Yes, a man must love you when he gives you money. If he doesn't give you money, it proves that this man is particularly selfish. Now this society, who told you it was empty? If he can give you hard-earned money, of course he loves you. When a man gives you money, he wants you! Of course, it may also be a desire for protection, and of course there may be something else! Some people say that women should not be tested with money. It makes sense. After all, besides lust, material desire is the most important thing for women. Of course, men are the same, but maybe they want to be sexually active. Love knows no national boundaries and has no interest relationship. Love you, treat you well, take care of you, and take care of you in every possible way. Love is always unreasonable, because it has nothing to do with the logic of interests, but only a person's mood. When you are happy, it is good anyway. Unhappy, that's not right anyway. Do men take the initiative to transfer money to you because they like it? When in love, men always make women dissatisfied with him because they give the wrong gifts. Not too cheap, not too expensive, not too vulgar, not just flowers … I believe many women have complained that boyfriends don't want to spend money on themselves, which means they don't love themselves. Although love cannot be measured by money, I think there is some truth in this idea. It's like a woman might choose clothes for her boyfriend while shopping. Although she may shop around and choose the most cost-effective and satisfactory one, it may not cost much, but at least it shows that a woman is still thinking about her boyfriend when shopping. If a man doesn't want to give you money, it's probably because he doesn't love you, but if a man is willing to give you money, does he love you? Let's hear what men think. Mr. Li, 20, is a junior. "I basically live on living expenses, but I have found a part-time job since my sophomore year. Because I am studying design, I can take some jobs, less than 2,000 yuan a month. " "Of course, I am willing to spend money on my girlfriend because I have a girlfriend. Because we all like watching movies and traveling, we must have financial support. We can't reach out to our parents for money every time. " "Girlfriends are always pursued by people with good conditions, so I am under great pressure and don't want to compare with others. But my girlfriend doesn't value these things, so our relationship has always been very good. If you have money in the future, you can take her farther and buy her a better gift. " Mr. Zhou, 28, has worked for five years. "I have worked for several years and have some savings, but when it comes to buying a house and a car, it is really far from it. It can be seen that the ideal of youth is difficult to achieve, and it has been said that it depends on yourself. " "My girlfriend has her own income, and we will also give each other gifts on holidays. Of course, I spend money on dates. After all, she doesn't earn much, and I am very satisfied that she can support herself. " "I think whether I love her or not is actually related to whether I am willing to spend money on her. I love her, and of course I want to raise her. If I don't love a woman, why should I spend money on her? I am not a millionaire. " Mr. Wang, 46, has been an individual for eight years. "When people reach middle age, they decide to leave the company and do it themselves. Before that, they also want to save money and let themselves have the capital to be individuals. Now the company can operate normally, and in a few years, it will ensure that children will have food and clothing for a lifetime. " "I don't live with my ex-wife. She has her own job. When she divorced, the child was an adult, so she didn't give alimony. Single heterosexual friends around me have never considered it, but they have also spent money on them. " "Make friends, spend some money nothing, also don't need to get anything from them. Not so complicated. " Maybe money and love have different understandings at different ages and in different situations. When you were young, you might want to give everything to that girl because you love her. When there is no money, it does not necessarily affect love. When you have money, you may not know the meaning of spending money. Is it because a man likes to transfer money to you? The psychology of men giving you money 1. Vanity A man who is willing to spend money for a woman is also showing off himself. This is a man's nature. Any male animal has the instinct to show off. Male peacocks will show off the beauty of their screens; The crowing rooster will show off his mighty posture; Rich people certainly show off their bulging wallets. This is also a way for men to get psychological satisfaction in front of women. A woman asked him to spend a little money, and he was happy when he spent it. If you spend a lot of money, be careful lest he feel cheated by a woman. 2. You are beautiful enough. Men like to spend money on gentle and beautiful women. Gentleness is a woman's killer. Once a man starts a relationship with a gentle and beautiful woman, no matter whether this relationship can be turned into a positive result or not, he is willing to spend money for the woman, and it is a willing and happy flower. If this woman doesn't want to spend men's money, men will be a little depressed. You are the woman he likes. When a man likes a woman, the most obvious performance is to spend money. If you like a woman, you are willing to spend money. This woman is like opening a man's wallet. Many lovers use this function of men. Let many men open their wallets for them and live a third-party life from now on. Although it is impossible to make a positive result, I am happy every day. Men like to spend money on such women. 4, there is also a picture of men spending money, not selfless spending. He's up to something, and he's hungry for something in return. Men regard this kind of expenditure as an emotional investment. Men's attempts are nothing more than two points. First, I hope to get a woman's love and marry her. Second, I hope to get this beautiful woman's body and satisfy my own desires. In fact, the purpose of men spending money on women is very simple. This is much simpler than business struggle. So, smart girl, be careful. When a man is willing to spend money for you, you must think clearly. No man will give you money for no reason. If so, you must have something he wants. Therefore, women should not take men's money at will, especially between unmarried men and women, which is very troublesome. Don't think that a man who is willing to spend money for you is a good man. Maybe, he just wants to get you. If you get too deep, you may not be able to get out. When you regret it, it's too late.