The words "The Heart of a Child" sit on the knees and talk for a long time, "Exhausted", "The victory and defeat are disregarded", "The military strategist always remembers the meaning", and the hearts of the world are in harmony. And the governance of the world is like facing an abyss, walking on thin ice, unable to reach, pouring out the burdens and imprints of confidants, ferocious materialism, majestic and broad-minded, spiritless, bloody pain of being exploited, trembling, I would rather the world bear me, than I bear the world, the light is trembling, my soul is dreaming Restless, recuperate your energy, reach the peak, achieve bliss without being lustful, be sad without complaining, reverie about waist malaria and back pain. Child, I am afraid the lessons I have learned from you are no less than the lessons you have learned from me. Especially in the past three years, you have given me a deeper experience of life. I have learned patience and sublimation of feelings from the process of getting along with you!
After all, people are emotional animals, and it is not shameful to express them occasionally. What's more, a mother's tears are always holy and loving!
In life, unsatisfactory times often account for the majority. How to resolve the depression in your heart at this time? Whether to let the depressed mood erode your life, or to face it with a more positive attitude.
A person who is pure, upright, sincere and soulful will sometimes be subject to unexpected hardships, insults, persecutions, and fall into a desperate situation that seems to be disdainful to the crowd. But in the end, the light of truth cannot be extinguished forever, but must still be Be known to everyone, let its light shine through the world, and get the respect and love it deserves.
When a person is lonely and his thoughts are concentrated, the feelings he expresses are all sincere. The great poets you admire, such as Li Taibai, Bai Juyi, Su Dongpo, Xin Jiaxuan, etc. are our favorites. We all feel the same way and it is also a joy. When you feel depressed or lonely, you can get in touch with the great poets of our motherland. , can relieve your worries and give you warmth.
Writing down your thoughts is much different than just imagining them in your head. Writing it down requires correct and precise thinking, so self-examination on paper is particularly profound and leaves a deep impression on myself. This also proves that you are very perceptive. However, everything in the world has its advantages and disadvantages, and every good thing must have its shortcomings. People who feel happy often cannot be immersed deeply and cannot maintain it for a long time. But you must at least admit that it is a fact that you are not easily "strongly persistent". I would like to remind you now that you are always vigilant and don't let your new feelings float on the surface of your feelings. Instead, you should carefully analyze how your new feelings are different from your original way of expressing ideas and emotions. This requires a calm and powerful intellect to analyze clearly. Gradually, you will develop a different mood to deal with the past. In the end, you will be able to think about it instead of being frightened. You will be able to analyze the causes and consequences from a calm and objective standpoint, and use it as a reference for the future to avoid repeating the same mistakes. It is difficult for a person to dare to face up to reality and mistakes, use reason to analyze, and understand thoroughly, so as not to be eroded by memories... I mentioned my feelings to you in my letter before, just to ask you to treat this matter as the ashes of your soul. See Sometimes you will inevitably be filled with emotions, but don't hurt yourself unforgettably, but treat it with the same respect as if you were facing an ancient battlefield.
Theory and practice are absolutely inseparable, and learning must be combined with real life. Marxism-Leninism is not an abstract philosophy, but a very realistic and concrete philosophy. It is not only a guiding theory for social revolution, but also a philosophy of life. the basis of. That is, the study of ordinary people is purely for the purpose of learning. So when we talk about theory, we talk about materialism, dialectics, criticism and self-criticism, etc., and we can talk about it at length. When we encounter practical matters, we sit down at the desk, or in the factory or in the countryside. , forget all theories... Since everything is changing, and staying the same means stopping or dying, then why in the future will we miss the past, hurt ourselves, and poison the sunshine in front of our eyes? ...
If you are upset and can't sit down to write a letter, can you think of writing it reluctantly to comfort your parents? The beginning is for us to write reluctantly, but after writing more than three or four pages, I believe you The mind must be able to calm down, and it will become natural and happy, and I will automatically want to write. Let me tell you this method, which will not only make you write more letters, but also relieve the temporary boredom.
People always have to push themselves, and problems cannot be solved without forcing.
