone keeps in touch and often chats, so many times she can't tell what love is and what friendship is.

It is precisely because she doesn't know how to deal with emotional problems and how to keep her distance from friends of the opposite sex that several relationships she has talked about have no good results.

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However, this ending is not surprising at all. What man can stand the existence of so many friends of the opposite sex around his girlfriend, and it is even more unclear whether it is really just pure friendship with these opposite sex.

Although Li Zhou has many suitors, she hasn't met a man who can really make her move. In addition, she can't handle emotional problems well and doesn't know how to keep a certain distance from the opposite sex. Several relationships have ended.

She is still single in her thirties. Even if her own conditions are good, she will not be able to cope with the continuous increase of her age, and her capital will continue to decrease, and finally she will get herself? Fall in price? Yes.

It is normal for everyone to have a few friends of the opposite sex more or less, but you should learn to keep a certain distance from the opposite sex.

When communicating, you should know how to control your discretion, especially for women. There is nothing wrong with having good social skills and good popularity, but it is not necessarily a good thing to have too many friends of the opposite sex.

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If you can't keep your distance and keep a sense of proportion, you won't feel that you don't love yourself. The relationship between men and women is very complicated, so you won't respect you, let alone be with a woman like you.

Men are possessive of their women, and no man will accept that his women have too many friends of the opposite sex, which will often cause unnecessary quarrels between you, and will also break up your feelings over time.

Some women want to have a boyfriend but don't want to lose their heterosexual friends, so they will take risks. Dating without telling their boyfriends is often impossible. Think carefully about whether it is worth losing their true love for these heterosexual friends.

Therefore, I hope women will be cautious when it comes to friends of the opposite sex.

In fact, sometimes it's not that a woman can't tell her priorities clearly, but that she enjoys being pursued and loved, and likes everyone to surround her and spoil her, so she doesn't want to refuse.

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But when you start a relationship, you should learn to refuse. This is a sign of responsibility for your relationship, and it is also a kind of mutual respect. Sincerity is the cornerstone of your relationship. If you can't even do this, then you will bury a time bomb in your relationship.

And those women who are smart and have high emotional intelligence know how to keep their distance and keep a sense of proportion when getting along with the opposite sex.

Even after the best friends of the opposite sex have feelings for themselves, they know how to avoid suspicion, prevent their boyfriends from misunderstanding and make them unhappy, and respect each other.

And you are together because you love each other, so you should think more about each other in everything. No woman likes to drink against her man and always quarrel, right?

In relationships, women should learn to put themselves in a proper position, and don't let their temper dictate them. Don't be too close to the opposite sex and make their men angry, which will affect your feelings.