Issues that should be paid attention to in interpersonal communication

When people live in society, they always have to communicate with others. In communication, whether you can be recognized and supported to the maximum extent is often determined by your social level, taste, and way of dealing with others. It can also determine the success or failure of a person's career. For this reason, we should pay attention to the following points in our interpersonal interactions to win the favor of others and gain their support.

1. Be open and frank when communicating with others. To win the welcome of others, it is very important to first make others believe in you, so that people may feel that you are trustworthy and can get along with you in a sincere communication attitude. Therefore, the first thing we should do is not to keep secrets and bury things from others, but to interact with them in an open and frank manner. Only in this way will people be open to those who are open to them.

2. Be humble and self-disciplined, and don’t be aggressive with the people you associate with. Students who have just graduated are often young and energetic, and they accept new knowledge and new ideas quickly. This is a valuable feature of young people, but many young people often use this advantage as capital to show off to others, regardless of whether No matter how big or small, they always like to compare themselves with others in order to achieve the purpose of promoting themselves. In fact, this can easily cause others to dislike themselves. Because when people meet you again in the future, they will definitely be too lazy to pay attention to you or they will run away from you like the plague. In this way, you will be abandoned by everyone, let alone try to get support from others.

3. Recall what they said in the past. Experience is a very good teacher. Some people talk more conservatively, others more exaggeratedly. These "records" will tell you what to believe and what not to take seriously.

4. Don’t hurt others casually. No matter who you interact with, be sure that your words and actions do not hurt others. If you have any opinions or prejudices against others, you should think twice before speaking. You should not speak outright. Your tone should be gentle and gentle, and you should not make insinuations. Before speaking, you should be good at putting yourself in someone else's shoes: is the other person willing to listen to you? If so, speak up. If not, then don't speak respectfully.

5. Frequently share your thoughts with your friends and encourage each other. When everyone is in trouble, they always want to find a close partner to talk to about their worries and anguish, so that the pain can be alleviated; when they encounter happiness, they can gain more by telling their happiness to their friends

joy. Remember, true friends are the best people to confide in. You may get unexpected relief when you tell your pain to your friends. You can also increase your own value when you tell your friends about your successes and joys.

6. Pay attention when listening to what others are saying. Paying attention to what others are saying is the best way to get him to open up, but unfortunately many of our young graduates do not do enough in this regard, or do not pay attention at all. They are either absent-minded when others are talking, or Just focus on your own speech.

7. Be sure to show consistency in words and deeds. People who are consistent on the outside make people feel more reliable.

8. Use an open-minded attitude to win friends. When getting along with others, it is inevitable that you will encounter some unhappy things. How to deal with these small frictions and make the relationship better has become a very important part of the relationship. People who are good at communication often show an open-minded attitude when dealing with these unpleasant things, so that the other party can easily discover your sincerity and find that you don't care about him, so he can automatically reconcile with you; at the same time, you use Your attitude proves that you are a trustworthy friend, and I believe that others will treat you sincerely.

9. Like the people around you. Make friends with them and people will open up to those who like them.

10. Show your beliefs through enthusiasm and passion. These emotions are more trustworthy indicators of a sincere response than anything else.

11. Always make a good impression.

When people interact with each other, impression is very important. A good impression will stimulate and promote one's communication; a bad impression will inhibit and hinder communication. If you are always trustworthy, upright, steady, and courteous, others will support you no matter where you are.

12. Don’t pry into other people’s privacy. Young job seekers are often interested in everything and always like to ask questions to the end. However, if they ramble without any choice or scruple and ask questions regardless of the occasion, object, environment and conversation content, it is easy to get confused. People are annoying