How to eliminate embarrassment when online dating meets?
Before we met, we got to know each other through chatting. Now more and more people chat with WeChat. When preparing for a tryst, I think everyone will chat by phone or WeChat. During the whole chat, you can analyze some simple situations of the other party. For example, what is the other person's personality, what love history he has experienced and what he likes. According to this, we can also see what kind of person the other person is and whether his speech is elegant and literary. If the other person is as good as expected, there is no need for online dating.
_ The doctor's physical contact
If you meet a woman, are you excited? The girl who has been chatting for so long is finally going to see the real version. Do you have the idea of hugging each other? Xiaomi tells you, don't be so rash. When we meet for the first time, we can smile and communicate. I can reach out and hold a handshake ceremony. "I finally see the real version of you, better looking and more temperament than you in the photo." Everyone is looking forward to hearing his praise. In this way, the anxiety and uneasiness of meeting for the first time will be relieved at once.
It's best to sit directly together.
Why sit directly together instead of zero distance? This is a very tasteful name. After all, it's the first date, and we don't know each other very well. Sitting together at zero distance can avoid staring at each other when chatting, and there will be no such blind date. Sitting together directly can alleviate this situation, and you can see what topics you can discuss around you later. Try to choose a warm nightclub and a distinctive freshly ground coffee service hall for the first tryst, so that even if there is no topic to talk about, everyone can talk about this song and the big-name star who sang it, alleviating the embarrassment of having nothing to say at the moment.
Be sure to prepare in advance to reduce embarrassment.
No matter how well prepared in advance, there will undoubtedly be some situations in the whole process of tryst. How long is the emotional running-in period? At this time, you need to be prepared in advance to reduce embarrassment. Know each other's likes and dislikes in advance and prepare more jokes in advance. Of course, if you can do some simple magic tricks, it will be even more extreme. You can interact and play games, so the whole process will be very easy.
Frequently asked questions about online dating.
Try to be rational for a while. At the beginning of a long-distance relationship, many people are very prone to dizziness, especially girls, who are easily hurt and manipulated by their mentality and feelings. Coupled with the other side's air strikes, they completely believe that the other side or some "mountain without edges" dare to break with you. At this time, we must find ways to calm ourselves down and objectively analyze each other from the perspective of the monitor.
You can learn more about each other's specific situation.
This is just like when ordinary people bring their other half home to meet their parents, parents always bring their other half to ask some questions, such as where is home, who are there at home, what kind of work they do, and so on. Mom and dad just want to know more about each other and worry that everyone will be cheated by each other. That makes sense, so even if it's a long-distance relationship, you can learn more about it with reference to the actual way. In that case, it's good for both sides. But you should also pay attention to your own network information security, so you don't have to tell each other at once and put yourself in deep risk.
Discuss with the basin friends around you and listen to their suggestions.
If there's something you'd better tell your parents, but it's about long-distance love, most parents don't want to do it, so it's best to talk to friends around you, listen to their suggestions, think it over for yourself, and then decide whether it's necessary to develop it again.
Be sure to keep yourself safe when you see it.
What are the characteristics of men playing with feelings? If you have been in contact with the Internet for a long time and feel that the other person really trusts you and loves you, and you are also the type that the other person likes, and you still have the opportunity to meet, you must ensure your own safety, such as telling your friends to choose a place that you are familiar with. It's best to bring your own basin friend, so you can tell the other party in advance before you go, and let the other party bring your own basin friend. For the sake of safety, I firmly believe that the other party can understand.