There are very few true friends

It’s all like this,

It’s easy to have ordinary friends,

Intimate friends It is still difficult to find a confidant

It still requires many conditions. If you have few friends, you can’t make true friends.

You have the same kind of friends around you. If you don’t treat others sincerely, others won’t treat you sincerely. Don't always look at other people's faults, think about yourself occasionally. Who said there are few true friends, but I have them

From a girl’s perspective, I understand girls’ psychology better. Most girls will not take the initiative to pursue the boy they like, unless they really like him too much or are brave girls with more personality. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is also interested in you, then take the initiative and don't get into a tug-of-war with her. If you feel uncomfortable, the person you like may suffer too.

Whenever a girl is chased by someone, her psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but she is also a little scared. She has an ambivalent attitude toward this boy who breaks into her peaceful life. She does not mean to refuse him but welcome him. Don't think that she is testing you, she is actually fighting with herself, and she is afraid of being hurt.

Don’t be afraid that your initiative will offend her. If you don’t take the initiative, she won’t take the initiative either, and she will slowly fade away. If your initial confession is rejected by her, that's normal. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking?

Maybe if you confess your love twice more, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved.

If you suffer a setback, leave immediately, never talk to this girl again, protect yourself tightly, and lick your wounds silently. While you are in pain, little do you know, that girl Maybe I am feeling regretful and regretful in my heart! Maybe she will cry secretly and regret rejecting you. She will also be very sad when she sees your indifferent eyes, but she will not tell you and will definitely not ask you to come back and chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart.

She will think that you don’t really like him, otherwise why would you just give up on her?

Some people say that it is so difficult for boys to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role positioning of men and women. From a physiological and social perspective, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, it were the other way around, making men shy and women moving forward courageously, the world would be in chaos! A woman's shyness is always beautiful and touching~ I have always heard that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are very few examples to the contrary.

Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are stalkers and will get a bad reputation. But I think that when a boy pursues a girl he likes and continues to be nice to the girl after some setbacks, it means that he really likes her and is sincere. If he doesn't succeed, he doesn't regret it. It's nothing, right? Who made people like it? I hate other people messing around the most, and I also hate boys who have no idea of ??their own and care too much about what others think of them. Such boys deserve to be unable to find a girlfriend.

If you are a man, be brave. Girls are inherently emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you have worked hard, once your sincerity touches her, you will get more and longer love. Such examples abound around us. Girls are very gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. In exchange for this sweetness, what is the hard work in the beginning? And most good girls are very devoted and dedicated in love.

Therefore, I suggest some boys to be brave and pursue the girl they like. Don’t be so timid. Firstly, it will make others think you are not manly. Secondly, it will make you feel uncomfortable. But the most important thing is: in the end you get nothing.

Happiness is always earned by yourself, don't expect others to give it to you!

One more thing, I think it’s good to be proactive, because your goal is something you really like. Girls are often passive, and passive people can only choose to accept or reject, so I would rather take the initiative. , love what I love, no regrets!

1. What kind of first impression should be left on MM (Time: just started to contact MM)

1. I think the most important thing is to let MM see you. ambition.

The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people do not work long hours and cannot be considered "successful". At this time, you have to make your girlfriend think that you are a motivated person.

You can talk nonsense about other things, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future, you are not satisfied with the status quo, and you already have long-term plans. In short, your future Not a dream.

2. Be confident and responsible

Don’t be like a child. Girls are lazy and hope they can find someone to rely on. You have to show your confidence and responsibility. Heart comes.

Having a wrong choice is much better than having no choice at all.

3. Don’t be too serious, but don’t be too casual either.

Be serious where you should be serious, and laugh when you should laugh.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so don’t appear to care about anything, as that would be too dull.

4. Look more mature

Men who are calm and unhurried in situations are fatally attractive to girls.

2. How to have further contact with MM (time: the beginning of chasing)

1. The most important thing at this stage is not to rush, don’t make things so clear, let her People can tell at a glance that you are chasing them.

Think about it, most people will not fall in love with you at first glance, but they will also not hate you at first glance. They are all ordinary people’s children (unless you look like Chow Yun-fat, Andy Lau or Kevin Coster) (Na), goodwill needs to be realized as understanding continues to increase, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Let’s think about it from a girl’s perspective: If you rush over to find someone so directly, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find out that I don't like you after being in contact for a while, wouldn't it be like playing tricks on you? So if you come out with a determined attitude from the beginning, you will basically be put back immediately.