A person's thoughts will no longer be systematic without writing. As time goes by, they will be let go and even forgotten. Isn't it a pity? For this reason, I often force you to write more letters. , this is also very important: the training of rational understanding. I have repeatedly asked you to standardize your life and study. How can irregularity last? How can we achieve results without persistence? How can existing achievements be consolidated? Moreover, understanding and mastering the work requires long-term and slow digestion, chewing, and absorption...
A person who is too smooth can easily get carried away without realizing it. When I went out this time, because I was called a model team leader, I often felt a sense of pride in my heart. I suddenly felt it and suppressed it immediately. But this has happened more than once. It can be seen that a person cannot relax for a moment in his own struggle.
What you practice, artistic experience and cultivation are always obtained by yourself. Showing up one day earlier or showing up later has nothing to do with true artistic cultivation...
This In the past year, I have been floating around outside a lot and met many people. I always feel that there are too few people who are passionate about their career and have brains at the same time. It is very rare to encounter people who do not seek utilitarianism but strive purely for truth and progress. …Especially the policy on *supervision… there are far more compliments than criticisms. To demand true democracy, everyone must consciously and continuously fight. But we are still a long way away. There are many people in society who complain behind their backs, don't say a word to their faces, and even offer praise.
I am deeply moved by the fact that leaders attach far less importance to music than to sports... There is a deputy prime minister in the State Council who is in charge of sports, but which deputy prime minister is in charge of music? The central government does not understand that when we win an international award in music, it has a much greater impact than when we win several third or fourth places in the Olympic Games... When Beijing held a Mozart memorial concert, so-and-so was the chairman and said that Mozart was rich in France's revolution. The spirit of democracy is really inexplicable. We love to put hats on others and wear high hats when praising others, regardless of whether the hat is appropriate or not on the other person's head.
Although life is so ruthless, we ourselves should try our best to live a life that gives others less pain and more happiness. After all is said and done, I still hold the wish that "I would rather let people in the world betray me than let me betray the people in the world."
A few of our friends get together every two weeks. We will give a small academic speech, then have tea, talk about the current situation, and exchange news. That was the most depressed period for us, but we were not depressed. Instead, we created a healthy little world for our friends to hide in for a while.
The Writers Association’s meetings to criticize Dad were held thirty times in one day, and they were reviewed three times. The last time they said it was progress, Dad said that he used to always look at other people’s good points, and he was not satisfied with others. This is especially true for powerful old friends. Only when you are fifty years old do you realize that people are not that simple. For the sake of their own interests, old friends will betray their friends, give random opinions, and even spread rumors, and then bite them back.
I know your character and can imagine your circumstances. You have always been prone to sympathy. Even if you don’t take the initiative, you will inevitably feel proud of your vanity when being chased. This is human nature. , especially for artists, so we need to be more vigilant... If you want to find a permanent partner, you must also think rationally, otherwise you will be cheated by feelings! Your lover's vision will change once you get married, and you won't even believe it. If you don't think of this in advance, your heart will suffer endless pain.
In times of emotional excitement, not only will you become deaf, blind, and unable to see the other person clearly, you will also unconsciously only show good aspects and hide your shortcomings. Another advantage of staying calm is that you will not Abandoning your main career for the sake of falling in love may affect your homework, waste time, harm your health, or disturb your mood when encountering setbacks, big or small.
The so-called calmness is not only the surface action, but also the heart and thoughts. Secondly, human beings are the most complex animals. Observation must not be simplistic, but must be patient, meticulous and in-depth. After considerable time, Time, occasion for all sorts of different things.
...The problem is not to find a partner with no faults, but to find a partner who can recognize and admit their shortcomings, is willing to gradually change them, and can tolerate each other at the same time.
In short, nothing should be rushed. The more important the matter, the more important it is to be calm, have a serene attitude, consider the long term, observe carefully, and strive to be objective! It's easy to feel helpless when a relationship reaches its peak. The peak (or climax) of anything can only last for a short period of time. It is very difficult to maintain a long-term friendship that will be renewed over time. In addition to their advantages and disadvantages, it is also an important factor that the two people have similar personalities and temperaments. The difference between hardness and softness must be able to adapt to each other. The so-called ability to withstand the test refers to many tangible criticisms and self-criticisms (the reactions to others’ every move are invisible criticisms)
According to my experience: elegance and magnanimity often come with Congenital and acquired transformation can rarely raise a low level to a high level. Therefore, during a relationship, you should pay attention to whether the other person has something better than yourself, which can help me progress in the future, instead of causing me to retreat.
