After 25, you should know 49 things. Different things need to happen at different ages when you live outside, so you need to clearly understand the development of many things. Share the pictures and texts below, and make clear 49 things after the age of 25.

After the age of 25, you should know 49 things 1 1, and don't buy anything with obvious signs.

2,/kloc-luxury goods within 0/10,000 yuan can be bought, but they cannot be stretched (shown off).

3. A friend who plays with you all the time will not be a noble person who can support you.

Even if you earn 3000 yuan a month and rent (loan) is 2000 yuan, you will never be vague in treating people.

5, making friends with people, two things can not rely on: wine and money.

6. As long as you can bear it, others can take it as they want.

7. Be generous when giving gifts to friends.

8. For things you can't afford, don't always talk about them and write them in the text-it seems that you are already using them.

9. Don't dye your hair in large areas.

10, just listen to some words. For example, "I'll treat you next time", "If we have a chance to get rich together" and so on.

1 1. If you don't go to KTV with your close friends, please order songs carefully. Although some people don't know how to sing "Pink Memories" and "When Love Is Past", they know which era these songs came from.

12. Keep a bottle of red wine at home.

13, travel at least once a year, even if it's just to wash hot springs in the outer suburbs.

14. If any girl or teenager you meet in a bar is as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade, don't be tempted if they naturally call you "sister" or "brother". They just want to treat you as the big bill.

15, drink according to the wine, dance according to the dance, no later than two o'clock. Otherwise, you will get old quickly.

16, never eat midnight snack. If you really want to eat, eat it before you go out to play. In short, don't sleep after dinner.

17. Let's take a look at domestic fashion magazines. Editors wear more wholesale goods. Listening to their fashion advice is tantamount to asking the blind for directions.

18, know at least two unknown restaurants with first-class taste.

19, I would rather change my shoes frequently than my mobile phone or digital camera frequently.

20. Watching Korean dramas is not as good as watching American dramas, which are more real.

2 1, don't fantasize or even pretend that you are one of the following people: Julie, the princess, celebrities and any heroine in Sex and the City.

22. Don't be proud that you can't cook or change light bulbs. Do you think you are qualified to pretend to be innocent?

23. Try not to share with others.

Let's keep the ringtone simple, and don't make pop songs, especially online songs.

25, or start a blog, there are some things you need to say to yourself and some things you need to let others know.

26. Never trust three things: a man's promise, a woman's tears and a friend's wine words.

27. Don't be proud because your husband/wife is handsome or beautiful. It is king to listen to you and spoil you.

28. "Openness" is still innocent, but don't look for it online, go to a bar.

29, and a person only stays in an ambiguous state, so that your hormones are strong and delay the recession.

As a single friend of a couple, the only thing you need to do well is to be an audience.

3 1. If you are single and someone you know has a crush on one of your friends, please remember: you really don't have to play maid, groom, clown, escort and mediator on their date ... You only have one life, so don't always play a supporting role.

You can tolerate others saying you are ugly, but you can't tolerate others saying you are old.

33, women and women to be friends, to show the attitude of green leaves, but also to hide the heart of safflower.

34. No matter how passionate love is, there is no need to use two people's headshots as mobile phone desktops, and use "husband, husband, I love you" as mobile phone ringtones.

35. After breaking up, listen to Miriam Yeung, not May.

36. Just look at your photo and say that the person who wants to chase you must be a pig.

37. If you buy something yourself, you can say that you bought it yourself. There is no need to say "it's from my husband" or "my friend bought it for me specially".

38. Don't accept everyone's kindness to you. A large part of it comes from utilitarianism.

39, the most need to take a chance, not winning 5 million, but love. Note that we are talking about love here, and marrying someone who doesn't pay the rent is not one of them. Previous page 123 Next page

The saddest thing after the age of 40 or 25 is to pretend to be pitiful.

4 1, there should be two credit cards to rob Peter to pay Paul.

42. The person you didn't catch up with is chasing you now, so don't chase. Don't pay for his/her falling price.

43. No matter how wretched a man is, he dares to regard himself as a kind of love, as long as you take the initiative to show good.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but don't treat everyone around you like shit for it.

45. Many people will fall in love with you in this life. It doesn't matter if you don't have it before you are 25. Only those who appear after the age of 25 are good goods.

46. There is still an ideal, but the meal ticket is in hand.

47. Watch others grandstanding or show off safely, and regard it as Degang Guo crosstalk.

48. When there are strangers, you must shine and be careful when you appear.

49. The most meaningful thing you can do after breaking up is to change into a new look.

After the age of 25, you should be clear about 49 things.

What is the initial heart? This is a problem that almost all friends who are new to the workplace will face. These problems are usually most obvious within 1 ~ 3 years after entering the workplace. If you don't solve these problems early, you will have wasted three years. For a newcomer in the workplace, these three years are crucial, and they are the golden years for exercising ability and accumulating capital. Once you miss it, you have to spend more time to start over and make up for it. Once it is more than 3 years, you will pay a huge price for every change.

Why do you want to be clear about your goals? Because, with a goal, there is a guide to action. Knowing what you want to do and what you like to do is the ultimate motivation for your progress. The most fundamental reason for unhappy work, lack of motivation and blind job-hopping is unclear career goals. Without a goal, there is no pursuit, so all actions are just to earn a bite to eat. Many people have never considered what their future work should be.