2. Start with a low profile

First of all, you must position the relationship as a "friend". It is originally an "ordinary friend". If you want to become a "good friend", it is okay if you have good taste. Ask the other person to become a "confidante" or something like that, but never say "chasing you".

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl will have less chance to "reject" you - how can she reject you if you don't pursue her? !

This can reduce the psychological pressure of girls and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Don't imagine that you will agree to marry you after only three days of knowing each other. You need to fully communicate and understand each other. Feelings do not arise out of thin air.

3. Don’t be too impatient in the process of dating.

Be relaxed and don’t pester others all day long. You will get tired of anyone who treats you like this. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing a girl is eight words - "hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the culmination of many years of hard work by my classmate).

Of course they won’t think well of you if you keep pestering them all day long. If you give it a proper chill for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your presence.

Also, don’t have the ambition of “I won’t marry you unless you want me”. It’s not good if the price is too low. Sometimes you can use some tricks.

4. Create opportunities appropriately

As mentioned earlier, don’t make things immediately turn into “you are chasing someone else”, and you need to get the opportunity to get close to girls. It all depends on your creativity.

You can collect intelligence and find ways to turn waiting around into an encounter; you can also pretend to be casual and find the most sufficient reasons to invite the other person to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place. If it really doesn’t work, you can ask your seniors for advice.

5. Don’t do it: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to give things to others frequently. However, they don’t know that this is the most taboo thing for chasing girls.

As the saying goes, "No reward for no reward." If you give people things like this, you are putting pressure on them. People will feel that they owe you something, so they will find a way to pay you back. If they can't pay you back, they will Find a way not to associate with you so that you don't always owe you favors.

If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well ask a girl to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or finding an expensive place to play together. Girls will naturally be able to see that you spend money. It's a lot of money, but after all, the money is spent by two people together rather than turned into things to take home. But there are very few true friends, what should I say

As long as we keep a sincere heart towards others

We cannot expect others to treat us

But what can you do to make yourself a true friend? The number of true friends must be very few?

Have you ever heard of Eason Chan’s best bad friend?

Are there really few true friends? Ask God for help

In fact, there are many true friends, but you haven’t found them yet. I feel like I have very few true friends. Is this normal?

Everyone is a sincere friend, so give your sincerity to that one

I have very few friends. It’s not that I’m picky. I also make friends sincerely. Why do you want to be a true friend? Or very few?

This is a completely normal situation.

I kiss you and think you are sincere, but are you really giving all your sincerity to your friends?

Sanmao said: One true friend is enough, two is too much, three is too many.

Isn’t this right? Why do you need so many so-called true friends? Ordinary friendships should not be purposeful. You only make friends for sharing, not for exclusivity. Aren't you afraid that if you have too many true friends, you will worry about gains and losses?

Although I now only have one true friend and best friend, I am still very satisfied! I even told the good friends I made that true friends and good friends are different. I only have one and only one best friend! They are also very understanding!

So don’t choose. You can have many friends, but only one or two who are sincere will be fine.

After all, your sincerity is neither big nor many. When there are more people, your sincerity will appear cheap. Make it noble! Hoho! It’s better to have your true friends be closer to you!

These are purely personal opinions. Any similarities are purely coincidental. Please adopt w. Do kind people have very few true friends?

Not necessarily. The kind of hypocrisy that makes you have many friends. . He is kind to the point of being pedantic, similar to that of Tang Seng. In a sense, he has many friends, although they all have evil intentions. - - But there will be true friends. There are not many true friends in the first place, because in this society, you know it, Liz. If you don't give first, it will be difficult for someone to give to you in today's society. Everyone is like a hedgehog. So this kind of abstract question still needs to be experienced by LZ yourself. Rather than being so free to ask questions, it is better to experience it personally. Even if you are taken advantage of and injured, it is still an experience. Everyone's destiny is different. If you don't try, you won't find the answer. If you follow the path you want, you won't regret it so much. Friends and so on belong to you, not others~ Just like choosing a bride, you still have to choose yourself. Whether you are sincere or not, we are all friends anyway, so be it~~~ That’s what I think, although I think the answer is a bit off-topic, but that’s it... I hope it helps. To you~~~~

I hope you can adopt some advice on how to enlighten people who feel that they have few true friends

No matter how many friends I have, I would rather I bear the world than the world should bear me. Cao Cao only has two in his life. My friend (Guo Jiadianwei) has died early, why not become a generational hero