Don't dwell on it. There is only one thing I think you are wrong. You said that online dating is shameful. Ok, you don't believe in online dating, but if you think online dating is shameful, you can only say that you are too extreme. Not all people vent their negative emotions online, and not all online feelings are feelings. As long as it is feelings, there is nothing to be ashamed of. I hope that in the future, the landlord will pay more attention to face problems rather than consider them. And if you can trust others as much as possible, you may be excellent, but not everyone wants you to say something you don't want to hear. Don't think too highly of yourself.
Then I wish the landlord a happy life that suits him as soon as possible.