In the first case, falling in love, two people together is very sweet. They all like to stick together and strive for more * * *. At a certain stage, it's time to meet each other's parents and discuss marriage. Usually at this time, there will be more and more tempering to accept emotions. If your future wife despises your own family conditions and wants your boyfriend to be separated from you, and you are said to be obsessed with saving your boyfriend, then _ don't quarrel with her at this time, calm down and help save your love and boyfriend.

The following aspects can be done for you, and you can refer to them:

1, communicate effectively with your boyfriend at work.

In a relationship, the most important thing is that two people can be congenial, have good communication and be able to discuss and deal with problems together. So women need to communicate with their boyfriends if this happens. At the beginning, getting along with your boyfriend requires him to master your family's economic situation. When his parents don't like their family conditions, then _ you need to deal with it with your boyfriend and communicate and deal with it together. With her boyfriend's perseverance and applicability to herself, the following road is not difficult to walk.

You should know how to please your in-laws.

In fact, women broke up because of poor family conditions, while older "fathers" or housewives. You have to understand that you and your wife are deeply in love with the same boy. A housewife only wants her children to live without that kind of hardship. If you insist on being with your boyfriend, you don't have to complain about his mother. At this time, what you must do well is learn to please his mother. You need to coax her and influence her. You don't need to buy her an expensive gift. Talk to her more, pay attention to her and help her with housework. In this way, she will have a good impression on you and firmly believe that she will gradually like you.

3. Make yourself and your boyfriend more diligent.

There are poor people and rich people in this world. As the saying goes, the children of poor families are in charge early. Only poor and ambitious people are harmful to people with poor family conditions and will make people more diligent. If you can push your boyfriend to be more eager, enterprising and diligent, then her mother will think that you are doing positive harm to his children in her eyes, and her misunderstanding and prejudice will be reduced. Show her the traditional virtues of hard work in China, and she will look at you with new eyes.

When people are poor, they only need to be ambitious and enterprising, and many things can realize their dreams. In the marriage and dating sales market, if the boyfriend's family despises the poor family conditions of women and is said to be obsessed with saving her boyfriend, then _ you need to be diligent, enterprising and have dreams, and then _ others will respect you all the more.