When making friends, try to give as few gifts as possible and spend as little money as possible. On the one hand, it shows that your concept of love has little to do with material relationships; on the other hand, it also tests the other person.
The requirements for a lifelong partner, just like the requirements for everything in life, should not be too harsh. I think the most important thing is intrinsic kindness, gentle nature, and broad mind.
It is dangerous for the other party to regard you as her whole world, but it is also very valuable! Now that you have discovered it, you will surely wake her up slowly. It is best to make insinuations instead of raising it directly, and make her feel that it is to maintain her independent personality and expand her world view.
Regardless of men and women, only by focusing their interests on career, learning, and art, and trying to put aside their small self, can they be happy and feel the meaning of life.
It can be seen that only calm, reserved and gentle feelings can last. Another meaning is that the couple will become a relationship of close friends in the end, which is what we call lifelong partners. Before getting married, If both parties can deeply understand this, they will lay the most reliable foundation for the future and avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and pain.
People are insignificant in the universe and cannot help themselves. However, to others, they are mysterious and unique. Therefore, it is quite difficult to understand a person thoroughly. In addition, race, religion , cultural and political background differences, it is even more difficult. Only when couples have complete understanding, wholehearted tolerance, constant tolerance, sincere and unswerving feelings, consistent views on life, and the same lofty ideals and beliefs can they safely survive the journey of life. Storms, big and small, may be the harmonious life partner of Qin and Se.
Only when artists of different races can instill some new blood into it without damaging the integrity of a special art, can the world's culture become richer, more complete, and more Come more and more brilliantly.
People need to think outside themselves from time to time in order to have new feelings, new perspectives, and more correct self-criticism.
At the same time, I also think that it may be harmful for performers to be too immersed in music and overwork. The pursuit of perfection is too strong and too clear, which can cause tension and fatigue. On the contrary, it undermines the original results. Maybe less work and more meditation. You might as well go for a walk in the suburban forest, or go to the museum to appreciate famous paintings, and seek tranquility and leisure from the plastic arts.
Friends’ help, care and love for us does not necessarily need to be repaid with material things, but often requires writing a letter to make them happy and feel that life is full of warmth. First as a person, then as an artist, then as a musician, and finally as a pianist.
But if an artist is the most beautiful flower, then life is just flowers and trees. The material side of life is not necessarily secondary and less interesting than the spiritual side, especially for an artist.
It is an upright act to pay attention to social problems and hardships in the world, and to grieve for the ugly things in human society. Therefore, as a sensitive young person, he feels indignant at the injustice and misery of human destiny. It is natural, but it is not advisable to be depressed because of it, it is unnecessary.
I think Dunhuang murals represent the authentic spirit of Chinese painting. Except for the obvious influence of Indian art, those paintings depicting fragments of daily life are indeed extraordinary, with originality in creation and meticulous observation. The techniques are bold and refined, and these paintings were created by generations of unknown painters
I often chat with my mother and express various thoughts on various issues in life and art, which often makes me unconsciously In order to sort out the self-interested thoughts, from this point of view alone, your mother was indeed of great help, although it was not her initiative. It can be seen that much of the mutual help of lifelong partners is completely unconscious
I believe that if Christian ideas had not dominated the two nations for thirteen or four hundred years, the mental state of modern Europeans would never be so complicated. This situation, even if it is complicated, will be of another nature. The concept of life and death in our minds has never been the extremely irritable expectation and pursuit of admiring heaven, nor has there been the terrifying worry about falling into hell forever. Therefore, our accidental injury It is just out of biological instinct, rather than a heated mind creating many blissful and terrifying things to seduce oneself and intimidate oneself on the other.
