1. I met many people and made some friends along the way. But later, some friends became passers-by, some friends turned against each other, and some friends never met again, which was sad. There is a saying, this time, that time. No one can stay in the past and no one can stay for you.
When I grow up, I find it particularly difficult to be friends. As time goes on, people's hearts are changing. Once, "getting married and bringing children to meet" was just a postscript. Your life is very different from his; What you want to say is not the same channel as what he wants to listen to.
2, no matter where you go, but as long as the other party can leave warm memories in your heart, let you recall, still feel that those years have not been wasted, it is enough. It is not a separation for no reason, but the three views have long been different, and the heart is gradually alienated and slowly withdraws from each other's world.
Don't be surprised that friendship is fragile and short-lived Only when the tide of time dissipates will the stone symbolizing the truth of adult friendship surface. There are only three words for adults to make friends: light, cold and far. Friends, less is less, how long is more.
When you miss the days when two people were together, you should also understand that such two sides are doomed to be separated. It is better to let each other go than to force them together to increase disappointment. Say goodbye quietly like this, go to each other's way before the two have a bigger conflict, but leave the friendship in the best period.
Friends are friends because they understand each other and take the initiative to attack. He pays attention to your news and is willing to listen to you patiently when you have something to do and see what he can do for you. And you, too, always miss each other and keep in touch.
4. In the end, many relationships focus on interests and the value of the other party. Compared with the beginning, there may be less love and sincerity, and more reason and thinking. Today, this is still the case. Under the interests, it is difficult to have sincere friends. Whether we want to mature or not, the other party may have matured long ago. Fading away is just a sign.
When a person can't meet your needs and can't keep up with your pace, you will abandon him intentionally or unintentionally, and you may also be abandoned by others. We will eventually become passers-by in the mountains. What is a friend? People who come together based on similar feelings or interests. So it is also possible to drift away because of the deviation of interests and emotions that are no longer there. "Don't drag friends on the road, find friends on the road."
Everyone has a personality and a direction in life. If you walk with others forcibly, you will lose yourself. As a person who concentrates on reading, if he devotes a large part of his energy to managing the world, he will be disturbed by the world and cannot become a "bystander of the world".
When people reach a certain age, there are many colleagues in the workplace, but they are not friends. Everyone comes for salary and status. People will know many people when they eat, but they will be fine if they put down their glasses. There are many people in the city, but few people smile at you sincerely.