How should an introverted and boring person get along with others?
I am also an introvert, and I envy those who can talk and laugh with others. I have been trying to learn how to get along with the world since I was a child. I think most parties are boring, but I will attend as many parties as possible. I don't like talking when there are many people. My introversion is more inclined to think that interpersonal relationship is a kind of consumption for myself. After a long party, I felt as if all my energy had been consumed and I began to fall into an empty state. Although introverted, I have friends, the kind of bosom friends. I have best friends at every stage, such as primary school, junior high school, high school and university, so the number of friends is increasing, and the longest friend has been more than ten years. Then in the eyes of many people, I am already a person with many friends. I think introversion is not the most terrible thing. As long as you have a good personality, someone will always approach you. In fact, making friends is a process of mutual choice. Introversion is only one aspect. Introversion limits the breadth of people you know, but people with similar interests always appreciate each other. When it's quiet, someone will want to get close to you and always exchange a few words. In the end, you didn't become friends, not because you were too introverted, but because some qualities were selectively eliminated, so you didn't choose to be friends with each other. Sometimes I don't know how to chat with my relatives and elders, but if I don't do well, I will blame myself: I am too stupid to even say a word. So I slowly learned, when I called: What happened? How are you? What's the weather like there? ... take the initiative to greet each other, sweet talk, ask his children, and take the initiative to talk about what he encountered in his study and life. Introverts, these are all things to learn.