Most of the Chinese nation has a peaceful, indifferent and simple temperament, and is easier to satisfy than Westerners. Our nation originally advocates wisdom, and the Chinese people's ideal is to pursue wisdom rather than pursue faith.
He also has a strong sense of principle in helping others. Even if he is a close friend, he will not accommodate any improper purpose. If someone is really in trouble and the purpose is legitimate, even a complete stranger will still be willing to help him. .
I don’t compete with others for profit, but I also don’t want to be exploited by others. When encountering this situation, I have to fight. This is the difference between me and you, but you also know that I still fight for the same reason. , not for money, they are fighting for a breath, not for profit.
I know that the gap between the East and the West can only be understood by the heroic people, the few who have novel insights and keen and profound feelings. The wisdom/philosophy/detachment of the East must be comparable to that of the West. Energy/enthusiasm/fearlessness merge and humanity may see another new culture emerge.
It is really a strange animal. When it is civilized, it can be so civilized and talk about mysteries and reasoning so noble. When it is barbaric, it is no different from wild beasts, or even more cruel.
Maintain a structured routine at home and keep everything in order. You are still young and it is difficult to put these things into practice and stick to them. It can be seen that developing good habits and strengthening willpower is always a good thing. Over time, it will The benefits are endless.
How many artists decline after middle age? Do they really want to? Most of them are dragged down for the family, and the dragging is completely unconscious.
A successful marriage is a great happiness to the parties involved, and the warm time and infinite poetry continue to shine and penetrate into the families of both parties.
Recently, I often think about how insignificant human beings are in the vast world, the world of nebulae, so I feel that it is really arrogant and ridiculous for human beings to claim to be the soul of all things.
Only by appreciating the deeds of our predecessors and seeing the great creations of mankind can we avoid being pessimistic about the situation in front of us and spur ourselves on to do our best to leave impressive achievements in this world.
I often walk alone on the green grass by the water in the forest under the moonlight, breathing in the strong fragrance of grass and earth, or to relieve depression, or to meditate, excessive indoor life and study life It is precisely the cause of the nervousness and morbidity of modern intellectuals, and Xiao Ran's far-reaching, broad-minded and tranquil state of not being stuck in things or concentrating on the heart can only be obtained from nature. You can't deny it, right?
Although the vitality of the young nation is strong, the childish temperament and temperament are still cute and innocent when we have little contact with them.
Just rush forward, regardless of the results, you can risk everything, just focus on the present, and never consider whether it is worth taking risks... It is not difficult to regard life as a feather, this class of people is strong, Able to start a business and innovate, but lacking wisdom, it is difficult to maintain success, and it is not easy to establish a career. If you are too confident, it will not lead to pride. If you come too easily, it will be childish and arrogant. Criticism tends to be rubbish.
Critics who are clever, serious, conscientious and insightful are much rarer than real artists...
Story Summary "Fu Lei's Family Letter" is a very special book. It is a reflection of Fu Lei's thoughts, and can even be said to be the most important work of Fu Lei's life, because "Fu Lei's Family Letter" is a letter between him and his son, which reflects his painstaking efforts as a father towards his son. "Fu Lei's Family Letter" 100% reflects Fu Lei's thoughts. What was written on the paper were commonplace words. He is unrestrained and writes whatever he thinks in his heart. He does not need to worry about "censorship" or "criticism". Because of this, "Fu Lei Family Letter" is like a clear stream in the mountains, like white clouds rolling in the blue sky, like seagulls flying freely on the sea, like a flawless white jade, like a transparent crystal. The feelings are so pure, so sincere. There is no hypocrisy or pretentiousness. The significance of "Fu Lei's Family Letter" far exceeds the scope of Fu Lei's family. Deep fatherly love is reflected everywhere in the book. Perhaps every father loves his children very much, but while loving them, he does not forget to educate them about music, art, philosophy, history, literature and even health, etc. Even in such a large China, it is unknown how many people can achieve all-round education, because this does require sufficient conditions. The father must learn Chinese and Western knowledge, and the son must also be well-informed, and the relationship between father and son is even more important. A full tacit understanding must be reached on the basis of mutual respect and love.