Maybe you still have profligate capital before you are 30, because you are not afraid of anything when you are young. Once you are over 30, you should be careful at every step, because you have to get married, support your wife and children, pay off your mortgage, support your elderly parents, go to school when your children are older, and take care of your parents when they are older. All these responsibilities must be borne by you. If there is no plan, once there is a problem, you can only be confused.

Second, the ability is not all.

The ability mentioned here refers to professional skills. When you enter the workplace, you will find that ability is not as important as you think. You will find that a person with less ability becomes your boss just because he has worked in this company for 10 years-which shows that "seniority" is your capital for promotion. Sometimes you will find that your ability is not so strong, but people who have a very good relationship with your boss are usually promoted-this shows that "relationships" are also capital.

For some friends, they may be dismissive of these "soft powers". Many people will say, if the boss likes flatterers, should I wronged myself and learn to flatter? Unfortunately, I will tell you that the answer is yes. You must learn to kiss up, or you will suffer. But for the record, I am not teaching you to cheat.

The outer circle and the inner side are used for interpersonal communication, that is to say, we should learn to properly handle various relationships. But don't lose your inner standard because of this, otherwise it will deteriorate. Especially in China, which pays attention to human feelings, we must practice our interpersonal skills.

Third, capital depends on accumulation.

Where do resources come from? College students often tell me that after graduation, I must find a job with a monthly salary and try my best to achieve what position. At this time, I always patiently listen to their "grand blueprint" and then ask: "What kind of resources do you use to achieve your goal? What is your capital? " All I got was silence.

For friends in the workplace, where is the capital of your "sword"? Did your performance improve? Has your ability improved? How many books do you read a year that are beneficial to your career? How many training courses did you attend to recharge your batteries? If not, why raise your salary? By complaining?

Fourth, be cautious about your first job.

This view is more meaningful for students who are new to the workplace. Now, the whole media, experts and other units are advocating that the argument of "employment first, then choosing a job" did not exist this year, but appeared many years ago, and it has appeared repeatedly. I believe that many people will believe this when we graduate from college, right? Who cares? Riding a donkey to find a horse, first find a job to earn money to fill your stomach. If you make a mistake at the first step, you will often make mistakes later. As the saying goes, one step is wrong, one step is wrong.

Fifth, the mentality is treading on thin ice, and modesty is never wrong.

I have met many college graduates. When they first entered the company, they often boasted that they could have found a better job at school and had to come here. It seems that their current employers have wronged themselves and lowered their social status. If you have the ability to prove it, you won't have time to complain all day.

Humility is equally important to all people. China has a word called "open mind". Excellent people, with high literacy and inclusive mind, are more likely to gain respect in the workplace.

6. Relationships are also productive forces, and people do things.

The workplace is like a melting pot. In the workplace, it is not only to earn a bowl of rice, but more importantly, to learn the truth of being a man. If you don't even understand the minimum truth, you will not only lose the respect of others, but also lose more development opportunities. Because, in China, interpersonal relationships are also productive forces.

I have met many people who have worked for many years, but they don't even know the most basic common sense of being a man. There are thousands of reasons for Qian Qian to be a man, but the most important ones are the following three: 1, be strict with yourself and be lenient with others; 2. Learn to listen; 3. Be honest and trustworthy.

Although the profession is full of mutual utilization and the supremacy of interests, honesty and trustworthiness are still traditional virtues in this case. Honesty can also bring benefits. As long as you are honest and trustworthy, in the long run, everyone will form a good impression on you and be willing to associate with you. Those who are duplicitous, face to face and behind the scenes, of course, can take advantage of a little, but if they want to achieve great things, they must never lose the basic principle of honesty and trustworthiness.

Seven, abide by the rules of the game, there is no absolute fairness.

Many people will feel that the development of the workplace is not only restricted by various kinds, but also full of unfairness everywhere. For example, if you are late for work, the boss will deduct your salary, but you have never received overtime pay.

In this world, don't expect fairness. That's just a utopian ideal, with relative fairness and no absolute fairness. The relationship between employees and bosses is like a game. If it is a game, there will be a game plan, otherwise, the game will not be played. But who made the rules of the game? Of course, it is the boss, and various interests are also biased towards the boss. In the workplace, it is normal to dislike this phenomenon at first, because you are pure at first.

But slowly learn to accept the rules of the game. Don't try to change this rule because you don't have much say in front of the boss. To put it bluntly, you are a part-time worker. It's not bad to make a living and give it to you, but it's too cold? You can leave if you don't want to do it.

If you are not the maker of the rules of the game, there are only two choices: endure or leave.

Eight, opportunities only favor those who are prepared.

There is no absolute fairness, no matter how much you complain and how unhappy you are, you still have to eat, sleep and work, and the future will always belong to you.

Whether buying a house or marrying a wife, you have to bear the pressure yourself, and the boss won't care about you. Instead of having time to complain, it is better to calm down, improve your basic skills, prove your skills with facts, and make others look at you with new eyes. Never become a self-destructive person because of your scholar's spirit.

Of course, your preparation is multifaceted. In addition to professional skills, other auxiliary skills are also necessary, such as communication skills, interpersonal skills, management skills and so on. Of course, it is more important to make a plan for your future and clearly know what your goal is and how to work hard to achieve it.

Charge in time and you will go further.