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When dating, men who often have "low emotional intelligence" like to say these words to women. What is this?
Orange was recently introduced to a boy, and the first meeting was decided in a teahouse near her home, because she had business to take care of.

Boys are also very accommodating and promised to meet on the phone.

As soon as he got on the bus, he gave the orange the location and reported what station he had reached along the way.

Orange, who is busy receiving customers, always hears her mobile phone ringing and interrupts her conversation with customers several times. Some customers saw her cell phone ringing and immediately said they would come again next time, so they had to tell him that she was busy.

But the boys didn't see it, and they kept sending it. There is no way. Orange turned the phone to mute, and finally made a few deals.

When she was free, she turned on her mobile phone and saw that the boy had just arrived near her home. She quickly closed the shop door to meet him.

She rode an electric car to pick her up. When the boy saw her, he said, do you ride this?

The orange says, yes.

But the boy said, where should I sit?

The orange says, you ride a bike and I'll walk.

The boy got on the bus and said, your car is not good, it is old, and the direction is not easy to control.

Orange endured their eyes and said, ok, you ride away and go to the teahouse not far ahead.

The boy disappeared on his bike.

In the teahouse, two people sat without saying anything, and the atmosphere was a bit awkward.

The boy suddenly said, where is your home? Why don't we come to your house?

Orange immediately became alert and said, my home is far away, so it is not as convenient as here.

The boy was a little disappointed and said, I'm going to your house for one night, so I can't stay.

She didn't know whether the boy was really stupid or playing dumb, and she began to dislike him going to a girl's house the first time they met.

The boy said, I haven't eaten yet. Please treat me to a meal.

The orange says, ok.

The two men went to the restaurant next door again. After the meal, the orange paid the bill, and the boy never said a word.

Orange is a little reluctant to keep in touch with him, saying that he has to go back first because of busy business.

The boy said, then I will accompany you to see your shop.

The orange had to say, it's inconvenient for you and me. Let's say goodbye here.

Fortunately, the boy didn't pester her again. Back in the store, she really wanted to complain about the person who introduced her and introduce everyone to her. She is four years older than her, but she has no idea how to speak well, let alone how to express herself.

In reality, there are always some people who speak straight and don't listen well. In their eyes, this is their true colors, but no one has the obligation to understand the true meaning of your words. People consider whether you are worthy of association through your words and deeds.

If you don't say anything, others will certainly not be interested in your communication.

When dating, the first impression is particularly important, which determines whether you win the favor of the other party. If you can't do it well at this time, you will definitely have nothing in the future.

People's first impression of others is difficult to change in later life. Even if you take action to reverse your image in the future, it will definitely take a long time.

You can learn about each other's work and preferences when dating. There is already a lot to say, so don't step on the following minefields:

First, find fault with each other's work or hobbies.

Everyone is an independent individual and exists independently. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean others can't like it. Then don't blame others' preferences. You have no right to point out other people's lives.

Second, only talk to yourself, regardless of each other's feelings.

This is a person who can't read people's faces, lives in a world of self, and is a kind of acting personality. He only cares about himself, no matter whether others are willing to cooperate with him or not. Any one-man show will understand you, and everyone is very busy.

Third, talk about boasting about your past.

The so-called hero does not ask the source. If you are really capable and others are interested in you, you will take the initiative to understand without saying anything. But when others are not interested, you always brag about your past, so you have to show off.

It is human nature that people don't like people who like to show off.

The real way is not to reveal the mountains and rivers, let others know your past and facilitate communication between two people.