2. Unrequited love is "fig". Recognize that this relationship is not suitable for you, and there will be no result between you. If you delay, it will only increase the pain of the other party, so that you can decide the general direction and formulate further countermeasures.
3. Increase the distance between time and space to dilute emotions. It's normal to forget this emotion for a while. You need time. But remember, don't keep dating him or call him. Although you can't control your emotions, you should learn to control your behavior slowly. If you must be together, use honorifics when talking to him. Leave the place where you used to meet and try to avoid meeting again. Try to avoid contact with each other and sever family ties. The occurrence of unrequited love is mainly because in the contact and communication with each other, subjective imagination exaggerates the advantages of each other. To get rid of unrequited love, we should have less contact with each other and avoid all kinds of fantasies.
4. Don't make excuses for yourself. The complexity of feelings is that it is sometimes difficult to grasp, and it is normal for love and hate to be intertwined. It is not difficult for people to understand a truth and conflict of interest, but it is difficult to learn to control their feelings. Don't borrow some special days, such as each other's birthday, Valentine's Day, etc. , and then contact each other, or you will be wasted.