My ideal is small, but very real. I often say that those who want to be scientists, generals, and leaders in the future must be children, because that is the way children talk about their ideals, because Children's ideals and dreams are mixed together. An adult's ideals are inseparable from reality. They design their future on the path of reality. Maybe this future goal is extremely small, but I think that as long as a person has a goal in life, they should be said to be people with ideals and pursuits. Please acknowledge our little people’s ideals.

I interviewed an old lady named Li Shiwei who was over 60 years old. Her family was extremely poor and had nothing to do with modern society. She had no TV, no refrigerator, no washing machine. But she adopted 12 orphans with the income from running a small grocery store. Before I went for the interview, of course I designed her to be a person with ideals and pursuits, and I also wanted to write about her greatness and kindness. But during the interview, I discovered that these 12 orphans were all from Mingshui County and Baiquan County in Heilongjiang Province, and none of them were from other places. The old lady said that she was an orphan when she was a child. After liberation, the orphanages in Mingshui and Baiquan counties adopted her and gave her a life. She could still go to school and have a job, so she wanted to repay the favor of these two counties. favor. She will do her best to adopt orphans from these two counties and train them to become adults and talents. I wanted to write about a person with great ideals and pursuits, but it turned out that she was a person who only knew how to repay kindness, and I was an honest reporter, so I wrote about Li Shiwei truthfully. Editors from several newspapers said the style was too low, which was a pity for such a good thing. But I said that Li Shiwei is a little person like me. Little people have ideals. Her ideal is to repay kindness, and the purpose of her actions is also to repay kindness. I said, why should we demand others according to our originally designed ideals and pursuits?

Many of us have read Gao Xiaosheng’s Chen Huansheng series of novels. The honest and kind farmer Chen Huansheng has an ideal: to build a house of his own! He went through countless hardships and spent decades finally building a house of his own. Who among us is qualified to say that Chen Huansheng has no ideals and pursuits? It can only be said that his ideals are not lofty, but his pursuit of ideals makes many people with lofty ideals dare not look up at him, because Chen Huansheng spent almost his entire life and energy to realize his ideals - his small ideals.

I also interviewed an 84-year-old man, Sun Deyang. He owns two large hotels and a real estate company in the United States, but he has left all these to his children and grandchildren - he owns a business in the United States* ** has 22 sons, daughters, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. He returned to Shenyang to settle alone. His ideal was also very simple: "I was born in Shenyang. I think I should die in Shenyang and leave my roots in the place where I was born..." It was originally a very high feat, but the reason was different. It's extremely small, but I still wrote it truthfully because I should write the old man's true thoughts.

I am a young literati. I have written some essays that readers love, and I have also opened columns in some newspapers and periodicals. In the column message of each newspaper and periodical, I never forget to write the sentence: "I will I want to write better and be worthy of the readers who love my works and the newspapers and periodicals that pay my royalties..." Many people say that my ideals are too small, but I think my ideals are very real. One reason why I write is because I love writing. Another reason is that I feel there is nothing more suitable for me to do besides writing. Another reason is that most of my livelihood comes from royalties. These three reasons became the driving force for my writing, which enabled me to write six to seven hundred essays and essays.

Li Shiwei, Chen Huansheng, Sun Deyang, and I should all be said to be people with ideals and pursuits. But these people's ideals are not lofty, they are all very small, but these people are very persistent. For a very small ideal, they can give up a lot, endure a lot of hardships, and shed a lot of sweat (sometimes they even shed tears and bleed). I said, we are all people with ideals. There are many ideals in this world. As long as this ideal is kind, it should be recognized and respected. Of course, a society, a country, and a nation should have an ideal.

A society should recognize individual ideals and pursuits. Even if many individuals’ ideals and pursuits are very small, we should recognize them because they are the basis for everyone’s survival. There is a kind of people who always have ideals - lofty ideals, but they never implement their pursuits and blame others, as if they are always the victims.

I despise that kind of person.

Wang Shuchun, Heping District, Shenyang City, Liaoning Youth Daily

Change your mood

Don’t suffer when you encounter ups and downs in your career.

Since we believe that life is just a journey, smooth sailing is just a good wish on the sweet and painful journey. When dreams are washed away into intermittent moments, and failure knocks your heart again and again, you must know: Temporary loss does not mean that you will never have it. Instead of cursing the darkness, light a candle. If you believe that life is a drama, the climax will not always be there, but more of a foreshadowing, and the smiles and sorrows of any character cannot represent the entire plot.

Some people say that everything in the world is created through constant collisions, and collisions must be painful. The world may forget you in a dark corner, and walk with you in isolation, loneliness, frustration, and melancholy, but you should understand that in a smooth career, the winner will never experience the joy and passion of success.

The blood in my heart is still boiling, so I have the courage to pursue that belief persistently. The dreams I once had are lost, but I believe that life will find a fulcrum and become truly beautiful.

It is not a bad thing to have such a mood when you are frustrated. real.

Fan Fan from the Second Bridge Company of the Ministry of Railways in Wangcheng, Hunan

My ideal is small, but very real

My life proposition/my outlook on making friends< /p>

Who doesn’t want to have a few more close friends? But friends are just friends. When making friends, you should not blame others for everything. You should seek common ground and put aside minor differences. You should never blame or complain about others.

Friends should try their best to help each other. No matter what the result is, they should remember their feelings and think more about each other. Forgiveness and tolerance can produce miracles. The emotional shock caused by forgiveness is much greater than the shock caused by punishment. Forgiving what ordinary people cannot forgive is very valuable in making friends.

When making friends, only by adhering to the principle of "taking only their strengths and not counting their weaknesses" can we maintain true love forever. Mr. Lu Xun's experience in making friends is worth learning from. He said: "I still have many old friends who have been with each other for decades. The key point is to take advantage of each other's small details and choose the bigger one." To do this, we must have good conduct, that kind of selfishness People who are stingy, jealous, "want others to be poor and hate others to be rich" and cannot be beautiful as adults cannot have more friends.

One cannot live without friends. Only those who are open-minded and tolerant of others’ faults can make more friends.

Hebei Zaoqiang County Supply and Marketing Cooperative

Yang Jianhua