1, dare not fall in love, once you fall in love, you lose yourself-attachment, please personality?

Many older women are typical dependent and flattering personalities. Usually, most of these people are very aware of their own shortcomings, so they dare not invest in a relationship at all, for fear that they can't control each other, but each other has their own life.

2. The whole face says "Don't approach strangers"-avoidant personality?

These girls are not really cold, but are afraid of socializing or shy, or belong to avoidant personality. In this way, you will often be lonely and eager for someone to be nice to you. But if someone really offers to be nice, your first reaction is to escape, so few people have the patience to deal with you.

3, eager for love, but afraid of love-extremely insecure?

Extremely insecure, it is impossible to look at friends around you and say no envy. But once you imagine the scene after love, you are discouraged-you are afraid of getting hurt, and you are inexplicably sure that you will be the injured party.

4. Emotionally, rationality is greater than sensibility-being too rational and thinking too much.

These girls all know that falling in love is an extremely demanding investment in time and energy, and they don't have enough confidence in their self-control. Once in love, it must be a long-term investment. You always feel that it is really troublesome to consider another person's feelings and thoughts in love. How many compromises do two completely different people have to make to treat each other sincerely?

5, in a word: lazy-think more and do less?

Too lazy to go out, too lazy to dress up, too lazy to manage relationships, too lazy to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, too lazy to expand your circle of friends. When I think of meeting a new person, I must sacrifice my time and hobbies to please him. I will feel uneasy and my life will be disrupted. The lazier you are, the more limited your life circle is. You don't take the initiative to socialize You fantasize that love can only be pursued by others, and so on.

6, daily life really don't need the help of others-too independent?

You can cook, clean the floor and move the house by yourself. There is a saying: men with strong arms are either in fitness or single; Women who can carry bottled water are either single or single. ? Other girls can't unscrew the bottle cap. You can even unscrew the fire hydrant. ? Rarely disturb others, road addicts basically rely on mobile phones, Weibo to talk and entertain themselves. In daily life, nothing can really stop you.

7. Living in a small circle-don't take the initiative to expand the circle?

I'm still at school, and my life after work is just two points and one line. Open your eyes and go to work. Go home when the time is up. Going home is nothing more than chasing Taobao, boring and boring. But if someone really wants to deprive you of the time and power to chase Taobao, you can only dream.

8. It is often said that you have a high vision-you'd rather lack than abuse it?

All kinds of social software clamor to bid farewell to singles, and claim that as long as they are heterosexual and alive, they don't like anyone around them. The tentacles are very sensitive. If anyone shows you a little, you will immediately step back eight feet, and you will call your behavior "it is better to be short than to be abused." ? So all the friends around you think that the reason why you can't find someone is that your eyes are too high. If you think about what you have done, you can't refute it.