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lt; Fu Lei Family letter gt; Fu Lei and his wife, as models of Chinese parents, have worked hard all their lives to cultivate two children: Fu Cong, a famous piano master, and Fu Min, a special English teacher. The successful embodiment of educational ideas such as individuality, independent thinking, and teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. The sincere teachings of parents in the family letters, the sincere communication between children and parents, and the family affection overflowing between the lines have deeply inspired parents and children all over the world... Fu Lei's family letters only talk about how to educate children.
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This is a This is the best art apprentice cultivation book, and it is also a story about educating children full of father's love. Fu Lei and his wife are models of Chinese parents. They painstakingly and painstakingly cultivated two children: Fu Cong - the famous piano master, Fu Min - -English special teachers are the successful embodiment of their educational ideas such as being a person first and becoming a "family" later, thinking independently, and teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. The long-lasting love between father and son
- Thoughts after reading "Fu Lei Family Letters"
Everyone has experienced the kindness and teachings of their parents. When I read this family letter, I felt a different kind of teaching. I seemed to have found another kind of parent's son, which is something that most children cannot experience. This may be the reason why my admiration for her has not diminished over the past ten years. It was that letter home, like precious heart-to-heart conversations, that brought us closer. I was feeling, listening, and remembering it with all my heart like a good child.
Fu Lei is a famous literary translator and literary critic in my country. He is an erudite, wise and upright scholar with great personality. The mother, Zhu Meifu, is an Oriental woman with Eastern cultural literacy and baptism in Western culture. She is kind-hearted, dignified and virtuous.
His father Fu Lei has extensive and profound research on contemporary Chinese and foreign literature, music, and painting, and his personal cultural accomplishment is extremely high. And the person he trained was his son Fu Cong, who received a good family education since childhood and finally grew into an international master. He deeply understands that art, even like piano playing, requires strict technical factors, but it is by no means "craft", but the embodiment of wholeheartedness and personality.
He educated his son and said: "I always believe that whether you are engaged in learning or art, the most important thing is "people". To develop a "person" as much as possible, before becoming an artist, you must first learn to be a person, otherwise, then, No matter how brilliant Zhong is, he will not make much contribution to mankind. A person who is purely devoted to art has nothing more to do than art and personal personality.
Read "Fu Lei." After "Letters from Home", I was deeply moved by how serious Mr. Fu Lei is about life and how caring he is for his children. The letters from home cover everything from career, life and art to food, clothing, money, everything as a parent. You can learn from it how to educate your children. Those who study art, especially piano, can learn from it how to improve their skills. Friends who are interested in the history from the early days of liberation to the Cultural Revolution can also get some understanding from the description of the person involved, Fu Lei. , and what impressed me the most in this book was the strengthening of personal cultivation. From the words in the letter from home, I can see that Fu Lei is a person who is very strict with himself. In some aspects, he is even mean to himself. Fu Lei asked his son to set the goal. Three principles: do not say anything that is disrespectful to the motherland, do not do anything that is disrespectful to the motherland, and do not adopt another country's nationality. The spirit of loving one's children and educating one's children is touching.
Some people think that letters are the most genuine, natural and honest writing. . Yes, because all the words he writes are what he thinks in his heart immediately. Wherever his thoughts go, the words will go there. This is especially true when writing letters to relatives, and he dares to analyze himself and admit his mistakes in front of his children. It gives experience and lessons from his own experience. Therefore, I think what we should read in Fu Lei’s family letters is Fu Lei himself. Fu Lei also taught children according to their aptitude. In the education of Fu Cong, he originally emphasized it. Skills, and then repeatedly allow him to truly understand the work itself, which means thinking more from the perspective of "why" in everything, so as to see the essence of things. Fu Lei's own ideological experience in educating his children is also constantly improving. What we see is the integration of Chinese and Western cultures. Noble parents have cultivated successful children. The two children whom Fu Lei and his wife have worked hard to cultivate are both very successful. The sincere communication, the family affection overflowing between the lines, gave me a strong inspiration.
After reading Fu Lei’s family letter, I learned a lot, and I understood my parents better. This book is not only an educational book. , is also a book that can bring parents and children closer, allowing children to understand their parents better and parents to understand their children better.