For children's inferiority complex, many parents may blame their children's innate personality problems. In fact, apart from their innate introversion, there are several reasons that lead children to be timid, afraid to speak and communicate with others. Parents should pay attention to the following points:

1. Learn to let go and cultivate their children's independent ability

Many parents think that to help their children take care of everything, they just need to study hard and don't let them do anything by themselves. Natural children don't have many opportunities to communicate with outsiders and strangers, which will gradually lead to children becoming timid and introverted.

The correct way is to consciously give children some opportunities to do what they can. Children will increase their sense of accomplishment when they finish one thing, and gradually they will have confidence and become braver.

2. Don't scold too much, encourage more

Many parents are too strict with their children, and they start to criticize as long as they don't do a little thing well, which will cause a great psychological burden to their children. The accumulation of psychological burden will gradually make them feel inferior, so that their children will become timid.

Therefore, parents must encourage their children to say and do more, encourage them first when they find what their children are doing well, and patiently help them correct what they are doing badly.

3. Don't worry too much, and listen patiently

When a child is found to be shrinking, don't rush, don't worry, don't compare him with those sociable children, don't say "My child is timid" in front of outsiders, and don't treat him rudely because of impatience, which will make the child more afraid, even afraid to express himself, and afraid to contact people.

When children try to express themselves, they should listen patiently, guide them a little when they need help, and let them explore for themselves.

4. Create more opportunities for children to go out and communicate with others.

Many timid children are brought up by the elderly, or their parents are too busy at work, so they often let their children stay at home and seldom go out. In the long run, it may lead to children's withdrawn personality and lack of expression.

Parents should often take their children to visit their homes. If the epidemic situation permits, they can take their children outdoors and participate in some social activities, providing more opportunities to interact and play with children.